Virgos are very self independent and shy. They love love and life just like everybody else, they just have a different way of expressing it. Some find it very hard to break open a Virgo male, they come off as very shy, very slow to open up, and very private. And this is mostly true of most Virgos. The key to understanding a Virgo male is to understand that just because they are not outward with their emotions and feelings the way you are doesn't mean the feelings and emotions they have for you aren't there. Oh, they're there, it's just that THEY like to choose when it's the right time to express them. Most women involved with Virgo males become very unpatient when it comes to a Virgos shyness. And this irritates Virgo males. These males CANNOT stand it when women try to force them to open up, they hate to be criticized & put down for their emotional slowness. In their minds, they actually do like & care about you but feel that in a way expressing their emotions too early might mean doom for them. Virgos have alot of pride & don't realize that it's very important for some signs to obtain some kind of flattery or praise up front, and not later. For example, Virgos and Geminis are not compatible because Gemini's demand to see a profession of love and emotions up front, while Virgos prefer to still be around you, but just keep quiet about their emotions until THEY feel they are ready. But don't get it twisted, Virgos are very caring & would do anything for you. In fact, the they tend to attract alot of women mainly because of their shy, yet "down for you" demeanor. Virgo males want to know all of your secrets, want to know everything about you & can't stand it when they feel secrets are being kept, even though they don't realize that's their partners main problem with them. The key to keeping a Virgo male is to keep patience & just have faith & expect that your Virgo partner loves & respects you the same, even though they don't outwardly show it every 5 minutes like you might want them too. Believe it or not, Virgo males know they are pain in the asses when it comes to expressing emotions, & the minute they spot a woman who can handle it, they will continue to keep their flame for you alive. Virgos don't like to be the center of attention but do like to be noticed. When you're with a Virgo, show them plenty of affection in private, but don't try to overdo it in public.
