Hi there, can i get some help pls!!!

I met this virgo man at a bar one night while i was with my coworker ( they used to work together). A rowdy group of people came in which took my coworkers attention from me, which left me and virgo alone to talk. We hit it off, but hes so handsome and i
That is so bizzare. Maybe he will appear later in your life hun. Don't lose hope. But also, do not wait around for him. Do your thing
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Marine Sun, Virgin Moon, Centaur Ascendant
Posted by Coolgirl32
Lol. @RemixGeneralFishy. I just had a moment of clarity. As a traditional Scorpio girl, im more offended that he stood me up/ghosted on me. Which clearly shows the level of importance i had his life ... Maybe he'll come back, maybe he wont. But im a little too cute to be waiting


In which case he's in deep butter.

The way I deal with my Virgo friends when they've done something to annoy me/piss me off, I use comedy with kick.

Send him this


It's funny, but gets the point across. Noone ghosts a Scorpio gal and lives to tell the story.
Lol. @RemixGeneralFishy. I just had a moment of clarity. As a traditional Scorpio girl, im more offended that he stood me up/ghosted on me. Which clearly shows the level of importance i had his life ... Maybe he'll come back, maybe he wont. But im a little too cute to be waiting
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Marine Sun, Virgin Moon, Centaur Ascendant
Posted by Coolgirl32
Thank you guys


Wait till you get my bill
Taurus Sun/Rising - Cap Moon - Aries Venus/Mercury - Pisces Mars
Posted by VirgoGent
I've never been one to ghost so it's hard for me to relate to all of the Virgo ghosting stories. It's true that I don't like to be rushed but I'm not one for radio silence. I hate being ignored and find it very rude. Not something I would do to someone whether I'm interested or not. I enjoy being with a woman who stays in contact as it lets me know she is interested. If she were to stop all communication for two weeks I wouldn't continue to pursue. I would actually stop trying after the second day of no contact.

I always begin to mirror their communication output. If their effort begins to fade, so will mine.

My advice would be to move on and live your life.


I so agree. I wouldn't care what the sign or the reason was - if there is no contact, there is no interest and so with nothing there, just move on with your life ... if ever you happen to meet up with him you know how he rolls so ...

36 years old male
I've never been one to ghost so it's hard for me to relate to all of the Virgo ghosting stories. It's true that I don't like to be rushed but I'm not one for radio silence. I hate being ignored and find it very rude. Not something I would do to someone whether I'm interested or not. I enjoy being with a woman who stays in contact as it lets me know she is interested. If she were to stop all communication for two weeks I wouldn't continue to pursue. I would actually stop trying after the second day of no contact.

I always begin to mirror their communication output. If their effort begins to fade, so will mine.

My advice would be to move on and live your life.
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Met a Virgo online once and I thought we had a good connection. We talked about meeting and then he did the same thing. First and only time I've been ghosted. He never came back.
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Marine Sun, Virgin Moon, Centaur Ascendant
One of the worst things you can do to a Virgo is rush him when he doesn't want to be rushed. They will often go radio silent for days/weeks, and that's because it's how they recharge their batteries. Actually instead of typing all that up again, here's what I said to another girl who was asking about Virgos.

- Virgos are more sensitive than they appear to be, so don't humiliate them in public or make fun of them in a mean way. They like to feel respected and this is not the way to do it. Poking light-hearted fun is ok once in a while, as long as you don't overdo it.

- they enjoy their "time away from the world" - it's when they recharge their physical/mental batteries & process thoughts and feelings - so if he's not answering his phone or responding to your texts in a timely manner, don't jump to conclusions. It's not personal like he doesn't want to see you or he's mad at you. He's just recharging. He'll get back to you when he's ready. Respect their need for alone time and it will go a long way.

- Virgos love to laugh, it's a major stress relief for them.

- they are very susceptible to getting trapped in a situation where they feel obligated to stay with someone out of duty, don't confuse that with "love". Entrapment breeds resentment, so don't make him feel trapped.

- they communicate more through actions than words, so don't freak out if they don't say "I love you" back. They can also apologize through actions, like buying you a gift instead of saying "sorry".

- their minds can be quite burdened by everyday stuff or matters of "the big picture" so make time for them to have a good whinge. It's another significant stress relief and you can really get to know them better this way, by having them just unload their thoughts. He'll really appreciate you for it (might even kiss you as "thank you" - I should know lol).

- they don't like to mince words so if you ask for their opinion, you're gonna get the blunt version. And whatever you do, do NOT laugh at their beliefs. They take them very seriously.

They can be very beautiful people once you get past their initial standoffish demeanor. Just don't be pushy with them, and don't tell them what to do. Merely make a suggestion and let them figure it out. To some people it might sound like too much work, but if you're capable of treating someone with courtesy you should be fine. Treat him like you want to be treated yourself.


How do I know all this? I'm a Pisces with Virgo moon, and I'm more like a Virgo than Pisces. Also the man I love is a Virgo, as well as my best friend. So I got tons of virginal experience.

Specifically to your predicament, him going radio silent is nothing personal. He'll get back to you when he's ready. UNLESS he stands you up, then kick his ass because you don't deserve to be treated that way if you haven't done anything wrong.

Send him a text or voicemail, keep it brief, ask him if you're still going out tonight. Say something like you're looking forward to it but don't be too obvious.
I met this virgo man at a bar one night while i was with my coworker ( they used to work together). A rowdy group of people came in which took my coworkers attention from me, which left me and virgo alone to talk. We hit it off, but hes so handsome and i was extremely plain looking that night i didnt think anything of it.... However the next couple of days i was thinking of him bc of the lovely conversation we had. I brushed it off bc i never thought i would see him again... Surprisngly my coworker(s) and i were at the same bar the day before Christmas eve and he walked in!! That night he got my number and he called me same night, we even talked for 2 hours. He asked to see me again and we talked every day. Some really magical vibes were going on, I even heard him Almost say he loved me. So now its the day of our first date and he completely dissappears. No texts or calls for 2 weeks... Should i keep hoping hell get back to me or just get over it????

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