How do Virgos deal with Anger?

I'm curious. I know it is an individual thing, but I was wondering if perhaps there was a dominating theme in how virg
116 years old
well when they get annoyed or think you hurt them, I think they'll just ignore you. When you push their boundaries, it all comes out.
Virgo rising Virgo sun Scorpio moon Libra mercury Libra mars Virgo venus
I was responding to the OP not knowing this is from 2009.

So to Libra girl, find ways to get over him because he got over you already.
Virgo rising Virgo sun Scorpio moon Libra mercury Libra mars Virgo venus
Depends. What is his moon?

Miss Kitty says, go frawk yourself!
You find a thread from 2009 to repost your story? Why? because people where telling you things you didn't want to hear in your thread?

Leave him ALONE. He changed his number that should be answer enough. Rest of my comments will be in the actual thread you created.
Hello I'm dating a Virgo September 15 I'm a Libra October 20 we've been dating for almost 3years We had a lot of drama but we got passed it . But recently he took me there. For his birthday I hired chef to cook for us and tried to make his bday special But as the chef was cooking for us he was texting a women asking if she was gonna give him birthday sex, I didn't trip I continue making sure he had a great bday. The next day he was drinking and wanted to use my car to go to the casino So he went in my purse and found a condom and went nuts I still didn't fight back I just cried after being annoyed with his name calling and crazy ways When he calmed down I told him where it came from He expressed how it made him feel and how he understand where I come from now. The next day I called the women he texted to see if they were using protection because I was having surgery the following day. He called me mad that I did that and said I was acting insecure and I'm not his girl yet, he also said that I make him feel if he does commitment I'm gonna always call his friends to see if they are really friends . I said whatever and left it alone. The. Next day I had surgery and he didn't call or. CHeck to see if I was fine so I called him, we were arguing about me calling the girl and me wanting him to feel sorry for being in pain, he was pissing me off and hurting my feelings to the point I wanted to hurt his I got so upset i said that's why I slept with some men in your bed while you were out doing you! But he had said to me one the exact same thing but he said he did it in my car. I was pissed he was making me mad I wanted him to be pissed! He told me to stop calling him I didn't I called none stop all the way til the next morning. He Ignored my calls / texts and everything The next day he changed his number on me. When I went to get my stuff from him he called the police on me Assuming I was gonna be acting crazy because he wasn't trying to talk but I didn't I just left He didn't or won't say why he stop talking to me and I don't know what to do I contacted all friends and things to see rather I should pursue him or leave it alone. I don't know what to believe anymore. I don't know if he cares or he's just playing me and this other women he really wants and he's mad I contacted her or he just doesn't know about me because of everything we've been threw. I have his back I'm always there for him He always has me up under him all the time I'm just lost and I want him bac
Virgo Male
Posted by Qbone
It takes a lot, I mean A LOT to make a Virgo angry and response is as usual... Calm face appropriate behaviour and then depending on wounds may leave you alone for a while or forever.


To the letter.

You will need to go to the Virgo if you want them back. Even if they are at fault. And its not like they don't know they messed up we just feel ashamed and we wounded you badly that we should go away.

If you wounded us. That is way more tricky. Odds are if we are gone its for good.
anger for me is never immediate so i concur with others in saying it takes a lot for something to go over my tolerance level to anger me. usually repeat offenders will do it for me. things that anger me usually tend to be something maliciously done to hurt me or to someone i care for, with intent. (if you did something stupid out of ignorance then that would just annoy me, not anger me.) reason being, i cannot fathom the idea that someone would be so base as to intentionally be malicious. usually the first time around i'm faced with confusion, second time around hurt, third time around anger. third time's a charm so they say.
Very interesting thread, wish I had seen this years ago. Bumping this to the top.
female
Well lets see it depends, If I havent known you long and you piss me off I can cut you completely off and not contact you again but if you are close to me and I care about you, I will more than likely not say a word until you apologize and if you do make it short and sweet and I normally will accept it and things will be okay again. It also depends on how bad you piss me off if its something big then I will cut you off completely, if its little I'll get over it with a little time to analyze it by myself.
24 years old male
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Posted by LovelyTune
Lol @ stringsattached. thanks that was very helpful, and gave me a laugh at the same time.

oh these virgs are delicate creatures. but sharp, very sharp.


You are so right with that comment. When we get angry, hurt, whatever... and you might not know we are upset bc most of the time we go silent in our own world, BUT real hurt, anger, distrust really hits deep with us, even though we wouldn't let you know it. Double-edged sword. I know I personally go out of my way not to hurt or anger someone unless I am really, really pissed.
32 years old female
Figure it out on your own... Sun27??14'Virgo Moon17??16'Cancer Mercury
Maybe I won't speak to them in the beginning (first few hours), but as long as they can figure out on their own what they did...I'm cool.
I can figure out what I do wrong all on my own, and so it annoys me greatly when other people can't figure it out for themselves. I'm not a babysitter.
We internalize the situation , analyze the intention , if you worth being around confront you after withdrawing , or simply coming back as if nothing happened , or leave you lone forever depending on how big the offense was ...
As a female Virgo I know I have a lot of patience with people. I have so much patience that it seems like I have no dignity. I am not one to "fly off the handle" and tell someone off. However, if someone repeatedly pisses me off and doesn't seem to get it, whether they are intentionally doing it or not, I will show my displeasure by not acting as friendly with them. If they continue to not get it and keep it up, I will move on and never look back. If it's a one time or two time thing I can deal, but if the same offense happens repeatedly with complete disregard to my feelings I will cut the person off indefinitely. I will make it like I never existed to them. If I run into them by coincidence I will avoid them to the best of my ability and if that's not possible I will act like everything's ok, but once I am out of their presence, I no longer exist to them again.

If someone does something so miserable with only the pure intention to hurt me, that's it. It can be a friend or aquaintance. I will cut them off and not only ignore their existence, but like I said, I will no longer exist to them either. I will make sure I am not seen or heard from again. I have lost a lot of so-called friends because of this.

I can only be pissed off by the same people so many times before something in my mind snaps and I completely disconnect. At that point nothing will bring me back, because as I said, I had extreme patience throughout and if they didn't get it, they don't know me or they don't care. If they purposely hurt me I see red because never in my life have I ever hurt anyone intentionally. I am a great reader of people and know if I may have said or done something offensive, but I rarely do. If I do hurt someone I apologize and try my best to make it up to them. For hurt to be caused to me intentionally is definitely grounds for dismissal from my life.
female from San Fransisco, California
I agree with Jayna001. Last time I actually yelled at someone because of anger was years ago. Most of the time when I get angry, I just need some time to cool off, think things through. I remember this once I got mad at one of my house mates. I immediately took off and let my self cool down and think about stuff objectively. When I came back home, I was able to talk to her again like nothing had happened.
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