Finally tired of virgo "friend."

Kept having too many arguments the last couple of years. Landlady living in the house is someone he hates. Every so often he projects yet another despised characteristic of hers on to me. Late Oct. he called to yell, scream and swear. I had taken too
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  • Mimi24
    ? Leo ?
    24 years old female
    Posted by sweet_and_low
    Posted by Dip
    Yeah virgos will try and drown you in all their negative bullshzt. One sign I would never want to live with. I'm optimistic 90% of the time while they're pessimistic 90



    no, we are trying to help , many ppl are delusional.
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    That "help" isn't needed lol.
  • Mimi24
    ? Leo ?
    24 years old female
    Posted by P-Angel
    Posted by Dip

    they're pessimistic 90





    Fact !!

    But, everything serves a purpose. There is balance in the world.

    who really wants everything to be unicorns and butterflies?

    The problem is that a person has this trait .... it's that everyone around them has negative feelings about the person, when no negativity is intended with that trait.

    it's very bizarre to me how ignorant people are. If thy hear something they don't like, especially about themselves, they become utter markers ... but, feel justified within themselves to be this marker, eventhough it makes them exactly as the person they complain about.

    People are really this ignorant !!!!



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    It could be reversed and say the same things about virgos. Both sides can be just as much ignorant. Someone being pessimist all the time isn't something people want to be around mostly. They can keep it real but don't complain if people can't stick around too much negativity. That's not what makes people continue to fight and survive on this World, but Hope does.
  • 81gems
    "Oh, my name, it ain't nothing. My age, it means less..."
    Posted by sweet_and_low
    Posted by gemini64
    Posted by Weeds
    Not you op I was referring to mister optimistic being too serious. Annnnyyywaaay. ..
    On topic.. sometimes a Virgo will intentionally sabotages a friendship.
    They have their reasons. Sometimes valid sometimes not. While it takes them time to figure things out on their own. It's hard to fix what they intentionally break.
    Loner life style consists of pushing people away.
    Comfort zone.


    *sometimes a Virgo will intentionally sabotages a friendship.

    *Loner life style consists of pushing people away.

    Truer words never stated.




    not really, we're probably just busy, virgos dont sabotage...loll we save.

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    Not relating to any zodiac sign or male/female. Strictly something I've learned as I've aged. "Busy" is bull butter. When one wants to make time for something/someone, they will. I'm not talking about the "busy at work couldn't answer your text" thing. I mean, "Sorry you haven't heard from me in two weeks/months/years. I've been really busy."

    bull butter.
  • Posted by gemini64
    Posted by Weeds
    Not you op I was referring to mister optimistic being too serious. Annnnyyywaaay. ..
    On topic.. sometimes a Virgo will intentionally sabotages a friendship.
    They have their reasons. Sometimes valid sometimes not. While it takes them time to figure things out on their own. It's hard to fix what they intentionally break.
    Loner life style consists of pushing people away.
    Comfort zone.


    *sometimes a Virgo will intentionally sabotages a friendship.

    *Loner life style consists of pushing people away.

    Truer words never stated.


    click to expand


    not really, we're probably just busy, virgos dont sabotage...loll we save.

  • gemini64
    from USA
    Posted by Weeds
    Not you op I was referring to mister optimistic being too serious. Annnnyyywaaay. ..
    On topic.. sometimes a Virgo will intentionally sabotages a friendship.
    They have their reasons. Sometimes valid sometimes not. While it takes them time to figure things out on their own. It's hard to fix what they intentionally break.
    Loner life style consists of pushing people away.
    Comfort zone.


    *sometimes a Virgo will intentionally sabotages a friendship.

    *Loner life style consists of pushing people away.

    Truer words never stated.


  • Posted by Dip
    Yeah virgos will try and drown you in all their negative bullshzt. One sign I would never want to live with. I'm optimistic 90% of the time while they're pessimistic 90



    no, we are trying to help , many ppl are delusional.
  • 81gems
    "Oh, my name, it ain't nothing. My age, it means less..."
    Posted by Lord-Paladin
    Posted by 81gems
    Kept having too many arguments the last couple of years. Landlady living in the house is someone he hates. Every so often he projects yet another despised characteristic of hers on to me.

    Late Oct. he called to yell, scream and swear. I had taken too long to mail something I had to make for him that he wanted. Indeed I did take a while, still I thought he was a little excessive since I'd told him just HOURS before this that I was mailing it the next day.

    I was pissed and told him so in an email some days later. He ignored everything I said. Continued to ask for another item he wanted. I pressed the issue and it got worse from there. He kept emailing back more and more snide remarks every time. I sent him the damn stuff he wanted and put myself at more of a distance.

    He emailed the NIGHT BEFORE Thanksgiving. Said "Happy Thanksgiving" and "Got the stuff. Thanks! Etc., etc., etc....." I didn't check my email until Thanksgiving EVENING I was so busy. By then, he emailed a second time, calling me a cookiemonster for not acknowledging his previous email.

    I was shocked and mad. From that point on it got worse. Nothing I said got through. Another reply with another jab from him. I finally had to say my peace and tell him I was done talking. He followed that up with yet another dig.

    I am sad that his refusal to see how he acted, and his continued insults finished ruining our friendship. And I'm pissed off with myself for letting all he said bother me to begin with.

    I stayed friends with him because it wasn't all bad. He was much nicer a few years ago and we bonded and were pretty decent friends that respected one another. He's all alone and has no family or real, longstanding friends now. The times I felt like ending the friendship before, I never did because I'd always feel guilty. Ugh!


    Holy hell, what an marker! You okay?
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    Yeah. I'm fine. Thanks for asking.

  • 81gems
    "Oh, my name, it ain't nothing. My age, it means less..."
    Posted by DwellingOnMove
    so far we had three "I'm tired of" threads for Sags and one for Virgos on DXP.

    friends help Saturn master.

    Let's look at it positively. Team Sag wins.


    Well this guy has a Sag moon, so no. Both teams LOSE! smile
  • P-Angel
    Cancer Moon in 12th house trines Neptune
    59 years old female
    Posted by 81gems

    I had taken too long to mail something I had to make for him that he wanted. Indeed I did take a while, still I thought he was a little excessive since I'd told him just HOURS before this that I was mailing it the next day.




    Before the above quote, you had just finished telling us that you have been friends with him for a couple years. Certainly, in that time, you had gotten to know him well enough to know what would set him off. Certainly, you would have gotten to know him well enough to know his character, values and standards.

    So, that means that you would have already known that if you purposely neglected to do something that you told him you would do ... that it would be a thorn in his side.

    So, my question is: Why did you intentionally set out to rub him the wrong way?

    You stated that know full well that you took an excessive amount of time to do something for him that you promised to do promptly ... if this were not true then you wouldn't have a need to say: "Indeed I did take a while".

    I understand being frustrated .... but, I don't understand your justification for trashing him, when you purposely pissed him off.

    that doesn't show bad on his character .... it shows bad on yours.


  • P-Angel
    Cancer Moon in 12th house trines Neptune
    59 years old female
    Posted by Dip

    they're pessimistic 90





    Fact !!

    But, everything serves a purpose. There is balance in the world.

    who really wants everything to be unicorns and butterflies?

    The problem is that a person has this trait .... it's that everyone around them has negative feelings about the person, when no negativity is intended with that trait.

    it's very bizarre to me how ignorant people are. If thy hear something they don't like, especially about themselves, they become utter markers ... but, feel justified within themselves to be this marker, eventhough it makes them exactly as the person they complain about.

    People are really this ignorant !!!!



  • DwellingOnMove
    ¡Ayúdame a mejorar mi español!
    so far we had three "I'm tired of" threads for Sags and one for Virgos on DXP.

    friends help Saturn master.

    Let's look at it positively. Team Sag wins.
  • pinkbird03
    Cancer 💕
    I stayed friends with someone I felt bad for. She had no family, friends, etc. but she was toxic as hell. Always negative, finding ways to argue, very needy Had to end it for my own mental health. Do what's best for you.
  • Weeds
    27% of the world has homicidal tendencies... the rest are just victims
    Not you op I was referring to mister optimistic being too serious. Annnnyyywaaay. ..
    On topic.. sometimes a Virgo will intentionally sabotages a friendship.
    They have their reasons. Sometimes valid sometimes not. While it takes them time to figure things out on their own. It's hard to fix what they intentionally break.
    Loner life style consists of pushing people away.
    Comfort zone.
  • Weeds
    27% of the world has homicidal tendencies... the rest are just victims
    I like getting under people's skin. I'm such a bad person.
    LOL
  • Dip
    27% of the world has homicidal tendencies... the rest are just victims ???.

    lol More negative B.S. Your tagline is the posterchild for 1 pessimistic mofo
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