Posted by M143
lol. Things will run smoothly and fast...moving in might no problem if that is what you want.
Posted by lnana04
Wtf lidol? What are you reading? He was the one that suggested resting in the bed Saturday.
Id be pissed too in all honesty, especially if its your only day off AND if it was his suggestion. He could find a way to please everyone if he wanted...not extend himself on one end while royally pissing off the one he cares about the most. Hopefully he comes thru and makes it up to you.
My Taurus is also inconsistent in a way that he makes me feel great then turns around and makes me want to throw in the towel all in the same day. I had to tell him today "Uhhhhhhh we are not going to be doing THIS much longer." He was like "I know" so Im thinking he's feeling my frustration with him. The behavior really does kill the feelings little by little.
Good luck, and you have every right to feel the way you do.
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Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
definitely sense alot of selfishness here. and u seem like u r judging him really harshly in aspects of his character and even intellect, bc your emotions are out of wack. the situation seems really simple - tell him to never make plans and get your hopes up, then ditch, for any reason. It really is something u cant handle. I think you're afraid to say a lot of the things you're venting here, bc he will see a very ugly spiritually toxic side to you. You're repressing a lot of misplaced anger and letting it fester. Your bull seems like a REALLY good guy. Sorry if any of that offends - just my take. What sign are u?
soul talk - u r just projecting, based on some past hurt, little crab...
Posted by anonymousheart
Him: Can u stay in from work, i missed you so much (was out of town) I just wanna cuddle with you.
Me: Nope. I wish we could have time to cuddle and relax, we never do.
Him: What about saturday?
Me: YES! (was going to make my own plans to volunteer with my church, but didn't bc i thought i would spend this time with him)
Me: So why don't u come over friday nite for dinner and cuddles
Him: yea, ok, but i can't hng out saturday.
Me: What?! Well, wasn;t that the whole point
Him: Just not the whole day. I can't spend the whole dayyyy with u
Me: Confused. I didn't ask you to spend the whole day..I just thought..
Him: I have some things i need to do
Me: Like what>
Him: Well im not really sure yet, i just have to do them
Me: You cancelled your plans with me that were your idea, that really pisses me off!
Him: I just have to do this, I can be with u friday nite ok>? (aka cook dinner for me- selfish)
Me: Never mind, I have to go..
Soultalk understands the details. It's a matter of principle, and just the way it made me feel, I've felt before, corresponding with other last minute, not altruistic things....
I admire his need to help , but in circumstances like this I question if it's more for the people he's helping , or his ego. He desperately needs to be needed and tends to project that others need him onto them and then complain about being exasperated by things he volunteers for. I used to feel sorry for him, but then after I saw this over and over again I realized he must like it, or he wouldn't be attaching himself to needy people.
We met actually at a volunteering event. I help out a lot locally and I th