I met this Taurus about 5 years back at a party, we hit it off right away and ended up spending the night together. I was drinking, but all we did was kiss. He didn’t drink but he took care of me and was super sweet. He didn’t initiate anything after the night and neither did I, so we didn’t end up seeing each other for months until we were at another party lol. Again, spent the night talking kissing and being really close. He said he instantly felt a spark with me too like it was really weird for the both of us lol but AGAIN he didn’t initiate anything after SO neither did I..... the 3rd time I ran into him at a party I’m not sure what happened but I must have did something that made him mad, tbh I don’t even remember talking to him but he ended up leaving the party and telling one of his friends he didn’t like my personality. I immediately messaged him the next day when I heard asking him what’s wrong but he didn’t answer and told all his guy friends I messaged him. When I saw him again after that he seemed to have a lot of tension towards me, he’d avoid looking at me and kept a distance. I of course didn’t try, I could tell he didn’t want to talk so I left it alone and that was the last time I saw him. It’s been 5 years and he just showed up on my Instagram as a suggest friend..... I followed him and he immediately followed back. And now I see he’s been watching all my Instagram stories as soon as I post them.
I want to message him on Instagram and move forward and see where things go but I’m scared he’s going to be mean or tell all his friends again that I messaged him. He was 20 at the time so I’m not sure if with age they mature lol but I was pretty embarrassed but I also still feel this weird thing for him but I’m unsure how to approach the situation. If he wanted to talk, wouldn’t he message me?
Him being a jerk or telling his friends like he did 5 years ago LOL
I’m worried about looking too into him. Which is why I made sure not to make moves the other times because I’ve always thought if a guy likes you he will make the move.... but everything I’m ready it says Taurus doesn’t do anything lol which is frustrating.