So I’m a virgo woman who was dating an Aquarius man on and off for 5yrs before he and I made it official years ago. The 5yrs were awesome, but the past two years omggggg its been B A D! If you ever google “aqua man Virgo woman” it describes our relationship from top to bottom - it’s scary. So here’s the problem...
We are both stubborn, a little aggressive, bossy, emotionally detached and self sufficient. As you can see we share all the same bad habits so when it’s bad it’s like WWIII. My biggest problem is the fact that he’s inconsistent AF. Like one minute he likes something, the next minute he doesn’t, one minute he wants to be together, the next minute he doesn’t - he’s all over the place and unfortunately I don’t like being in limbo. I need a definite answer.
We broke up about two weeks and no matter what I did, he just kept telling me he gives up, he’s not willing to change, hed rather be single. Normally I don’t fight for relationships, but he was always the one who fixed our problems in the past a now it’s my turn. He would not budge at all. The next day he was calling me baby, beautiful, gorgeous, etc, but then make comments about fight my new boyfriend- now I’m super confused. I spent months planning his b-day celebration so he agreed to still celebrate with me even though we’re not together. The weekend was great. It almost felt like we met for the first time. Now he’s calling, texting, dm’n me like we never broke up! Has anyone experienced this before???
I am an aqua female who got heart broken by a virgo guy many moons ago. Both signs need a partner who will anchor them. This combo feels like a karmic partnership. Its alluring bc its unique but difficult for the same reasons. Neither one wants to be tied down, but will love the other deeply from a distance. The ultimate unrequited love story