Virgoexalted, you fascinate me and therefore I keep returning to the dxp although I have no time for it. "I am a Virgo, take it or leave" you wrote. I cannot believe you're 18 and I have difficulty to believe you're a Virgo. However, reading about your unfortunate childhood, it could have left you with bitterness. There is so much emotion in you and life philosophy, it's almost unbelievable. But I also feel hate and anger in you. The astrologers say that Scorpios are most emotional people of the zodiac. It is not so. Some Virgos are as emotional except that Virgo's don't show it. Even though our pain lasts forever in some cases, we suppress the feeling, while Scorpios explode. They throw it directly into your face together with their revenge. My whole life was one big misery and yet, I don't know feeling of hate nor anger. These two characteristics can ruin your life. Try to consume these two killers and start thinking positively about good things only. And think big! Don't waste your time with anything that doesn't bring you fruit (Americans say "roses"). The time flies. With your special intellect you can fly as high as to the sky. Think of happy future, not the past. This moment, as you are reading my letter, is already "past". Do you understand? Meditation is the most profound healer. If everybody meditated on peace and happiness, the whole world would be that way. I wish Bush meditated and all the others similar to him. Unfortunately, one can't even move their brains, not mentioning their feelings.
You wrote: "I think of myself as an activist, and humanitarian". That is a Virgo-like thinking as we were born with this damn feeling. This feeling will only bring more bitterness into your life. You cannot change the world, you cannot change human kind. Believe me, I was there all my life. One day you look back and you'll find emptiness and question mark "where the time went and what have I achieved?". If you are really humanitarian, let the world know your beautiful ideas. You live in a free country where anything is possible. Write a book. You are a born writer and I am sure you'll find the best plot. Or prepare yourself for a political career. If you achieve it without allowing your feelings being swayed by the wrong people, or money, you can bring humanity and prosperity to your country, to people of the future
.........not some stupid ass horoscope....screw that I gotta say people are better off with out 'em. At least it let's people show who they REALLY are without the restriction of labels and description. The only restriction I ran across came from listening to the nonsense of an astrologer who dosen't even know me as a person, yet feels as though they can label me what they wish.....talk about verbal abuse!
My parents are the most materialistic people (gemini mother scorpion father) I've met, and I wasn't at all. They told me 'You're just perfect, we know not to worry about you' translation: 'your fine the way you are, you don't need our attention, so why should we give it?'I suppose a human being wants what they don't have access to, but my point is, a person's development is on them, and after a certain point, you learn to think and draw inferences on your own. I grew up pretty decent if I say so myself despite my harsh childhood. I won't go into detail just know it was depressing, and it would break ANY kids spirit and belief in a higher power, but I perserved becuase I believed that there was something better out there...I didn't know it for a fact, but I knew becuase if there was bad in the world there HAD to be good! If I have a problem it's becuase I'm trying to reconcile with an unfortunate past, to make a better future for myself. To be young and to realize you're not loved unless 'certain conditions' are met is painful; not to mention that you aren't easily understood by your peers it makes life isolating and cold....star, everyone, I'm trying to get past the bs in my life in order to be the whole person I am....but I know it starts with me, and in that I know I'm the master of my destiny.
*VE exits to stage left in tearful confession* roflmao!!
c'mon people we've got to do better....isn't that the whole reason we're on here? To discuss what matters to us, and whom we are to ultimately do better? If there was one person on this website that wasn't as narcissistic as the another, than that person wouldn't get heard at all!! If we're going to get to the bottom of anything (That's why people discuss things, to accomplish something by realizing the aim) we've got to learn to tolerate other peoples differences; not saying anybody's gotta kiss ass, just understand that they've got THEIR way and you have YOURS.
Astrology aside folks, being big people now, (meaning astrology isn't as important as just interacting with a person) People are people. They've got their flaws, they've got their gifts, why allow an astrological profile to limit/restrict your potential ability? It's like saying you'll never be any better than what is said about you. Correct me if I'm wrong, but isn't it usually up to the person to control/forsee their own destiny/choices in life? Being a Virgo, or Pisces, ect, shouldn't even compare in importance. If all I was WAS a Virgo and y'all know the traits, I'd be missing out on many things I've already got inside of me. They're nothing more than pictures/symbols that depict some idea someone created long ago. I know that courage, and confidence lies in anyone who desires it. Anyone with a cause to fight for will keep coming back. If all you adults can understand from me is my damned birthday, than I suppose I'd be better off somewhere else.....to think that y'all actually know each other just because you know each others signs!!!! It's precisely that reason why you DON'T know each other and that's why everyone gets offended! Because what's been going around isn't fully truth!!....we're all individuals and have our own personalities, outside of the zoidiacs control/descriptions....why do you adults/people forget that?
I didn't realize your son was a Pisces, if you mentioned it before, I've forgotten .. it's doubly important then to keep him emotionally balanced.
My son is Scorpio and, also, it was important, since his water makes him more emotional than others. Through his youth, my husband attempted to throw him off balance by pressuring him into grudges, vengence, and manipulations, which isn't good at all, since Scorpio's are begrudging by nature. I just refused to allow it .. if he's sad, he's allowed to cry, that holds no bearing on his future manhood .. if he's angry, he's allowed to vent and the Virgo would NOT critisize him about losing composure .. whatever the emotion was, he was encouraged to express it, so he could then later, after his rational mind sifted in, to look at the situation objectively. Thing is .. if he wasn't allowed to embrace his emotions then he wouldn't be able to look at what happened objectively and put it into perspective because it would still be tormenting him.
My Virgo husband was not allowed to have any emotional influence over my Scorpio son .. because he isn't capable of it. So, I know exactly where you are coming from, SF.
"Only way that I can have some peace seems from his stuff is if I cut all communication even when it comes to our son, bc he has even tried to use our son to get close to me"
That's just not right, SF .. your child is NOT responsible for his feelings. Virgo men are just crap when it comes to being responsible for their feelings .. and I don't blame you if you decide to cut all communication because your child shouldn't have to suffer any emotional damage because his father can't handle his own.
SF .. I've found that all past relationships I've had with people, these people continue to try and stay in my life. They are forever trying to win me back. People don't realize until after they have lost their Pisces, that we aren't players. At the time, they think we are, because we are so very emotional and men have it programmed into them that this is a manipulation. But, after we're gone, they realize we are emotional because we are sensitive and it has nothing to do with trying to trick them into an emotional manipulation, like other women. For if it was .. we would throw a display for attention, instead of just letting them walk away. If you don't want us, then just walk .. at this point is when they begin to realize.
If we're feeling something, then we are really feeling it, it's not for the purpose of getting the man to give us attention .. in fact, most Pisces women I know cry alone and don't want to burden their man with her tears.
These men realize this once we're gone and are dealing with women who throw dramatic fits to gain attention or jealousy .. they realize that our aim was only to love and nothing more .. we are just emotionally driven.
We are responsible for our own emotions and expect the man to be also .. once this dawns on the man, he tries to come back .. always.