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It's been requested (by one person lol) that I make another thread...so this will be it.

To see my other tinder adventures...please click the link below.

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/virgo/im-tinder-dating--10403692/?p=3

I completely forgot but after reading that thread....the Gem that I had a really strong reaction to....dun dun dun

SEX OFFENDER. smh...I knew something was off about him.

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Guy #1- Sagittarius.

This is new territory (actually not so new but further along then the last) for me but I've dealt with some at work (dont say it...I see you!). I do tend to get along with our traffic attorney but he never stfu. Anyway....guy seems nice, wanted to call me instead of text, talked for an hour and I will be meeting up with him soon.



to be continued......
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So went on the date with the sag who is a cusper. Nov 23rd. We went to the zoo...which was great. All the animals were out. He still very touchy feely...putting his arm around me, holding hands and his arm and shit. Ok...weird but ok lol. Then we just hung out at the park for a couple hours, then went back to where I parked and hung out there talking ...both saying we were gonna leave but couldn't stop talking. Which became a 10 hr. date lol.

He actually wasn't too bad or overly talkative. He's an only child, was born in NY. He already was wanting to set up another date. So apparently ...we will be going out on Weds. The only thing is ...like there is obviously some chemistry but I think he's gonna like me more than I will him ๐Ÿ˜”. Kind of a bummer but it is what it is.

I forgot to mention...he also open the car door for me each time...which was really sweet
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So went on the date with the sag who is a cusper. Nov 23rd. We went to the zoo...which was great. All the animals were out. He still very touchy feely...putting his arm around me, holding hands and his arm and shit. Ok...weird but ok lol. Then we just hung out at the park for a couple hours, then went back to where I parked and hung out there talking ...both saying we were gonna leave but couldn't stop talking. Which became a 10 hrs date lol.

He actually wasn't too bad or overly talkative. He's an only child, was born in Ithaca NY. He already was wanting to set up another date. So apparently ...we will be going out on Weds. The only thing is ...like there is obviously some chemistry but I think he's gonna like me more than I will him ๐Ÿ˜”. Kind of a bummer but it is what it is.


Honestly, I'm incredibly jealous. I almost didn't want to comment LOL ๐Ÿ˜„ All I've ever wanted was a guy to ask me on a date to a zoo or aquarium. *sighs* Or the park to feed ducks, points for originality. But if you don't like him that's fair.
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The only thing is ...like there is obviously some chemistry but I think he's gonna like me more than I will him ๐Ÿ˜”. Kind of a bummer but it is what it is.


Sometimes this dynamic changes. He might just be more open than you at first
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True.. because I am being cautious and he apparently is very open. Which is why I'm trying to keep an open mind and not just think that is that and give it a chance.
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So went on the date with the sag who is a cusper. Nov 23rd. We went to the zoo...which was great. All the animals were out. He still very touchy feely...putting his arm around me, holding hands and his arm and shit. Ok...weird but ok lol. Then we just hung out at the park for a couple hours, then went back to where I parked and hung out there talking ...both saying we were gonna leave but couldn't stop talking. Which became a 10 hrs date lol.

He actually wasn't too bad or overly talkative. He's an only child, was born in Ithaca NY. He already was wanting to set up another date. So apparently ...we will be going out on Weds. The only thing is ...like there is obviously some chemistry but I think he's gonna like me more than I will him ๐Ÿ˜”. Kind of a bummer but it is what it is.


Honestly, I'm incredibly jealous. I almost didn't want to comment LOL ๐Ÿ˜„ All I've ever wanted was a guy to ask me on a date to a zoo or aquarium. *sighs* Or the park to feed ducks, points for originality. But if you don't like him that's fair.
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Haha...no I get that. He seems very respectful too because he wanted me to be comfortable and so he figured the zoo would be the perfect place...public, others around and it wouldn't be overly crowded. So we were able to talk and stuff. So I def give him point for both the originality, trying to make me comfortable and the fact he calls.
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The only thing is ...like there is obviously some chemistry but I think he's gonna like me more than I will him ๐Ÿ˜”. Kind of a bummer but it is what it is.


Sometimes this dynamic changes. He might just be more open than you at first


True.. because I am being cautious and he apparently is very open. Which is why I'm trying to keep an open mind and not just think that is that and give it a chance.


Do you find him physically attractive? It sounds like the mental connection is there
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I do and I don't. Like he's a good looking guy but not necessarily the type I'm completely attracted to...and tbh...I don't have a type really so idk what it is.
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So went on the date with the sag who is a cusper. Nov 23rd. We went to the zoo...which was great. All the animals were out. He still very touchy feely...putting his arm around me, holding hands and his arm and shit. Ok...weird but ok lol. Then we just hung out at the park for a couple hours, then went back to where I parked and hung out there talking ...both saying we were gonna leave but couldn't stop talking. Which became a 10 hrs date lol.

He actually wasn't too bad or overly talkative. He's an only child, was born in Ithaca NY. He already was wanting to set up another date. So apparently ...we will be going out on Weds. The only thing is ...like there is obviously some chemistry but I think he's gonna like me more than I will him ๐Ÿ˜”. Kind of a bummer but it is what it is.


Honestly, I'm incredibly jealous. I almost didn't want to comment LOL ๐Ÿ˜„ All I've ever wanted was a guy to ask me on a date to a zoo or aquarium. *sighs* Or the park to feed ducks, points for originality. But if you don't like him that's fair.


Haha...no I get that. He seems very respectful too because he wanted me to be comfortable and so he figured the zoo would be the perfect place...public, others around and it wouldn't be overly crowded. So we were able to talk and stuff. So I def give him point for both the originality, trying to make me comfortable and the fact he calls.
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Do you know his chart yet? lol
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The only thing is ...like there is obviously some chemistry but I think he's gonna like me more than I will him ๐Ÿ˜”. Kind of a bummer but it is what it is.


Sometimes this dynamic changes. He might just be more open than you at first


True.. because I am being cautious and he apparently is very open. Which is why I'm trying to keep an open mind and not just think that is that and give it a chance.


Do you find him physically attractive? It sounds like the mental connection is there


I do and I don't. Like he's a good looking guy but not necessarily the type I'm completely attracted to...and tbh...I don't have a type really so idk what it is.


Well maybe if/when you go out with him some more, you can get a better feel for him and how he makes you feel and what you actually think of him. While 10 hrs is a long time, 1 date is usually not enough to know how you really feel about someone IMO. At least for us emotionally constipated people ๐Ÿ˜†
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Oh no I completely agree ...def not enough time and who knows ...I may change my mind later on.

One thing I do know...there is def sexual tension there. I can feel that so that's what makes it weird...how can I not be that attracted to someone but still have that sexual tension with them. ๐Ÿคท
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So went on the date with the sag who is a cusper. Nov 23rd. We went to the zoo...which was great. All the animals were out. He still very touchy feely...putting his arm around me, holding hands and his arm and shit. Ok...weird but ok lol. Then we just hung out at the park for a couple hours, then went back to where I parked and hung out there talking ...both saying we were gonna leave but couldn't stop talking. Which became a 10 hrs date lol.

He actually wasn't too bad or overly talkative. He's an only child, was born in Ithaca NY. He already was wanting to set up another date. So apparently ...we will be going out on Weds. The only thing is ...like there is obviously some chemistry but I think he's gonna like me more than I will him ๐Ÿ˜”. Kind of a bummer but it is what it is.


Honestly, I'm incredibly jealous. I almost didn't want to comment LOL ๐Ÿ˜„ All I've ever wanted was a guy to ask me on a date to a zoo or aquarium. *sighs* Or the park to feed ducks, points for originality. But if you don't like him that's fair.


Haha...no I get that. He seems very respectful too because he wanted me to be comfortable and so he figured the zoo would be the perfect place...public, others around and it wouldn't be overly crowded. So we were able to talk and stuff. So I def give him point for both the originality, trying to make me comfortable and the fact he calls.


Do you know his chart yet? lol
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๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚. Of course...without the birth time (he's getting me that)

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Guy #1- Sagittarius.

This is new territory (actually not so new but further along then the last) for me but I've dealt with some at work (dont say it...I see you!). I do tend to get along with our traffic attorney but he never stfu. Anyway....guy seems nice, wanted to call me instead of text, talked for an hour and I will be meeting up with him soon.



to be continued......


kewl.



i notice alot of Virgo women love Sagittarius men on this site.

Maybe @dewikkel can help out too (she is a virgo with a sag man)
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So went on the date with the sag who is a cusper. Nov 23rd. We went to the zoo...which was great. All the animals were out. He still very touchy feely...putting his arm around me, holding hands and his arm and shit. Ok...weird but ok lol. Then we just hung out at the park for a couple hours, then went back to where I parked and hung out there talking ...both saying we were gonna leave but couldn't stop talking. Which became a 10 hrs date lol.

He actually wasn't too bad or overly talkative. He's an only child, was born in Ithaca NY. He already was wanting to set up another date. So apparently ...we will be going out on Weds. The only thing is ...like there is obviously some chemistry but I think he's gonna like me more than I will him ๐Ÿ˜”. Kind of a bummer but it is what it is.


Honestly, I'm incredibly jealous. I almost didn't want to comment LOL ๐Ÿ˜„ All I've ever wanted was a guy to ask me on a date to a zoo or aquarium. *sighs* Or the park to feed ducks, points for originality. But if you don't like him that's fair.


Haha...no I get that. He seems very respectful too because he wanted me to be comfortable and so he figured the zoo would be the perfect place...public, others around and it wouldn't be overly crowded. So we were able to talk and stuff. So I def give him point for both the originality, trying to make me comfortable and the fact he calls.


Do you know his chart yet? lol


๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚. Of course...without the birth time (he's getting me that)

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omg gurll...

he has Virgo mars like that of @dewikkel's Sag man. Except her Sag man has Cancer moon.



wow your sag man is super earthy with Libra moon.
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So went on the date with the sag who is a cusper. Nov 23rd. We went to the zoo...which was great. All the animals were out. He still very touchy feely...putting his arm around me, holding hands and his arm and shit. Ok...weird but ok lol. Then we just hung out at the park for a couple hours, then went back to where I parked and hung out there talking ...both saying we were gonna leave but couldn't stop talking. Which became a 10 hrs date lol.

He actually wasn't too bad or overly talkative. He's an only child, was born in Ithaca NY. He already was wanting to set up another date. So apparently ...we will be going out on Weds. The only thing is ...like there is obviously some chemistry but I think he's gonna like me more than I will him ๐Ÿ˜”. Kind of a bummer but it is what it is.


Honestly, I'm incredibly jealous. I almost didn't want to comment LOL ๐Ÿ˜„ All I've ever wanted was a guy to ask me on a date to a zoo or aquarium. *sighs* Or the park to feed ducks, points for originality. But if you don't like him that's fair.


Haha...no I get that. He seems very respectful too because he wanted me to be comfortable and so he figured the zoo would be the perfect place...public, others around and it wouldn't be overly crowded. So we were able to talk and stuff. So I def give him point for both the originality, trying to make me comfortable and the fact he calls.


Do you know his chart yet? lol


๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚. Of course...without the birth time (he's getting me that)

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omg gurll...

he has Virgo mars like that of @dewikkel's Sag man. Except her Sag man has Cancer moon.



wow your sag man is super earthy with Libra moon.
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Yeah and apparently virgo mars peeps are super kinky ...which may be a plus if it even goes that far. Lol

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The only thing is ...like there is obviously some chemistry but I think he's gonna like me more than I will him ๐Ÿ˜”. Kind of a bummer but it is what it is.


Sometimes this dynamic changes. He might just be more open than you at first


True.. because I am being cautious and he apparently is very open. Which is why I'm trying to keep an open mind and not just think that is that and give it a chance.


Do you find him physically attractive? It sounds like the mental connection is there


I do and I don't. Like he's a good looking guy but not necessarily the type I'm completely attracted to...and tbh...I don't have a type really so idk what it is.


Well maybe if/when you go out with him some more, you can get a better feel for him and how he makes you feel and what you actually think of him. While 10 hrs is a long time, 1 date is usually not enough to know how you really feel about someone IMO. At least for us emotionally constipated people ๐Ÿ˜†


Oh no I completely agree ...def not enough time and who knows ...I may change my mind later on.

One thing I do know...there is def sexual tension there. I can feel that so that's what makes it weird...how can I not be that attracted to someone but still have that sexual tension with them. ๐Ÿคท


Interesting, that's what you'll have to find out. I had that with a pisces man I dated briefly years ago. He was so physically unappealing, but his mind drove me crazy. Maybe you are super drawn to his personality and his mind?
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I think that may be a possibility...we do have similar personalities and we talked in depth about shit ...so that could be it.
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So went on the date with the sag who is a cusper. Nov 23rd. We went to the zoo...which was great. All the animals were out. He still very touchy feely...putting his arm around me, holding hands and his arm and shit. Ok...weird but ok lol. Then we just hung out at the park for a couple hours, then went back to where I parked and hung out there talking ...both saying we were gonna leave but couldn't stop talking. Which became a 10 hrs date lol.

He actually wasn't too bad or overly talkative. He's an only child, was born in Ithaca NY. He already was wanting to set up another date. So apparently ...we will be going out on Weds. The only thing is ...like there is obviously some chemistry but I think he's gonna like me more than I will him ๐Ÿ˜”. Kind of a bummer but it is what it is.


Honestly, I'm incredibly jealous. I almost didn't want to comment LOL ๐Ÿ˜„ All I've ever wanted was a guy to ask me on a date to a zoo or aquarium. *sighs* Or the park to feed ducks, points for originality. But if you don't like him that's fair.


Haha...no I get that. He seems very respectful too because he wanted me to be comfortable and so he figured the zoo would be the perfect place...public, others around and it wouldn't be overly crowded. So we were able to talk and stuff. So I def give him point for both the originality, trying to make me comfortable and the fact he calls.


Do you know his chart yet? lol


๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚. Of course...without the birth time (he's getting me that)

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Libra moon?! Wow wasn't expecting that haha
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Fuck...he has moon conjunct Pluto in is natal chart. That's most likely it.....that's what I'm attracted too even though I'm not ๐Ÿ’ฏ physically attracted to him.

And my Pluto conjuncts his moon....

My venus Sextile his Pluto ...exact.

It will be interesting to see where things fall in our house and his ascendant and aspects when I get his birth time.
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So went on the date with the sag who is a cusper. Nov 23rd. We went to the zoo...which was great. All the animals were out. He still very touchy feely...putting his arm around me, holding hands and his arm and shit. Ok...weird but ok lol. Then we just hung out at the park for a couple hours, then went back to where I parked and hung out there talking ...both saying we were gonna leave but couldn't stop talking. Which became a 10 hrs date lol.

He actually wasn't too bad or overly talkative. He's an only child, was born in Ithaca NY. He already was wanting to set up another date. So apparently ...we will be going out on Weds. The only thing is ...like there is obviously some chemistry but I think he's gonna like me more than I will him ๐Ÿ˜”. Kind of a bummer but it is what it is.


Honestly, I'm incredibly jealous. I almost didn't want to comment LOL ๐Ÿ˜„ All I've ever wanted was a guy to ask me on a date to a zoo or aquarium. *sighs* Or the park to feed ducks, points for originality. But if you don't like him that's fair.


Haha...no I get that. He seems very respectful too because he wanted me to be comfortable and so he figured the zoo would be the perfect place...public, others around and it wouldn't be overly crowded. So we were able to talk and stuff. So I def give him point for both the originality, trying to make me comfortable and the fact he calls.


Do you know his chart yet? lol


๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚. Of course...without the birth time (he's getting me that)

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Libra moon?! Wow wasn't expecting that haha
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Why's that? Idk much about Libra moons...would that make him romantic. He claims he is. He wanted to go to school to be a creative writer but went into IT. He says he writes but more hobby and poems lol
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So went on the date with the sag who is a cusper. Nov 23rd. We went to the zoo...which was great. All the animals were out. He still very touchy feely...putting his arm around me, holding hands and his arm and shit. Ok...weird but ok lol. Then we just hung out at the park for a couple hours, then went back to where I parked and hung out there talking ...both saying we were gonna leave but couldn't stop talking. Which became a 10 hrs date lol.

He actually wasn't too bad or overly talkative. He's an only child, was born in Ithaca NY. He already was wanting to set up another date. So apparently ...we will be going out on Weds. The only thing is ...like there is obviously some chemistry but I think he's gonna like me more than I will him ๐Ÿ˜”. Kind of a bummer but it is what it is.


Honestly, I'm incredibly jealous. I almost didn't want to comment LOL ๐Ÿ˜„ All I've ever wanted was a guy to ask me on a date to a zoo or aquarium. *sighs* Or the park to feed ducks, points for originality. But if you don't like him that's fair.


Haha...no I get that. He seems very respectful too because he wanted me to be comfortable and so he figured the zoo would be the perfect place...public, others around and it wouldn't be overly crowded. So we were able to talk and stuff. So I def give him point for both the originality, trying to make me comfortable and the fact he calls.


Do you know his chart yet? lol


๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚. Of course...without the birth time (he's getting me that)

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Libra moon?! Wow wasn't expecting that haha


Why's that? Idk much about Libra moons...would that make him romantic. He claims he is. He wanted to go to school to be a creative writer but went into IT. He says he writes but more hobby and poems lol
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I didn't know they thought about others lol
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So went on the date with the sag who is a cusper. Nov 23rd. We went to the zoo...which was great. All the animals were out. He still very touchy feely...putting his arm around me, holding hands and his arm and shit. Ok...weird but ok lol. Then we just hung out at the park for a couple hours, then went back to where I parked and hung out there talking ...both saying we were gonna leave but couldn't stop talking. Which became a 10 hrs date lol.

He actually wasn't too bad or overly talkative. He's an only child, was born in Ithaca NY. He already was wanting to set up another date. So apparently ...we will be going out on Weds. The only thing is ...like there is obviously some chemistry but I think he's gonna like me more than I will him ๐Ÿ˜”. Kind of a bummer but it is what it is.


Honestly, I'm incredibly jealous. I almost didn't want to comment LOL ๐Ÿ˜„ All I've ever wanted was a guy to ask me on a date to a zoo or aquarium. *sighs* Or the park to feed ducks, points for originality. But if you don't like him that's fair.


Haha...no I get that. He seems very respectful too because he wanted me to be comfortable and so he figured the zoo would be the perfect place...public, others around and it wouldn't be overly crowded. So we were able to talk and stuff. So I def give him point for both the originality, trying to make me comfortable and the fact he calls.


Do you know his chart yet? lol


๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚. Of course...without the birth time (he's getting me that)

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Libra moon?! Wow wasn't expecting that haha


Why's that? Idk much about Libra moons...would that make him romantic. He claims he is. He wanted to go to school to be a creative writer but went into IT. He says he writes but more hobby and poems lol


I didn't know they thought about others lol
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They probably don't lol
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The only thing is ...like there is obviously some chemistry but I think he's gonna like me more than I will him ๐Ÿ˜”. Kind of a bummer but it is what it is.


Sometimes this dynamic changes. He might just be more open than you at first


True.. because I am being cautious and he apparently is very open. Which is why I'm trying to keep an open mind and not just think that is that and give it a chance.


Do you find him physically attractive? It sounds like the mental connection is there


I do and I don't. Like he's a good looking guy but not necessarily the type I'm completely attracted to...and tbh...I don't have a type really so idk what it is.


Well maybe if/when you go out with him some more, you can get a better feel for him and how he makes you feel and what you actually think of him. While 10 hrs is a long time, 1 date is usually not enough to know how you really feel about someone IMO. At least for us emotionally constipated people ๐Ÿ˜†


Oh no I completely agree ...def not enough time and who knows ...I may change my mind later on.

One thing I do know...there is def sexual tension there. I can feel that so that's what makes it weird...how can I not be that attracted to someone but still have that sexual tension with them. ๐Ÿคท


That happens. Not quite that weird
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True ....but it is for me. It's usually both not one or the other.
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So went on the date with the sag who is a cusper. Nov 23rd. We went to the zoo...which was great. All the animals were out. He still very touchy feely...putting his arm around me, holding hands and his arm and shit. Ok...weird but ok lol. Then we just hung out at the park for a couple hours, then went back to where I parked and hung out there talking ...both saying we were gonna leave but couldn't stop talking. Which became a 10 hrs date lol.

He actually wasn't too bad or overly talkative. He's an only child, was born in Ithaca NY. He already was wanting to set up another date. So apparently ...we will be going out on Weds. The only thing is ...like there is obviously some chemistry but I think he's gonna like me more than I will him ๐Ÿ˜”. Kind of a bummer but it is what it is.


Honestly, I'm incredibly jealous. I almost didn't want to comment LOL ๐Ÿ˜„ All I've ever wanted was a guy to ask me on a date to a zoo or aquarium. *sighs* Or the park to feed ducks, points for originality. But if you don't like him that's fair.


Haha...no I get that. He seems very respectful too because he wanted me to be comfortable and so he figured the zoo would be the perfect place...public, others around and it wouldn't be overly crowded. So we were able to talk and stuff. So I def give him point for both the originality, trying to make me comfortable and the fact he calls.


Do you know his chart yet? lol


๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚. Of course...without the birth time (he's getting me that)

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omg gurll...

he has Virgo mars like that of @dewikkel's Sag man. Except her Sag man has Cancer moon.



wow your sag man is super earthy with Libra moon.


lmao that isn't even CLOSE to her username though
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LOL

is your virgo being nitpicky



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So went on the date with the sag who is a cusper. Nov 23rd. We went to the zoo...which was great. All the animals were out. He still very touchy feely...putting his arm around me, holding hands and his arm and shit. Ok...weird but ok lol. Then we just hung out at the park for a couple hours, then went back to where I parked and hung out there talking ...both saying we were gonna leave but couldn't stop talking. Which became a 10 hrs date lol.

He actually wasn't too bad or overly talkative. He's an only child, was born in Ithaca NY. He already was wanting to set up another date. So apparently ...we will be going out on Weds. The only thing is ...like there is obviously some chemistry but I think he's gonna like me more than I will him ๐Ÿ˜”. Kind of a bummer but it is what it is.


Honestly, I'm incredibly jealous. I almost didn't want to comment LOL ๐Ÿ˜„ All I've ever wanted was a guy to ask me on a date to a zoo or aquarium. *sighs* Or the park to feed ducks, points for originality. But if you don't like him that's fair.


Haha...no I get that. He seems very respectful too because he wanted me to be comfortable and so he figured the zoo would be the perfect place...public, others around and it wouldn't be overly crowded. So we were able to talk and stuff. So I def give him point for both the originality, trying to make me comfortable and the fact he calls.


Do you know his chart yet? lol


๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚. Of course...without the birth time (he's getting me that)

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omg gurll...

he has Virgo mars like that of @dewikkel's Sag man. Except her Sag man has Cancer moon.



wow your sag man is super earthy with Libra moon.


Yeah and apparently virgo mars peeps are super kinky ...which may be a plus if it even goes that far. Lol

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not only that you attract CUSPERS.. I attract alot of November 17 to November 24th.

my husband is born in those dates. true story lol

and they gravitate to me too. I'm so happy they do. LOL He is the best man in the world!!!!!

my scorpio best friend in high school was born before November 15th...

and my other male best friends who were scorpio was late october early november..but i feel "friendzone" territory from the males. and i'm heterosexual.
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Guy #1- Sagittarius.

This is new territory (actually not so new but further along then the last) for me but I've dealt with some at work (dont say it...I see you!). I do tend to get along with our traffic attorney but he never stfu. Anyway....guy seems nice, wanted to call me instead of text, talked for an hour and I will be meeting up with him soon.



to be continued......


kewl.



i notice alot of Virgo women love Sagittarius men on this site.

Maybe @dewikkel can help out too (she is a virgo with a sag man)


i adore them with pisces moon
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does your man know you love sag sun/pisces moon combo? ๐Ÿ˜› ๐Ÿ˜†
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So went on the date with the sag who is a cusper. Nov 23rd. We went to the zoo...which was great. All the animals were out. He still very touchy feely...putting his arm around me, holding hands and his arm and shit. Ok...weird but ok lol. Then we just hung out at the park for a couple hours, then went back to where I parked and hung out there talking ...both saying we were gonna leave but couldn't stop talking. Which became a 10 hrs date lol.

He actually wasn't too bad or overly talkative. He's an only child, was born in Ithaca NY. He already was wanting to set up another date. So apparently ...we will be going out on Weds. The only thing is ...like there is obviously some chemistry but I think he's gonna like me more than I will him ๐Ÿ˜”. Kind of a bummer but it is what it is.


Honestly, I'm incredibly jealous. I almost didn't want to comment LOL ๐Ÿ˜„ All I've ever wanted was a guy to ask me on a date to a zoo or aquarium. *sighs* Or the park to feed ducks, points for originality. But if you don't like him that's fair.


First date with my Sag was walking around a nature reserve for four hours with my dog. It was awesome
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Everytime Iโ€™m on here I feel like Iโ€™m settling after some reads ๐Ÿ˜„
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Fuck...he has moon conjunct Pluto in is natal chart. That's most likely it.....that's what I'm attracted too even though I'm not ๐Ÿ’ฏ physically attracted to him.

And my Pluto conjuncts his moon....

My venus Sextile his Pluto ...exact.

It will be interesting to see where things fall in our house and his ascendant and aspects when I get his birth time.

Those are good aspects for growth! This taurus has venus opp my pluto and my venus square his pluto. Femme fatale placements smh. Are femme fatales better off with other femme fatales?

Also this sag is basically a scorpio moon. Youre always attracting those! And he could be a low degree scorp moon after you get his birth time.
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ohhhh....hard aspects can be good though too and especially double whammys. I know me and the Pisces had a lot of bad aspects and we couldn't stay away from each other...good and bad thing. I would think so....you'd be able to handle each other better.

Right! Pisces...scorp moon and he had Pluto conjunct his moon, we had my moon squared his Pluto. Cancer had the Pisces moon but he had moon quincunx Pluto (idk if that's the same as a Hades moon or not) but we didn't have any moon/Pluto aspects but def other Pluto ones. Even if his moon is in the late degree Libra...he is still a Hades moon, so was the Leo.

smh...I cant stay away from them or they cant stay away from me lol.
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So went on the date with the sag who is a cusper. Nov 23rd. We went to the zoo...which was great. All the animals were out. He still very touchy feely...putting his arm around me, holding hands and his arm and shit. Ok...weird but ok lol. Then we just hung out at the park for a couple hours, then went back to where I parked and hung out there talking ...both saying we were gonna leave but couldn't stop talking. Which became a 10 hrs date lol.

He actually wasn't too bad or overly talkative. He's an only child, was born in Ithaca NY. He already was wanting to set up another date. So apparently ...we will be going out on Weds. The only thing is ...like there is obviously some chemistry but I think he's gonna like me more than I will him ๐Ÿ˜”. Kind of a bummer but it is what it is.


Honestly, I'm incredibly jealous. I almost didn't want to comment LOL ๐Ÿ˜„ All I've ever wanted was a guy to ask me on a date to a zoo or aquarium. *sighs* Or the park to feed ducks, points for originality. But if you don't like him that's fair.


First date with my Sag was walking around a nature reserve for four hours with my dog. It was awesome
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awww I love that...I didn't know that they seemed to really like nature. I know the whole adventure thing, freedom thing which could include nature I guess...but nothing like how an earth sign loves nature...ya know?!

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So went on the date with the sag who is a cusper. Nov 23rd. We went to the zoo...which was great. All the animals were out. He still very touchy feely...putting his arm around me, holding hands and his arm and shit. Ok...weird but ok lol. Then we just hung out at the park for a couple hours, then went back to where I parked and hung out there talking ...both saying we were gonna leave but couldn't stop talking. Which became a 10 hrs date lol.

He actually wasn't too bad or overly talkative. He's an only child, was born in Ithaca NY. He already was wanting to set up another date. So apparently ...we will be going out on Weds. The only thing is ...like there is obviously some chemistry but I think he's gonna like me more than I will him ๐Ÿ˜”. Kind of a bummer but it is what it is.


Honestly, I'm incredibly jealous. I almost didn't want to comment LOL ๐Ÿ˜„ All I've ever wanted was a guy to ask me on a date to a zoo or aquarium. *sighs* Or the park to feed ducks, points for originality. But if you don't like him that's fair.


First date with my Sag was walking around a nature reserve for four hours with my dog. It was awesome


awww I love that...I didn't know that they seemed to really like nature. I know the whole adventure thing, freedom thing which could include nature I guess...but nothing like how an earth sign loves nature...ya know?!




Well he is very earthy actually. Cap Venus, Virgo Mars, Taurus sac. And Pisces moon of course โ˜บ๏ธ
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ahh that makes sense then. This sag has the same venus and mars lol
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So went on the date with the sag who is a cusper. Nov 23rd. We went to the zoo...which was great. All the animals were out. He still very touchy feely...putting his arm around me, holding hands and his arm and shit. Ok...weird but ok lol. Then we just hung out at the park for a couple hours, then went back to where I parked and hung out there talking ...both saying we were gonna leave but couldn't stop talking. Which became a 10 hrs date lol.

He actually wasn't too bad or overly talkative. He's an only child, was born in Ithaca NY. He already was wanting to set up another date. So apparently ...we will be going out on Weds. The only thing is ...like there is obviously some chemistry but I think he's gonna like me more than I will him ๐Ÿ˜”. Kind of a bummer but it is what it is.


Honestly, I'm incredibly jealous. I almost didn't want to comment LOL ๐Ÿ˜„ All I've ever wanted was a guy to ask me on a date to a zoo or aquarium. *sighs* Or the park to feed ducks, points for originality. But if you don't like him that's fair.


First date with my Sag was walking around a nature reserve for four hours with my dog. It was awesome


Everytime Iโ€™m on here I feel like Iโ€™m settling after some reads ๐Ÿ˜„

Get yourself a Sag guy then lol
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Maybe lol even though my prior experience has not been good
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Fuck...he has moon conjunct Pluto in is natal chart. That's most likely it.....that's what I'm attracted too even though I'm not ๐Ÿ’ฏ physically attracted to him.

And my Pluto conjuncts his moon....

My venus Sextile his Pluto ...exact.

It will be interesting to see where things fall in our house and his ascendant and aspects when I get his birth time.

This first sentence is how each of my relationships started lol I'm never THAT attracted to the guy lol they get that something about them that makes them attractive in my eyes but physical appearance isn't that thing ever lol
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See...I normally have both. They are usually pretty hot plus there is something about them that makes them hotter to me...so this is kind of a first lol.
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Fuck...he has moon conjunct Pluto in is natal chart. That's most likely it.....that's what I'm attracted too even though I'm not ๐Ÿ’ฏ physically attracted to him.

And my Pluto conjuncts his moon....

My venus Sextile his Pluto ...exact.

It will be interesting to see where things fall in our house and his ascendant and aspects when I get his birth time.

This first sentence is how each of my relationships started lol I'm never THAT attracted to the guy lol they get that something about them that makes them attractive in my eyes but physical appearance isn't that thing ever lol


See...I normally have both. They are usually pretty hot plus there is something about them that makes them hotter to me...so this is kind of a first lol.

Well go with what fuels you best. If you have interest in him might let it a bit to see how things develop, if you still don't find him that attractive then you know what to do...
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That's my plan...I want to give him a chance before I bow out (letting him know of course if that happens)
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Libra moon

Big fail


Late degree Libra moon...so could be early scorp moon with birth time....but even so, he has a Hades moon...which is pretty much a scorp moon...so probably not a fail lol


Even worse

Good luck


Naw...I love Scorp moons!


Youโ€™re the only one on this whole site, lol. I appreciate you. Hahaha. Leo moon is the winner for Scorpio moons.
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Hahaha...I knew the leo moons would win the scorp moons heart ๐Ÿ˜›
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So I ran the astrowin synastry (without his birth time)

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That's even higher than me and the cancer...which we had a score of 30.65


I suspect Astrowin is total garbage, IMO.

I've caught it neglecting to include things that other places factor in, and severely downplaying certain aspects. For example, the Pluto/Moon aspect you have with the Pieces is the same aspect I have with the Virgo at work. Since I'm a 1st House Plutonian, it wouldn't surprise me if you and I have it as well (test it out if you want - my birth time is 11:15pm on 01/14/1974). There's tons of threads at Lindaland about the potency of that aspect alone on top of your history with the Pieces as raw experience on the matter.

CafeAstrology, Astrodienst, and VenusGroup doesn't ignore it.

Astrowin downplays or ignores it ...

Try 'em out ... ๐Ÿ™‚

https://astro.cafeastrology.com/index.php

https://grupovenus.com/main.htm

http://www.astro.com/

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Oh yeah...I don't put a lot of stock in any of the sites as they all give something a little different. I just thought it was interesting that I scored higher with the Sag then the Leo and Cancer...because me and the Cancers synastry list is loooooong compared to theirs but seems I had more favorable aspects with the Leo overall imo....but that turned out completely different then how I thought it would...given that all my relationships pretty much had played out re certain aspects we had.

I'll tell you what though and I know some people don't believe it but....the Pluto aspects to personal planets are so freaking legit, and Sun/Moon conjunction...which was a first for me with the Leo...I cant even describe this one...I was doing shit I don't normally do. If he would have asked me to marry him...would have done it right then and there. I've never really wanted to get married...maybe one day but was never a high priority (still isn't). His energy/aura was seriously addictive and I still feel drawn to him...smh. Hope to find that again one day and it stick this time lol.

I'm honestly kinda worried about the moon/Pluto conjunction with the Sag...I'm hoping that since we are both Plutonian...we will be able to handle it ok?! But then again...me and the Pisces didn't...granted that was the hard aspect but still. Who the fucks knows though... free will and shit lol. But there is definitely a pattern with me ...which is fascinating.

Thanks though for the links...I've used them all before but forgot about VenusGroup.



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what chapter is the one where you burn the charts


Neverrrrrr. You will just have to deal with it.. ๐Ÿ˜›

My curiosity is more with patterns then actual charts and aspects...



its all just a guide Tiz....just a guide ๐Ÿ™‚


LOL I didn't think you'd reply, you know I'm giving you a hard time ๐Ÿ˜›

I like the thread though it's way more exciting than the usual on here.
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Why did you think that I wouldn't respond?

Oh I know you were...I didn't take any offense ๐Ÿ˜Š

Haha...thank you sir!
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Just updating:

Me and the Sag talked for like 4 hrs on the phone, last night...went on another date (watched the sunset, he bought me some roses (like 3...nothing extreme) ....date lasted 6 hrs. He said he wanted to see me again but we are both busy this weekend....so he wants to meet up tonight for another date ๐Ÿ˜ฎ. I'm exhausted ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ but seriously lol.

I've talked to some others guys but nothing significant has happened with them...this may just end up being a shitty thread lol.
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So without the time...here's were planets may fall in our houses:

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Makes a little sense if it would be similar with the time included...his planets don't really fall in any of my relationship houses.


what website is that, do you need birth time?
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It's grupovenus.com then click on the English flag. It would be better if you did... But I just used 12pm just to see while waiting on the actual time.
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Just updating:

Me and the Sag talked for like 4 hrs on the phone, last night...went on another date (watched the sunset, he bought me some roses (like 3...nothing extreme) ....date lasted 6 hrs. He said he wanted to see me again but we are both busy this weekend....so he wants to meet up tonight for another date ๐Ÿ˜ฎ. I'm exhausted ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ but seriously lol.

I've talked to some others guys but nothing significant has happened with them...this may just end up being a shitty thread lol.


The zoo now flowersโ€” I must be dating losers lol jk ๐Ÿ˜„ flowers are such a sweet sentiment though. Picked too.
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