SuperSize9
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Affection or Good Sex
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And No you can’t have both lol
Posted by Scheherazade
Affection > Sex
Hands down.
Ok I guess I’m loosing by 1. I just feel the physical act has to be more.
Posted by PinsAndNeedles
Both
Which one could you do with out.
Posted by dillpickle
affection is important, definitely.
But it’s not real
Sex is real
Some Women are confusing I guess, affection is all in the head. Anybody can do with out affection but I doubt if A women/man can do with out sex.
Posted by sagaciouscorp
The difference between sex and making love
Sex is making love
Isn't a person affectionate while having sex? I will take passionate sex over affection like hand holding and cuddling, any day of the week. I need affection shown to me on the inside, not outside 😄
right now i live off on emotional attachment
but i'm finding out how greedy i really am
but i'm finding out how greedy i really am
Posted by dillpicklePosted by SuperSize9Posted by dillpickle
affection is important, definitely.
But it’s not real
Sex is real
Some Women are confusing I guess, affection is all in the head. Anybody can do with out affection but I doubt if A women/man can do with out sex.
affection maintains intimacy when sex is not happening.click to expand
Ok, makes sense like when she’s trying cuddle on me while watching a movie. Which she likes but makes me feel hot and annoyed.
Posted by saggurl88
Isn't a person affectionate while having sex? I will take passionate sex over affection like hand holding and cuddling, any day of the week. I need affection shown to me on the inside, not outside 😄
Lol what is your definition of passionate sex. Is everything before, after or during
Posted by virgoOPPP
right now i live off on emotional attachment
but i'm finding out how greedy i really am
So no sex and your satisfied with that?
Posted by sagaciouscorpPosted by dillpicklePosted by SuperSize9Posted by sagaciouscorp
The difference between sex and making love
Sex is making love
no it isnt.
I second that
Think of a
One night stand quickieclick to expand
I consider any act of sex making love because your inside someone and that’s personal your deep in another human being seeing each other in very private way.
Posted by SuperSize9Posted by saggurl88
Isn't a person affectionate while having sex? I will take passionate sex over affection like hand holding and cuddling, any day of the week. I need affection shown to me on the inside, not outside 😄
Lol what is your definition of passionate sex. Is everything before, after or duringclick to expand
Foreplay leading up to sex, then BOTH of us orgasming. The hugs and stuff afterwards, I usually don't do unless the guy wants to.
I'm tired, hot and done. I either want to go to sleep after or go another round. Any type of sexual caressing will lead to another round.
Posted by PinsAndNeedlesPosted by SuperSize9Posted by PinsAndNeedles
Both
Which one could you do with out.
The guy that couldn't give me both.
https://i.imgur.com/bJbIoQc.gif<div class="bqfade">click to expand
Ok
Lol But the honest question is if you had to say bye to one
Posted by SuperSize9Posted by virgoOPPP
right now i live off on emotional attachment
but i'm finding out how greedy i really am
So no sex and your satisfied with that?click to expand
i'm annoyed, became cold and admitted to feeling cold about the relationship
but i'm not letting go coz i'm emotionally invested
it's also partly the pandemic
Posted by sagaciouscorp
The difference between sex and making love
I can't "make love", it's just not something I get hard about.. it's got a completely different feel to me than actual sex.
Posted by dillpicklePosted by SuperSize9Posted by sagaciouscorp
The difference between sex and making love
Sex is making love
no it isnt.click to expand
Agree
Posted by saggurl88Posted by SuperSize9Posted by saggurl88
Isn't a person affectionate while having sex? I will take passionate sex over affection like hand holding and cuddling, any day of the week. I need affection shown to me on the inside, not outside 😄
Lol what is your definition of passionate sex. Is everything before, after or during
Foreplay leading up to sex, then BOTH of us orgasming. The hugs and stuff afterwards, I usually don't do unless the guy wants to.
I'm tired, hot and done. I either want to go to sleep after or go another round. Any type of sexual caressing will lead to another round.click to expand
Hmmmm then I guess my girl is right I may be affectionate then because I do that
But I’m ask you same question if you HAD to choose which one would stay and which one would go?
Posted by sagaciouscorpPosted by SuperSize9Posted by sagaciouscorpPosted by dillpicklePosted by SuperSize9Posted by sagaciouscorp
The difference between sex and making love
Sex is making love
no it isnt.
I second that
Think of a
One night stand quickie
I consider any act of sex making love because your inside someone and that’s personal your deep in another human being seeing each other in very private way.
There is such thing as meaningless sexclick to expand
There is a belief in meaningless sex. But that’s not true all sex means something. If there is such thing as meaningless sex then there are a lot of meaningless babies in the world.
Posted by dillpicklePosted by SuperSize9Posted by sagaciouscorpPosted by dillpicklePosted by SuperSize9Posted by sagaciouscorp
The difference between sex and making love
Sex is making love
no it isnt.
I second that
Think of a
One night stand quickie
I consider any act of sex making love because your inside someone and that’s personal your deep in another human being seeing each other in very private way.
do you have fire placements? i often find that fire placements equate sex w/ intimacy.
making love is when emotions & love feelings are involved.
sex is just a physical act. for me, sex does not have to be intimate or meaningful.click to expand
Yes Air and Leo I rarely feel like a Virgo lol
Posted by SuperSize9Posted by saggurl88Posted by SuperSize9Posted by saggurl88
Isn't a person affectionate while having sex? I will take passionate sex over affection like hand holding and cuddling, any day of the week. I need affection shown to me on the inside, not outside 😄
Lol what is your definition of passionate sex. Is everything before, after or during
Foreplay leading up to sex, then BOTH of us orgasming. The hugs and stuff afterwards, I usually don't do unless the guy wants to.
I'm tired, hot and done. I either want to go to sleep after or go another round. Any type of sexual caressing will lead to another round.
Hmmmm then I guess my girl is right I may be affectionate then because I do that
But I’m ask you same question if you HAD to choose which one would stay and which one would go?click to expand
I answered it. I take sex over typical, non sexual affection. But I'm not an affectionate person. I rarely touch my partner, unless we are about to have sex. I don't even hug him. I wasn't raised in an affectionate household, so I naturally don't show it.
Just having sex without the making love element can be boring....
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by SuperSize9Posted by virgoOPPP
right now i live off on emotional attachment
but i'm finding out how greedy i really am
So no sex and your satisfied with that?
i'm annoyed, became cold and admitted to feeling cold about the relationship
but i'm not letting go coz i'm emotionally invested
it's also partly the pandemicclick to expand
So your stuck emotionally. Emotional baggage.
I feel women will have sex with another guy to break off emotional attachment to current guy so sex maybe stronger.
Posted by MyStarsShine
Just having sex without the making love element can be boring....
I feel the opposite; the making love element makes it boring.
I dont fuck i make luv
Posted by sagaciouscorpPosted by Enfant-Terrible-IIPosted by sagaciouscorp
The difference between sex and making love
I can't "make love", it's just not something I get hard about.. it's got a completely different feel to me than actual sex.
Is sex different when you are in love with someone ? Just curiousclick to expand
No, I just have sex with that one person and I’m willing to do more sexually
Posted by WhorpioPosted by MyStarsShine
Just having sex without the making love element can be boring....
I feel the opposite; the making love element makes it boring.click to expand
You like sex without connection. I’m
water dominant so it has to be fuelled with feeling or it just becomes a shag 🥴
Posted by SuperSize9Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by SuperSize9Posted by virgoOPPP
right now i live off on emotional attachment
but i'm finding out how greedy i really am
So no sex and your satisfied with that?
i'm annoyed, became cold and admitted to feeling cold about the relationship
but i'm not letting go coz i'm emotionally invested
it's also partly the pandemic
So your stuck emotionally. Emotional baggage.
I feel women will have sex with another guy to break off emotional attachment to current guy so sex maybe stronger.click to expand
emotional attachment is more important to me
plus we have the same goals
i just get moody like this sometimes
Posted by saggurl88Posted by SuperSize9Posted by saggurl88Posted by SuperSize9Posted by saggurl88
Isn't a person affectionate while having sex? I will take passionate sex over affection like hand holding and cuddling, any day of the week. I need affection shown to me on the inside, not outside 😄
Lol what is your definition of passionate sex. Is everything before, after or during
Foreplay leading up to sex, then BOTH of us orgasming. The hugs and stuff afterwards, I usually don't do unless the guy wants to.
I'm tired, hot and done. I either want to go to sleep after or go another round. Any type of sexual caressing will lead to another round.
Hmmmm then I guess my girl is right I may be affectionate then because I do that
But I’m ask you same question if you HAD to choose which one would stay and which one would go?
I answered it. I take sex over typical, non sexual affection. But I'm not an affectionate person. I rarely touch my partner, unless we are about to have sex. I don't even hug him. I wasn't raised in an affectionate household, so I naturally don't show it.click to expand
That’s how I am. I thought it was my detached signs.
What’s your moon and Venus?
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by SuperSize9Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by SuperSize9Posted by virgoOPPP
right now i live off on emotional attachment
but i'm finding out how greedy i really am
So no sex and your satisfied with that?
i'm annoyed, became cold and admitted to feeling cold about the relationship
but i'm not letting go coz i'm emotionally invested
it's also partly the pandemic
So your stuck emotionally. Emotional baggage.
I feel women will have sex with another guy to break off emotional attachment to current guy so sex maybe stronger.
emotional attachment is more important to me
plus we have the same goals
i just get moody like this sometimesclick to expand
Let me guess libra moon
Posted by PinsAndNeedlesPosted by SuperSize9Posted by PinsAndNeedles
Both
Which one could you do with out.
The guy that couldn't give me both.
https://i.imgur.com/bJbIoQc.gif<div class="bqfade">click to expand
A skilled lover who is tuned into you always will!
Posted by ScheherazadePosted by WhorpioPosted by Scheherazade I mean for me if there is no affection there is no sex. Period.
https://thumbs.gfycat.com/AnchoredTangibleBettong-size_restricted.gif<div class="bqfade">click to expand
Jesus You sound like my girlfriend 🤦♂️
Posted by SuperSize9Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by SuperSize9Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by SuperSize9Posted by virgoOPPP
right now i live off on emotional attachment
but i'm finding out how greedy i really am
So no sex and your satisfied with that?
i'm annoyed, became cold and admitted to feeling cold about the relationship
but i'm not letting go coz i'm emotionally invested
it's also partly the pandemic
So your stuck emotionally. Emotional baggage.
I feel women will have sex with another guy to break off emotional attachment to current guy so sex maybe stronger.
emotional attachment is more important to me
plus we have the same goals
i just get moody like this sometimes
Let me guess libra moonclick to expand
i'm offended
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by WhorpioPosted by MyStarsShine
Just having sex without the making love element can be boring....
I feel the opposite; the making love element makes it boring.
You like sex without connection. I’m
water dominant so it has to be fuelled with feeling or it just becomes a shag 🥴click to expand
A shag is the goal sex is the goal at the end anyway
Posted by SuperSize9Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by WhorpioPosted by MyStarsShine
Just having sex without the making love element can be boring....
I feel the opposite; the making love element makes it boring.
You like sex without connection. I’m
water dominant so it has to be fuelled with feeling or it just becomes a shag 🥴
A shag is the goal sex is the goal at the end anywayclick to expand
Then shag anyone lol
Posted by sagaciouscorpPosted by Enfant-Terrible-IIPosted by sagaciouscorp
The difference between sex and making love
I can't "make love", it's just not something I get hard about.. it's got a completely different feel to me than actual sex.
Is sex different when you are in love with someone ? Just curiousclick to expand
Yeah, but by then I know you well so a lot of the everyday life shit follows into the bedroom aswell.. Sexually I think i prefer it when i don't know you so i can project my own ideas of "you". The 'Last Tango in Paris' complex..
And before u go there prostitutes don't cut it cuz I don't get off having sex with someone who isn't into me.
Posted by dillpicklePosted by SuperSize9Posted by dillpicklePosted by SuperSize9Posted by sagaciouscorpPosted by SuperSize9Posted by sagaciouscorpPosted by dillpicklePosted by SuperSize9Posted by sagaciouscorp
The difference between sex and making love
Sex is making love
no it isnt.
I second that
Think of a
One night stand quickie
I consider any act of sex making love because your inside someone and that’s personal your deep in another human being seeing each other in very private way.
There is such thing as meaningless sex
There is a belief in meaningless sex. But that’s not true all sex means something. If there is such thing as meaningless sex then there are a lot of meaningless babies in the world.
um not all sex leads to babies...
Sex between women and man will always lead to babies.
no it doesntclick to expand
Of course it doesn’t...lol 🥴
Posted by ScheherazadePosted by SuperSize9Posted by ScheherazadePosted by WhorpioPosted by Scheherazade I mean for me if there is no affection there is no sex. Period.
Jesus You sound like my girlfriend 🤦♂️
She must be pretty quiet.click to expand
No very talkative and energetic. In bed very loud, she always initiates touching kissing I go with it because I know I’m about get sex next
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by dillpicklePosted by SuperSize9Posted by dillpicklePosted by SuperSize9Posted by sagaciouscorpPosted by SuperSize9Posted by sagaciouscorpPosted by dillpicklePosted by SuperSize9Posted by sagaciouscorp
The difference between sex and making love
Sex is making love
no it isnt.
I second that
Think of a
One night stand quickie
I consider any act of sex making love because your inside someone and that’s personal your deep in another human being seeing each other in very private way.
There is such thing as meaningless sex
There is a belief in meaningless sex. But that’s not true all sex means something. If there is such thing as meaningless sex then there are a lot of meaningless babies in the world.
um not all sex leads to babies...
Sex between women and man will always lead to babies.
no it doesnt
Of course it doesn’t...lol 🥴click to expand
Sex only purpose is only for reproduction. And for reproduction we get a reward orgasams.
Posted by ScheherazadePosted by SuperSize9Posted by ScheherazadePosted by SuperSize9Posted by ScheherazadePosted by WhorpioPosted by Scheherazade I mean for me if there is no affection there is no sex. Period.
Jesus You sound like my girlfriend 🤦♂️
She must be pretty quiet.
No very talkative and energetic. In bed very loud, she always initiates touching kissing I go with it because I know I’m about get sex next
Ewwwwwwwclick to expand
Lol excuse me lol
Posted by ScheherazadePosted by dillpicklePosted by MyStarsShinePosted by dillpicklePosted by SuperSize9Posted by dillpicklePosted by SuperSize9Posted by sagaciouscorpPosted by SuperSize9Posted by sagaciouscorpPosted by dillpicklePosted by SuperSize9Posted by sagaciouscorp
The difference between sex and making love
Sex is making love
no it isnt.
I second that
Think of a
One night stand quickie
I consider any act of sex making love because your inside someone and that’s personal your deep in another human being seeing each other in very private way.
There is such thing as meaningless sex
There is a belief in meaningless sex. But that’s not true all sex means something. If there is such thing as meaningless sex then there are a lot of meaningless babies in the world.
um not all sex leads to babies...
Sex between women and man will always lead to babies.
no it doesnt
Of course it doesn’t...lol 🥴
i have had hella sex with dudes & never been pregnant nor do i ever plan on it. i take precautions to prevent it.
i am starting to think this is a troll thread lol
This is the dude that panicked he was gay based on a dreamclick to expand
And
Would u like me to change my avatar so I can be some one else.
Posted by SuperSize9Posted by saggurl88Posted by SuperSize9Posted by saggurl88Posted by SuperSize9Posted by saggurl88
Isn't a person affectionate while having sex? I will take passionate sex over affection like hand holding and cuddling, any day of the week. I need affection shown to me on the inside, not outside 😄
Lol what is your definition of passionate sex. Is everything before, after or during
Foreplay leading up to sex, then BOTH of us orgasming. The hugs and stuff afterwards, I usually don't do unless the guy wants to.
I'm tired, hot and done. I either want to go to sleep after or go another round. Any type of sexual caressing will lead to another round.
Hmmmm then I guess my girl is right I may be affectionate then because I do that
But I’m ask you same question if you HAD to choose which one would stay and which one would go?
I answered it. I take sex over typical, non sexual affection. But I'm not an affectionate person. I rarely touch my partner, unless we are about to have sex. I don't even hug him. I wasn't raised in an affectionate household, so I naturally don't show it.
That’s how I am. I thought it was my detached signs.
What’s your moon and Venus?click to expand
My moon is in Cancer and my Venus is in Scorpio- You would think I wouldn't be as detached, but I was raised in a cold environment, so I am cold. I think it has to do with upbringing.
Posted by dillpicklePosted by MyStarsShinePosted by dillpicklePosted by SuperSize9Posted by dillpicklePosted by SuperSize9Posted by sagaciouscorpPosted by SuperSize9Posted by sagaciouscorpPosted by dillpicklePosted by SuperSize9Posted by sagaciouscorp
The difference between sex and making love
Sex is making love
no it isnt.
I second that
Think of a
One night stand quickie
I consider any act of sex making love because your inside someone and that’s personal your deep in another human being seeing each other in very private way.
There is such thing as meaningless sex
There is a belief in meaningless sex. But that’s not true all sex means something. If there is such thing as meaningless sex then there are a lot of meaningless babies in the world.
um not all sex leads to babies...
Sex between women and man will always lead to babies.
no it doesnt
Of course it doesn’t...lol 🥴
i have had hella sex with dudes & never been pregnant nor do i ever plan on it. i take precautions to prevent it.
i am starting to think this is a troll thread lolclick to expand
It has to be 🥴
Posted by ScheherazadePosted by WhorpioPosted by Scheherazade I mean for me if there is no affection there is no sex. Period.
https://thumbs.gfycat.com/AnchoredTangibleBettong-size_restricted.gif<div class="bqfade">click to expand
Affection. I rather cuddle than fuck.
-shrugs-
-shrugs-
Lots of ill-defined words and concepts ITT
Posted by saggurl88Posted by SuperSize9Posted by saggurl88Posted by SuperSize9Posted by saggurl88Posted by SuperSize9Posted by saggurl88
Isn't a person affectionate while having sex? I will take passionate sex over affection like hand holding and cuddling, any day of the week. I need affection shown to me on the inside, not outside 😄
Lol what is your definition of passionate sex. Is everything before, after or during
Foreplay leading up to sex, then BOTH of us orgasming. The hugs and stuff afterwards, I usually don't do unless the guy wants to.
I'm tired, hot and done. I either want to go to sleep after or go another round. Any type of sexual caressing will lead to another round.
Hmmmm then I guess my girl is right I may be affectionate then because I do that
But I’m ask you same question if you HAD to choose which one would stay and which one would go?
I answered it. I take sex over typical, non sexual affection. But I'm not an affectionate person. I rarely touch my partner, unless we are about to have sex. I don't even hug him. I wasn't raised in an affectionate household, so I naturally don't show it.
That’s how I am. I thought it was my detached signs.
What’s your moon and Venus?
My moon is in Cancer and my Venus is in Scorpio- You would think I wouldn't be as detached, but I was raised in a cold environment, so I am cold. I think it has to do with upbringing.click to expand
What lol cancer and your detached. That’s just unbelievable cancer is at home on the moon your supposed to be emotional being. Exalted by the moon wow
Yea you must have gone through so real Shit
Posted by ScheherazadePosted by hydorah
Lots of ill-defined words ands concepts ITT
Andsclick to expand
No very wrong
Posted by ScheherazadePosted by hydorah
Lots of ill-defined words ands concepts ITT
Andsclick to expand
No very wrong
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