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So here's the long ass story I typed to Lioness:

So the longest story as short as possible: he may be my twin flame all the signs were there for that stuff. We met it was awesome and then I let him go to be in another relationship where I felt safe. He also lived far and I just ended a ldr so I just didn't wanna bring my feelings back down that kind of road. So fast forward me and my safety net broke up and I called him he's a virgo/cancer btw idk rising but I suspect Libra, anyway we were talking and video chatting like everyday and I seen him a few times when I flew down to Florida. Everything was going great until the last night I seen him and I asked what his expectations were and he said that he didn't think he could be there for me the way he would like and didn't want the responsibility of a relationship right now and the distance would make it so that we'd never be serious. So like even though I wasn't ready for a relationship now, I still got really sad and then confused. My perspective was that I didn't want to pour in effort into something that would never be anything. So at the time I thought it was the right thing to do to cut him off. So I tried and then he blocked me everywhere. I tried to fix it same day when I realized our bond is bigger than this confusion, but I was blocked by then. Literally the same day and I've been sulking ever since. It's been about 2 days.

Did I mention the same day I was blocked I had my bff text him to tell him to call me then later on I texted him from mom mom's phone. Nothing crazy just that I was sorry and can he forgive me for being scared or fearful and that I'm sad without him and that I won't bother him if he doesn't reach out after this and that I love him.

No response.

We do have deep feelings for each other so I'm like man I did it this time smh.
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So here's the long ass story I typed to Lioness:
So the longest story as short as possible: he may be my twin flame all the signs were there for that stuff. We met it was awesome and then I let him go to be in another relationship where I felt safe. He also lived far and I just ended a ldr so I just didn't wanna bring my feelings back down that kind of road. So fast forward me and my safety net broke up and I called him he's a virgo/cancer btw idk rising but I suspect Libra, anyway we were talking and video chatting like everyday and I seen him a few times when I flew down to Florida. Everything was going great until the last night I seen him and I asked what his expectations were and he said that he didn't think he could be there for me the way he would like and didn't want the responsibility of a relationship right now and the distance would make it so that we'd never be serious. So like even though I wasn't ready for a relationship now, I still got really sad and then confused. My perspective was that I didn't want to pour in effort into something that would never be anything. So at the time I thought it was the right thing to do to cut him off. So I tried and then he blocked me everywhere. I tried to fix it same day when I realized our bond is bigger than this confusion, but I was blocked by then. Literally the same day and I've been sulking ever since. It's been about 2 days.

Did I mention the same day I was blocked I had my bff text him to tell him to call me then later on I texted him from mom mom's phone. Nothing crazy just that I was sorry and can he forgive me for being scared or fearful and that I'm sad without him and that I won't bother him if he doesn't reach out after this and that I love him.

No response.

We do have deep feelings for each other so I'm like man I did it this time smh.

I think if you guys had a strong connection he will understand you were being insecure/unsure about the situation, he may have been hurt to hear that you don't want to continue with him. Did you expect to hear some reassurance from him when you said that? I feel at a certain stage guys get fed up of being told to go away and having to reassure and catering to our insecurities and impulses, it must hurt to be told to move away.

I feel he will come back. Give him some time. You don't go full Scorpio on him and block him now. click to expand
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I read this in such a soft and caring voice lmaooo. I felt like I told him I was confused a few times enough for him to be able to understand. I even went into a limbo cutting him off lmao. I needed a damn day man. I should've just asked for some time. I did want reassurance since I felt like he was talking in circles. Cuz he said all that then was saying it didnt change how he felt about me. Then all I could think was omg this guy I love wants me to be a fling?! Lmao. I just got scared man. Ugh feelings suck. And yeah I know he was hurt for sure. I didn't mean to hurt him. I'd never block him back I want him in my life. We really had the best bond man.
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Virgos always come back and act as if you talked yesterday and everything is fine between you. I have one who is doing that all the time. Even he is 42 years old. Anyway, be nice when he comes back. His mind is killing him. You don't have to do that.

Mine is got damn 41 bruh. I will be nice. I love him lmao. I'm going to Florida in two weeks so if I'm still blocked should I tell him I'm there?
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Virgos always come back and act as if you talked yesterday and everything is fine between you. I have one who is doing that all the time. Even he is 42 years old. Anyway, be nice when he comes back. His mind is killing him. You don't have to do that.




Mine is got damn 41 bruh. I will be nice. I love him lmao. I'm going to Florida in two weeks so if I'm still blocked should I tell him I'm there? click to expand
I was ignored for a month. Then he came back. You can tell him you are in Florida, I don't see why not. Be friendly, light and positive. Don't think about what happened. Think about what's coming next. click to expand
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I love the way you think lol. Be my friend lmao
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Virgos always come back and act as if you talked yesterday and everything is fine between you. I have one who is doing that all the time. Even he is 42 years old. Anyway, be nice when he comes back. His mind is killing him. You don't have to do that.




Mine is got damn 41 bruh. I will be nice. I love him lmao. I'm going to Florida in two weeks so if I'm still blocked should I tell him I'm there? click to expand


I was ignored for a month. Then he came back. You can tell him you are in Florida, I don't see why not. Be friendly, light and positive. Don't think about what happened. Think about what's coming next. click to expand



I love the way you think lol. Be my friend lmao click to expand
😊Thanks. If being 36 taught me anything is to slow down and not to insist to be right but to be in peace. If you need anything to discuss, I'm here😃 click to expand
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Well you got a good 10 more years of wisdom than I do so I value your help haha. Thank you Toti.
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So here's the long ass story I typed to Lioness:
So the longest story as short as possible: he may be my twin flame all the signs were there for that stuff. We met it was awesome and then I let him go to be in another relationship where I felt safe. He also lived far and I just ended a ldr so I just didn't wanna bring my feelings back down that kind of road. So fast forward me and my safety net broke up and I called him he's a virgo/cancer btw idk rising but I suspect Libra, anyway we were talking and video chatting like everyday and I seen him a few times when I flew down to Florida. Everything was going great until the last night I seen him and I asked what his expectations were and he said that he didn't think he could be there for me the way he would like and didn't want the responsibility of a relationship right now and the distance would make it so that we'd never be serious. So like even though I wasn't ready for a relationship now, I still got really sad and then confused. My perspective was that I didn't want to pour in effort into something that would never be anything. So at the time I thought it was the right thing to do to cut him off. So I tried and then he blocked me everywhere. I tried to fix it same day when I realized our bond is bigger than this confusion, but I was blocked by then. Literally the same day and I've been sulking ever since. It's been about 2 days.

Did I mention the same day I was blocked I had my bff text him to tell him to call me then later on I texted him from mom mom's phone. Nothing crazy just that I was sorry and can he forgive me for being scared or fearful and that I'm sad without him and that I won't bother him if he doesn't reach out after this and that I love him.

No response.

We do have deep feelings for each other so I'm like man I did it this time smh.



I think if you guys had a strong connection he will understand you were being insecure/unsure about the situation, he may have been hurt to hear that you don't want to continue with him. Did you expect to hear some reassurance from him when you said that? I feel at a certain stage guys get fed up of being told to go away and having to reassure and catering to our insecurities and impulses, it must hurt to be told to move away.

I feel he will come back. Give him some time. You don't go full Scorpio on him and block him now. click to expand



I read this in such a soft and caring voice lmaooo. I felt like I told him I was confused a few times enough for him to be able to understand. I even went into a limbo cutting him off lmao. I needed a damn day man. I should've just asked for some time. I did want reassurance since I felt like he was talking in circles. Cuz he said all that then was saying it didnt change how he felt about me. Then all I could think was omg this guy I love wants me to be a fling?! Lmao. I just got scared man. Ugh feelings suck. And yeah I know he was hurt for sure. I didn't mean to hurt him. I'd never block him back I want him in my life. We really had the best bond man. click to expand

Awww don't be upset. You need to be strong and stick to your guns. See he said he can't be more than how he is rn? I feel you did the right thing. I really think wanting more but settling for less affects us in a brutal way and being seen as a fling hurts too. Either he has to make you his gf and you guys work together and see how far you guys could go.

I hope he calls you? There isn't a lot you can do here now.
If he gets back,you guys have to discuss how you could make it more workable and steady long term. Can you move to his city? Look at various options. I feel he will contact you. But idk why men want to say all the right things but keep the girl in limbo. It doesn't speak well of them.



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I feel you. Well okay I had like two perspectives: one was that okay I just got out of a relationship and I was digging my freedom so I wasn't even looking for another one but then all these feelings got in the way and when he said that he didn't want one my mind was like oh hell nah but I love you now so umm f uck that lmao.

The second perspective was that well I do want what he wants right now so why not just flow with it and in the event that I do want to be in a relationship and he's not ready I can cut my losses then. Things change and ppl change. I didn't have to freak out and head for the hills really.

But I also didnt think my being in a limbo was worth an entire block smh.

I've always been trying to move to his city. My company is actually out there too but the pay isn't as good as where I am. So I was gonna get a second job maybe cuz I like that city so I've been wanting to move since before all of this anyway.

I can't even tell him my bright idea cuz I'm blocked lol
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So here's the long ass story I typed to Lioness:
So the longest story as short as possible: he may be my twin flame all the signs were there for that stuff. We met it was awesome and then I let him go to be in another relationship where I felt safe. He also lived far and I just ended a ldr so I just didn't wanna bring my feelings back down that kind of road. So fast forward me and my safety net broke up and I called him he's a virgo/cancer btw idk rising but I suspect Libra, anyway we were talking and video chatting like everyday and I seen him a few times when I flew down to Florida. Everything was going great until the last night I seen him and I asked what his expectations were and he said that he didn't think he could be there for me the way he would like and didn't want the responsibility of a relationship right now and the distance would make it so that we'd never be serious. So like even though I wasn't ready for a relationship now, I still got really sad and then confused. My perspective was that I didn't want to pour in effort into something that would never be anything. So at the time I thought it was the right thing to do to cut him off. So I tried and then he blocked me everywhere. I tried to fix it same day when I realized our bond is bigger than this confusion, but I was blocked by then. Literally the same day and I've been sulking ever since. It's been about 2 days.

Did I mention the same day I was blocked I had my bff text him to tell him to call me then later on I texted him from mom mom's phone. Nothing crazy just that I was sorry and can he forgive me for being scared or fearful and that I'm sad without him and that I won't bother him if he doesn't reach out after this and that I love him.

No response.

We do have deep feelings for each other so I'm like man I did it this time smh.

Eh... this is a bit difficult for me to really decide on to be honest... as I have a cancer moon like your guy.....

I literally.... Just... *sighs* Look, I literally had the same exact situation play out with a Scorpio over distance, expect.... the roles are changed. We started out long distance (4 hours) and even then more so he moved to an even further state which is over 2000 miles apart. He didn't want a relationship over that type of distance, even though I was moving to a city that was 2 hours away in time by the end of the year ( he didn't know that at the moment).

Anyway, like you, I was hurt as we were together and I did try to save the relationship the next day. No response. He's a Scorp/Virgo so yeah... I then proceeded to block him and let "us" go.

Considering that your guy has a Cancer moon like me, and I do know a handful of Virgo's both girls and guys, this could go either way....

He could come back... but I don't think the decision to not have a relationship would change anything. If anything, it may be even more concrete on his end. I've dated a few of these guys and yes, while they all came back... they didn't... in a way. The relationship became more difficult and they became more guarded.

Weigh for yourself if this is something you want to do... I love Scorpio's (trust me, you guys are my fav. sign), but you guys tend to want what you can't have or control on some level that you once had.

I'm sure you will do what's best for you, but take some time out to think about it, cause I'm sure you don't want to be hurt twice... and Virgos will do it... without trying. click to expand
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Funny because that's what I said to him. That I didn't want to feel this way twice.

I don't mind not being in a relationship at this point. I just don't want to lose our bond. We have a great bond. I hope it's still the same. I mean it was this time like the last time. We can back like nothing ever happened. I just want us to be in a peaceful place.

And you're right about the Scorpio thing. I'm not sure what I wanted to control this time. Idk I'm crazy lmao. Maybe it was cuz now it seemed relationship was ruled out n I'm like you can't rule that out, you love me! ...maybe it was that lol
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Virgos always come back and act as if you talked yesterday and everything is fine between you. I have one who is doing that all the time. Even he is 42 years old. Anyway, be nice when he comes back. His mind is killing him. You don't have to do that.


Why do you think they do that? I would tell them to trtrk off if they thought they could act like nothing happened. click to expand
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I'm not gonna sweat him about it this time cuz I've done my fair share of running in the past. But yeah this can't be an oh block me cuz the sky is blue thing. F uck off is correct lol
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So here's the long ass story I typed to Lioness:
So the longest story as short as possible: he may be my twin flame all the signs were there for that stuff. We met it was awesome and then I let him go to be in another relationship where I felt safe. He also lived far and I just ended a ldr so I just didn't wanna bring my feelings back down that kind of road. So fast forward me and my safety net broke up and I called him he's a virgo/cancer btw idk rising but I suspect Libra, anyway we were talking and video chatting like everyday and I seen him a few times when I flew down to Florida. Everything was going great until the last night I seen him and I asked what his expectations were and he said that he didn't think he could be there for me the way he would like and didn't want the responsibility of a relationship right now and the distance would make it so that we'd never be serious. So like even though I wasn't ready for a relationship now, I still got really sad and then confused. My perspective was that I didn't want to pour in effort into something that would never be anything. So at the time I thought it was the right thing to do to cut him off. So I tried and then he blocked me everywhere. I tried to fix it same day when I realized our bond is bigger than this confusion, but I was blocked by then. Literally the same day and I've been sulking ever since. It's been about 2 days.

Did I mention the same day I was blocked I had my bff text him to tell him to call me then later on I texted him from mom mom's phone. Nothing crazy just that I was sorry and can he forgive me for being scared or fearful and that I'm sad without him and that I won't bother him if he doesn't reach out after this and that I love him.

No response.

We do have deep feelings for each other so I'm like man I did it this time smh.



Eh... this is a bit difficult for me to really decide on to be honest... as I have a cancer moon like your guy.....

I literally.... Just... *sighs* Look, I literally had the same exact situation play out with a Scorpio over distance, expect.... the roles are changed. We started out long distance (4 hours) and even then more so he moved to an even further state which is over 2000 miles apart. He didn't want a relationship over that type of distance, even though I was moving to a city that was 2 hours away in time by the end of the year ( he didn't know that at the moment).

Anyway, like you, I was hurt as we were together and I did try to save the relationship the next day. No response. He's a Scorp/Virgo so yeah... I then proceeded to block him and let "us" go.

Considering that your guy has a Cancer moon like me, and I do know a handful of Virgo's both girls and guys, this could go either way....

He could come back... but I don't think the decision to not have a relationship would change anything. If anything, it may be even more concrete on his end. I've dated a few of these guys and yes, while they all came back... they didn't... in a way. The relationship became more difficult and they became more guarded.

Weigh for yourself if this is something you want to do... I love Scorpio's (trust me, you guys are my fav. sign), but you guys tend to want what you can't have or control on some level that you once had.

I'm sure you will do what's best for you, but take some time out to think about it, cause I'm sure you don't want to be hurt twice... and Virgos will do it... without trying. click to expand



Funny because that's what I said to him. That I didn't want to feel this way twice.

I don't mind not being in a relationship at this point. I just don't want to lose our bond. We have a great bond. I hope it's still the same. I mean it was this time like the last time. We can back like nothing ever happened. I just want us to be in a peaceful place.

And you're right about the Scorpio thing. I'm not sure what I wanted to control this time. Idk I'm crazy lmao. Maybe it was cuz now it seemed relationship was ruled out n I'm like you can't rule that out, you love me! ...maybe it was that lol click to expand

If a relationship off the bat isn't your end goal and you are really ok with that and not just saying that to be ok with the terms that he may come back into your life on.... then proceed. I think friendship in these situations are the best. It gives you a chance to really connect and see what's best for both of you without pressure.

Then when you are in his city whenever that may happen, let the pieces fall however they will.

I'm sure this will work out in your favor no matter how the dice falls, as if he's not the one for you, the one is still out there searching for you as well.

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Thank you so much for your input ❤
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Virgos always come back and act as if you talked yesterday and everything is fine between you. I have one who is doing that all the time. Even he is 42 years old. Anyway, be nice when he comes back. His mind is killing him. You don't have to do that.


Why do you think they do that? I would tell them to trtrk off if they thought they could act like nothing happened. click to expand
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A Taurus guy that had liked me always questioned why I did that. He wouldn’t like me to give him the cold shoulder tho so

If someone has wronged me and I come back it’s bc I’ve chosen to forgive and forget. If I come back then that means that I value the person more than the slight that was made
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I don't know what this entire forum is smoking....

Virgos do not block/ignore/flake out on partners. We are the sign of service ffs, we gravitate like mini satellites.

Anyone who tells you different is:

- full of BS

- never actually had a Virgo

- made choices for immature people, fucbois/fucgirls and now is extrapolating out of that behavior.

If we care we are around. End of story. You are much more likely to post smthg like "Virgo bf nags me all the time, I need him to stop" than "I got blocked for weeks, that is their modus operandi, I just hope this time I won't ve blocked for months. He loves me tho."

Ask for better treatment people ffs.
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So here's the long ass story I typed to Lioness:
So the longest story as short as possible: he may be my twin flame all the signs were there for that stuff. We met it was awesome and then I let him go to be in another relationship where I felt safe. He also lived far and I just ended a ldr so I just didn't wanna bring my feelings back down that kind of road. So fast forward me and my safety net broke up and I called him he's a virgo/cancer btw idk rising but I suspect Libra, anyway we were talking and video chatting like everyday and I seen him a few times when I flew down to Florida. Everything was going great until the last night I seen him and I asked what his expectations were and he said that he didn't think he could be there for me the way he would like and didn't want the responsibility of a relationship right now and the distance would make it so that we'd never be serious. So like even though I wasn't ready for a relationship now, I still got really sad and then confused. My perspective was that I didn't want to pour in effort into something that would never be anything. So at the time I thought it was the right thing to do to cut him off. So I tried and then he blocked me everywhere. I tried to fix it same day when I realized our bond is bigger than this confusion, but I was blocked by then. Literally the same day and I've been sulking ever since. It's been about 2 days.

Did I mention the same day I was blocked I had my bff text him to tell him to call me then later on I texted him from mom mom's phone. Nothing crazy just that I was sorry and can he forgive me for being scared or fearful and that I'm sad without him and that I won't bother him if he doesn't reach out after this and that I love him.

No response.

We do have deep feelings for each other so I'm like man I did it this time smh.



I think if you guys had a strong connection he will understand you were being insecure/unsure about the situation, he may have been hurt to hear that you don't want to continue with him. Did you expect to hear some reassurance from him when you said that? I feel at a certain stage guys get fed up of being told to go away and having to reassure and catering to our insecurities and impulses, it must hurt to be told to move away.

I feel he will come back. Give him some time. You don't go full Scorpio on him and block him now. click to expand



I read this in such a soft and caring voice lmaooo. I felt like I told him I was confused a few times enough for him to be able to understand. I even went into a limbo cutting him off lmao. I needed a damn day man. I should've just asked for some time. I did want reassurance since I felt like he was talking in circles. Cuz he said all that then was saying it didnt change how he felt about me. Then all I could think was omg this guy I love wants me to be a fling?! Lmao. I just got scared man. Ugh feelings suck. And yeah I know he was hurt for sure. I didn't mean to hurt him. I'd never block him back I want him in my life. We really had the best bond man. click to expand



Awww don't be upset. You need to be strong and stick to your guns. See he said he can't be more than how he is rn? I feel you did the right thing. I really think wanting more but settling for less affects us in a brutal way and being seen as a fling hurts too. Either he has to make you his gf and you guys work together and see how far you guys could go.

I hope he calls you? There isn't a lot you can do here now.
If he gets back,you guys have to discuss how you could make it more workable and steady long term. Can you move to his city? Look at various options. I feel he will contact you. But idk why men want to say all the right things but keep the girl in limbo. It doesn't speak well of them.



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I feel you. Well okay I had like two perspectives: one was that okay I just got out of a relationship and I was digging my freedom so I wasn't even looking for another one but then all these feelings got in the way and when he said that he didn't want one my mind was like oh hell nah but I love you now so umm f uck that lmao.

The second perspective was that well I do want what he wants right now so why not just flow with it and in the event that I do want to be in a relationship and he's not ready I can cut my losses then. Things change and ppl change. I didn't have to freak out and head for the hills really.

But I also didnt think my being in a limbo was worth an entire block smh.

I've always been trying to move to his city. My company is actually out there too but the pay isn't as good as where I am. So I was gonna get a second job maybe cuz I like that city so I've been wanting to move since before all of this anyway.

I can't even tell him my bright idea cuz I'm blocked lol click to expand

Since you were unsure and got offended because he was unsure,you kinda deserve the block
Jk

Go with the flow. You asked. He wasn't ready. You didn't do anything worse than that or tried to make him jealous or anything. I think he will get in touch...

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I guess I just asked what his expectations were but I ain't expect him to speak over our entire relationship lmao. Like aye what you mean we can't be together for real? Never? WHAT?! lmaoo. My brain was all spongebob n s hit.

But yeah I'm still here doing my best to feel the brightside. He's in all my dreams n s hit. Annoying lol.

Thanks for your input.
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I've never really blocked anyone before, I do have a bad habit of falling out of touch with people.

He probably cut you off cold turkey as a way to not deal with his feelings about you. It's an immature way of handling relationships, but sometimes a person is not good with closure.

I don't have a Cancer Moon, but I have a Pisces Moon and between that and a Virgo Sun I'm at constant war with what my heart wants and my head that overthinks every situation and detail....


Sounds about right but I know he's being haunted the same way I am.

Would you unblock me? Lmao.
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I've never really blocked anyone before, I do have a bad habit of falling out of touch with people.

He probably cut you off cold turkey as a way to not deal with his feelings about you. It's an immature way of handling relationships, but sometimes a person is not good with closure.

I don't have a Cancer Moon, but I have a Pisces Moon and between that and a Virgo Sun I'm at constant war with what my heart wants and my head that overthinks every situation and detail....





Sounds about right but I know he's being haunted the same way I am.

Would you unblock me? Lmao. click to expand

Possibly, if he's the type to be plagued by "What if's" lol. click to expand
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Sooooo I called cuz I figured I'd still be blocked and right now I'm mad so I'm like well I'll probably still be blocked but lemme just try it and it rang twice almost a third then went to voicemail. Now normally it goes straight to voicemail. I may be unblocked. But not I feel half embarassed for calling if that's the case. I did send a text saying I didn't mean to bother sorry with an embarrassed emoji. Ugh. I do the dumbest s hit man.
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I've never really blocked anyone before, I do have a bad habit of falling out of touch with people.

He probably cut you off cold turkey as a way to not deal with his feelings about you. It's an immature way of handling relationships, but sometimes a person is not good with closure.

I don't have a Cancer Moon, but I have a Pisces Moon and between that and a Virgo Sun I'm at constant war with what my heart wants and my head that overthinks every situation and detail....





Sounds about right but I know he's being haunted the same way I am.

Would you unblock me? Lmao. click to expand



Possibly, if he's the type to be plagued by "What if's" lol. click to expand



Sooooo I called cuz I figured I'd still be blocked and right now I'm mad so I'm like well I'll probably still be blocked but lemme just try it and it rang twice almost a third then went to voicemail. Now normally it goes straight to voicemail. I may be unblocked. But not I feel half embarassed for calling if that's the case. I did send a text saying I didn't mean to bother sorry with an embarrassed emoji. Ugh. I do the dumbest s hit man. click to expand

It's not dumb, it hurts when you care about someone and start investing energy and time in them and they fall of the face of the Earth.

Go through the tide of being angry, because hell why not? The Virgo abruptly ended everything with a sorry excuse of "I'm not ready for this" and then bam permablock on everything.

Allow yourself to be angry, sad, hurt and then realize that not every guy you meet is going to be this terrible at communication or run away when things start to heat up. click to expand
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Those are valid points. I supposed I still care because I mean I did push him away. I mean yeah though, I don't deserve this cold treatment.

I'll get over it eventually.
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I've never really blocked anyone before, I do have a bad habit of falling out of touch with people.

He probably cut you off cold turkey as a way to not deal with his feelings about you. It's an immature way of handling relationships, but sometimes a person is not good with closure.

I don't have a Cancer Moon, but I have a Pisces Moon and between that and a Virgo Sun I'm at constant war with what my heart wants and my head that overthinks every situation and detail....





Sounds about right but I know he's being haunted the same way I am.

Would you unblock me? Lmao. click to expand



Possibly, if he's the type to be plagued by "What if's" lol. click to expand



Sooooo I called cuz I figured I'd still be blocked and right now I'm mad so I'm like well I'll probably still be blocked but lemme just try it and it rang twice almost a third then went to voicemail. Now normally it goes straight to voicemail. I may be unblocked. But not I feel half embarassed for calling if that's the case. I did send a text saying I didn't mean to bother sorry with an embarrassed emoji. Ugh. I do the dumbest s hit man. click to expand

It's not dumb, it hurts when you care about someone and start investing energy and time in them and they fall of the face of the Earth.

Go through the tide of being angry, because hell why not? The Virgo abruptly ended everything with a sorry excuse of "I'm not ready for this" and then bam permablock on everything.

Allow yourself to be angry, sad, hurt and then realize that not every guy you meet is going to be this terrible at communication or run away when things start to heat up. click to expand
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My Virgo guy went from open to honest about his feelings...saying “I love you!” one week after dating. Dating for 7 months and then Aug. shutting down and pushing his feeling away/ down and saying “you were right it was too soon. I am not ready for a relationship!” Nov. -Jan he came back only to realize he still isn’t ready. We text almost everyday he is extremely busy working 24/7 and has now said “just need a little space!” I have realized to let go. Maybe he will come back maybe not won’t. If it’s meant to be it will be but either way I will always love this man. I thought he was a great communicator and never thought he would run away from his feelings. How was I so wrong?
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I have the same placements. I dont block people unless I think theyre totally insane and dangerous. The whole having a bunch of strangers message him thing is treetrunking weird dude. Not to mention the leaving him for somebody else and expecting him to just be there whenever you want. I dont think youre getting him back. If a virgo wants you, they'll fight to not lose you. End of.


I’m going through something similar after sending mean text he blocked me! I’ve been blocked since March but he disappeared in December. we have been off and on for almost two years. We were long distance friends but talked everyday then would have arguements and stop talking now he finally moved closer to me he came to see me every weekend spent a whole week over my house but after a pregnancy scare I told him we should be friends he stopped talking to me but reads my messeges on hangouts but doesn’t reply I send him songs on YouTube and explained my feelings for him in full detail he sent me a address when I told him I want to talk but he didn’t send anything else now I’m flying to his city this weekend do you think he will meet with me it’s about to be 6 months since we talked
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I have the same placements. I dont block people unless I think theyre totally insane and dangerous. The whole having a bunch of strangers message him thing is treetrunking weird dude. Not to mention the leaving him for somebody else and expecting him to just be there whenever you want. I dont think youre getting him back. If a virgo wants you, they'll fight to not lose you. End of.
It was 1 stranger lmao. My bff the same day we had the fall out like not too long after. Then it was me but from my mom's phone same day as well. I let him go the first time because he was super inconsistent with communication this is a ldr. So I went with the person I felt was making the most effort. I'm still not mad about that. This time around I didn't expect him to just be there my expectations were only to rebuild the bond, that's exactly what I told him. Then when I asked him it was like this whole bit about us never being together and I'm like whoa if you been knew this then why tell me you love me and be doin all the things you did. If he wanted to continue building the bond slowly that's all he had to say. So if I felt like I was wasting my time at that point then I feel like it was justified. I told him that I was confused and didn't know what to do before I tried to let him go so I mean if that warrants a block then so be it. He's not the be all end all of my existence. If he comes back great, if not fu ck it.
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I have the same placements. I dont block people unless I think theyre totally insane and dangerous. The whole having a bunch of strangers message him thing is treetrunking weird dude. Not to mention the leaving him for somebody else and expecting him to just be there whenever you want. I dont think youre getting him back. If a virgo wants you, they'll fight to not lose you. End of.


I’m going through something similar after sending mean text he blocked me! I’ve been blocked since March but he disappeared in December. we have been off and on for almost two years. We were long distance friends but talked everyday then would have arguements and stop talking now he finally moved closer to me he came to see me every weekend spent a whole week over my house but after a pregnancy scare I told him we should be friends he stopped talking to me but reads my messeges on hangouts but doesn’t reply I send him songs on YouTube and explained my feelings for him in full detail he sent me a address when I told him I want to talk but he didn’t send anything else now I’m flying to his city this weekend do you think he will meet with me it’s about to be 6 months since we talked click to expand
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I think he will
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I have the same placements. I dont block people unless I think theyre totally insane and dangerous. The whole having a bunch of strangers message him thing is treetrunking weird dude. Not to mention the leaving him for somebody else and expecting him to just be there whenever you want. I dont think youre getting him back. If a virgo wants you, they'll fight to not lose you. End of.



It was 1 stranger lmao. My bff the same day we had the fall out like not too long after. Then it was me but from my mom's phone same day as well. I let him go the first time because he was super inconsistent with communication this is a ldr. So I went with the person I felt was making the most effort. I'm still not mad about that. This time around I didn't expect him to just be there my expectations were only to rebuild the bond, that's exactly what I told him. Then when I asked him it was like this whole bit about us never being together and I'm like whoa if you been knew this then why tell me you love me and be doin all the things you did. If he wanted to continue building the bond slowly that's all he had to say. So if I felt like I was wasting my time at that point then I feel like it was justified. I told him that I was confused and didn't know what to do before I tried to let him go so I mean if that warrants a block then so be it. He's not the be all end all of my existence. If he comes back great, if not fu ck it. click to expand
Okay then move on and respect his space. He would have been more likely to come around if you didnt do all of the desperate trying to make him talk to you stuff. click to expand
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It was more of an I'm sorry not an I'm desperate-- it was the same day. I felt wrong but I don't even feel wrong anymore. He can stay where he at if I'm that desperate lmao tf. I don't think it was this serious but cool beans.
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I have the same placements. I dont block people unless I think theyre totally insane and dangerous. The whole having a bunch of strangers message him thing is treetrunking weird dude. Not to mention the leaving him for somebody else and expecting him to just be there whenever you want. I dont think youre getting him back. If a virgo wants you, they'll fight to not lose you. End of.



It was 1 stranger lmao. My bff the same day we had the fall out like not too long after. Then it was me but from my mom's phone same day as well. I let him go the first time because he was super inconsistent with communication this is a ldr. So I went with the person I felt was making the most effort. I'm still not mad about that. This time around I didn't expect him to just be there my expectations were only to rebuild the bond, that's exactly what I told him. Then when I asked him it was like this whole bit about us never being together and I'm like whoa if you been knew this then why tell me you love me and be doin all the things you did. If he wanted to continue building the bond slowly that's all he had to say. So if I felt like I was wasting my time at that point then I feel like it was justified. I told him that I was confused and didn't know what to do before I tried to let him go so I mean if that warrants a block then so be it. He's not the be all end all of my existence. If he comes back great, if not fu ck it. click to expand


Okay then move on and respect his space. He would have been more likely to come around if you didnt do all of the desperate trying to make him talk to you stuff. click to expand



It was more of an I'm sorry not an I'm desperate-- it was the same day. I felt wrong but I don't even feel wrong anymore. He can stay where he at if I'm that desperate lmao tf. I don't think it was this serious but cool beans. click to expand
You only have to tell him once. And its not that serious which is why he's like nah. click to expand
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I only told him once lol. The first time I asked for him to call him the second time I told him I'm sorry and bleh bleh in a short msg. Sooooooo... I mean it's gonna be what it's gonna be. I'm not ashamed for fighting for someone I found valuable. If he doesn't feel the same way in that regard then f uck it. I knowI tried my best to fix it. Not like I cheated on him or cursed him out or anything. So okay bet lol.
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I have the same placements. I dont block people unless I think theyre totally insane and dangerous. The whole having a bunch of strangers message him thing is treetrunking weird dude. Not to mention the leaving him for somebody else and expecting him to just be there whenever you want. I dont think youre getting him back. If a virgo wants you, they'll fight to not lose you. End of.



It was 1 stranger lmao. My bff the same day we had the fall out like not too long after. Then it was me but from my mom's phone same day as well. I let him go the first time because he was super inconsistent with communication this is a ldr. So I went with the person I felt was making the most effort. I'm still not mad about that. This time around I didn't expect him to just be there my expectations were only to rebuild the bond, that's exactly what I told him. Then when I asked him it was like this whole bit about us never being together and I'm like whoa if you been knew this then why tell me you love me and be doin all the things you did. If he wanted to continue building the bond slowly that's all he had to say. So if I felt like I was wasting my time at that point then I feel like it was justified. I told him that I was confused and didn't know what to do before I tried to let him go so I mean if that warrants a block then so be it. He's not the be all end all of my existence. If he comes back great, if not fu ck it. click to expand


Okay then move on and respect his space. He would have been more likely to come around if you didnt do all of the desperate trying to make him talk to you stuff. click to expand



It was more of an I'm sorry not an I'm desperate-- it was the same day. I felt wrong but I don't even feel wrong anymore. He can stay where he at if I'm that desperate lmao tf. I don't think it was this serious but cool beans. click to expand


You only have to tell him once. And its not that serious which is why he's like nah. click to expand



I only told him once lol. The first time I asked for him to call him the second time I told him I'm sorry and bleh bleh in a short msg. Sooooooo... I mean it's gonna be what it's gonna be. I'm not ashamed for fighting for someone I found valuable. If he doesn't feel the same way in that regard then f uck it. I knowI tried my best to fix it. Not like I cheated on him or cursed him out or anything. So okay bet lol. click to expand
Should have fought harder when you had him I guess. click to expand
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I did all I knew. I'm human. So I don't feel bad at all. If he wanna act like he's perfect then that's on him lol. Good luck to em.
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My good friend is a Virgo with Cancer moon.
Sometimes I have to watch out what I say when talking with him.
There have been times when apparently I've said/done something wrong, usually because situations are happening, and he's gone mia for 2weeks, no contact, I think he's blocked me a few times but not sure.
Last time he did this was yesterday lol.
He always comes back with like "Hey bro, how are you?" and it's all good again.

Good luck
Lmao yo I'm always doing something to cancer moons omg. So okay there's a chance he'll come around or may wanna see me when I'm down there... you guys are giving me hope lol.
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Maybe he's sexting your friend you gave his number to



Lmao he absolutely is matta fact click to expand
Lol for real? click to expand
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Lmaooo no as s hole 😂😂😂😂. One thing I love about you virgos is you'll hand my ass to me if I need it but you're always down for a good joke after lmaooooo
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My good friend is a Virgo with Cancer moon.
Sometimes I have to watch out what I say when talking with him.
There have been times when apparently I've said/done something wrong, usually because situations are happening, and he's gone mia for 2weeks, no contact, I think he's blocked me a few times but not sure.
Last time he did this was yesterday lol.
He always comes back with like "Hey bro, how are you?" and it's all good again.

Good luck



Lmao yo I'm always doing something to cancer moons omg. So okay there's a chance he'll come around or may wanna see me when I'm down there... you guys are giving me hope lol. click to expandclick to expandclick to expand



Mmhm, there's a chance he'll return.
If he thinks you're playing with him, it's less likely tho.

Once I got tired of said friend's attitude, I simply deleted him and removed him from my life.
Guess who showed initiative when he couldn't reach me.

I got over it pretty quick tho.

So yeah, if you value the dude and who he really is, maybe tone down your leeb moon a little.

Water moon + air/earth moon = tippy tooess ime
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Idk how to tip toe, I big stomp 😧... the last thing I was gonna do is just let him know I'm in town when I get there and see how it goes.
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Maybe he's sexting your friend you gave his number to



Lmao he absolutely is matta fact click to expand


Lol for real? click to expand



Lmaooo no as s hole 😂😂😂😂. One thing I love about you virgos is you'll hand my ass to me if I need it but you're always down for a good joke after lmaooooo click to expand
Hahaha. Yeah we dont stay mad long. So maybe there is hope. Idrk tbh. click to expand
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I knowwww. Mind you dispite all this foolishness I explained we genuinely always had a good time like always always laughing and joking. I hate that feelings made it so serious 😧. I love virgos you guys are one of my favs so I'm annoyed at myself lmao 😧😧😧
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I will block you on emotions...I can be a bit passive aggressive
now if its not on my crazy emotions good luck I have an ex still blocked since 2010



Lawwwddd but what did he do? I didn't even do anything truly crazy man click to expand

Walked in on him sleeping with my "friend"
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Yo! You see I'd never do anything like that and never have. That's grounds for a BIG BLOCK...hella I may have killed both of them. But I'm a scorpio so lmao.

See this doesn't compare to that. I never even cursed at him ever. We always had a great time with each other. Always laughing, always a party lmao.

That's why I care so much we got along great man.
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Maybe he's sexting your friend you gave his number to



Lmao he absolutely is matta fact click to expand


Lol for real? click to expand



Lmaooo no as s hole 😂😂😂😂. One thing I love about you virgos is you'll hand my ass to me if I need it but you're always down for a good joke after lmaooooo click to expand
Hahaha. Yeah we dont stay mad long. So maybe there is hope. Idrk tbh. click to expand
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He called meeee *dancinggggg*
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My good friend is a Virgo with Cancer moon.
Sometimes I have to watch out what I say when talking with him.
There have been times when apparently I've said/done something wrong, usually because situations are happening, and he's gone mia for 2weeks, no contact, I think he's blocked me a few times but not sure.
Last time he did this was yesterday lol.
He always comes back with like "Hey bro, how are you?" and it's all good again.

Good luck



Lmao yo I'm always doing something to cancer moons omg. So okay there's a chance he'll come around or may wanna see me when I'm down there... you guys are giving me hope lol. click to expandclick to expandclick to expand



Mmhm, there's a chance he'll return.
If he thinks you're playing with him, it's less likely tho.

Once I got tired of said friend's attitude, I simply deleted him and removed him from my life.
Guess who showed initiative when he couldn't reach me.

I got over it pretty quick tho.

So yeah, if you value the dude and who he really is, maybe tone down your leeb moon a little.

Water moon + air/earth moon = tippy tooess ime
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He called meeeee
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Posted by TicksMuyTerrible
Maybe he's sexting your friend you gave his number to



Lmao he absolutely is matta fact click to expand


Lol for real? click to expand



Lmaooo no as s hole 😂😂😂😂. One thing I love about you virgos is you'll hand my ass to me if I need it but you're always down for a good joke after lmaooooo click to expand


Hahaha. Yeah we dont stay mad long. So maybe there is hope. Idrk tbh. click to expand

He called meeee *dancinggggg* click to expand
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LMAO...we go through all this shit and maybe it’s just over thinking on our part but then we get their call/ text and we get so excited that they’ve reached out again. I am so happy for you!!
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Maybe he's sexting your friend you gave his number to



Lmao he absolutely is matta fact click to expand


Lol for real? click to expand



Lmaooo no as s hole 😂😂😂😂. One thing I love about you virgos is you'll hand my ass to me if I need it but you're always down for a good joke after lmaooooo click to expand


Hahaha. Yeah we dont stay mad long. So maybe there is hope. Idrk tbh. click to expand



He called meeee *dancinggggg* click to expand
Oh yeah?! What he say? click to expand
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Well I did all the damn talking lmaoo. But he said he felt the same way he thought about me everyday too and that I didn't have to apologize and that at the end of the day we're human and that he cares for me deeply. He understood my feelings in saying that you know you don't play with people's feelings so like if I felt like that he could understand why I responded that way. But I let him know that he means more to me than anything and idc if we're just friends or whatever the hell I just want him in my life. Our bond is more important than the bullshit.

I'm currently on cloud 9 lmao
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