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    Joined dxpnet on October 11, 2017.
    Posted by Impulsv
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    Posted by Parkourler
    I need to vent.

    The honeymoonphase ended, and I realized, that she Pisses me off big time. I quietly endured her snapping, her blunt behavior, because I thought that I gotta rise up to the Occasion, be man enough
    for her, I told myself I gotta be not butthurt, I gotta stand up for myself. I wasnt that bad actually, I quickly
    calmed her down with hugs and jokes, sometimes I yelled back, that felt good. So we got along, until
    I realized that these are not antics, she is aggressive and impulsive by nature.

    You can be outside your Comfort zone to grow, but if being outside your comfort zone you have to
    put up with behavior that is against everything you stand for, then I ve got no business there.


    Being snapped very often, pisses me off big time. I am a gentle peaceful guy, deep inside. I dont
    want to feel irritated all the time. Why THE FUCK is it okay to be unfriendly to people? I know she doesnt mean to cause harm, she has a short fuse.

    I dont like blunt talking. Bluntness can be funny, when she makes pretty mean jokes, but it also can
    be downright, inconsiderate and ruthless.

    I tried very hard to be unphased, because I kinda accepted the thinking: Hey, at least we are not fake,
    you are too sensitive / weak if you cannot handle it. NO NO NO.

    1. Yes you guys are not fake, but so what. It is possible to express harsh truth in a careful way.
    Sometimes it is necessary to be blunt in order to snap the guy out, you gotta be careful not to be mean.
    No, that has nothing to do with insecurity or not having balls.

    I dont like impulsive Behavior, just jumping into the water without factchecking can cause serious blowbacks.

    I guess Taurus and Aries are just not comfortable. I am so tired and burned out. My Conclusion:
    Opposite people are only good for affairs, not for relationships, because that requires lots of talking things through, lots of fighting, we are unable to fulfill each others needs. I will only have relationships with Woman with who I have a lot in common, like cancer woman, or virgo woman. Unfortunately I have
    to rule out Scorpio woman too.

    I am so tired, I dont hold any grudges, I want her to have a relationship with a guy who is similar to her in terms of temper, interests, values etc because that will make her happy. Knowing that I will never be that guy, breaks my heart. We both deserve to be happy.










    OK. So nothing positive? Then OK understand. What you want fairy tale? Can't you handle her?
    For Aries and scorpio weak no need to apply.
    I understand you trust me but it takes time to smother together. If you guys at the beggining that's OK, you both fighting for dominance. The key is to compromise. If she can't, maybe because no one showed her how to do so. You aren't perfect my friend, nor I, or anyone else. Bare that in mind. In case is really nothing positive or at least equal out then yes nothing to do with each other. However you get together for some reason. Good to not forget that too. The easiest always to give up and walk away.

    One reason I have minimal contact with Aries is I know they are rude obnoxious n I’m not up for it
    No need to compromise here
    Nobodies job to teach them basic manners. Sadly it’s fun until no longer fun
    And it’s ok he has discovered that
    Fun does not take away from reality of just being straight cruel.
    They hide under pretense of bluntness when it’s just cruel .
    Hey it’s not about easiest way
    ITS about not his preference .
    N that’s is ok
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    It is an excellent opportunity to put your hurt up smile

    Nothing is compulsory in this world. Teaching manner or not. Some does, some doesn't. As I meant after that, the poster not acting upon recent stress whatsoever and regret it later. Obviously it's not my relationship so he knows better. It's just too much complaint for a topic smile
    I was living with an aries female for long time, and was no such experience as written by the post starter. Anyway. Many feet even more shoes.

    Many relationship has bumps and up and downs. It's normal. Maybe I am wrong. I think people get together for reason by their own choice. Not sure how long but to me walking away easily says it wasn't meaningful or strong anyway. Or one of the parties are simply weak. Maybe its my loyalty and level of commitment speaking.