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    37 years old female from NY
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    Posted by Smil3
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    Why are you not calling him and asking him out on a 'date' or whatever it is that you want to do?



    ThAts not her place as a woman. she’s already served her body on a silver platter, she should chase him too??


    LOL how sexist!

    She's an adult and it's her choice to do whatever she wants with her body. She's already stated numerous times she's perfectly fine with casual sex. If that's what she wants then she should own it and be brave enough to call him and ask him out . So she should wait until he calls her whenever he's in the mood? Of course, she'll say yes. There's nothing wrong with her picking up the phone and saying hey I like you, let's hang out. That's not chasing, it's called being a grown up. lol





    No it’s not! And men are wired diff. If she starts chasing him, watch him run faster than Usain Bolt. But go ahead and chase sis I’m not stopping you.


    I agree that men and women are wired differently, it doesn't mean she cannot initiate a 'date' lol
    The reality is that FWB does happen, and I don't think in every instance a woman is waiting for the guy to call. The girls initiate as well lol Someone with fwb experience will tell you that.



    She can initiate. After all she can do anything she wants. It’s her life and her world. Doesn’t mean she will get the desired results. Her agreeing to be fwb already has soured this Union. Her further initiating anything is even more desperate.

    It’s clear as day that she wants more than to be a sex toy.

    How many men have your chased and how did it end?


    I never said I chased men. There has to be a mutual interest of course.
    If a guy shows interest in me and asks me out on a date and I like him, I'm confident enough to initiate phone conversations and even suggest future dates. It's called dating.



    You didn’t answer my question tho. Also this man is not showing mutual interest and you’re suggesting she chase him. Setting her up for further failure. Calling and asking men out on dates is chasing. How did those relationships that you chased the man work out? Still with them? Married?



    That's false. He's already stated he liked her.

    "He said that he was looking for something casual, but I didn't protest that."

    "Cappy called me himself after 2 days after that date and told me that he is headed to Vegas for work the day after and invited me to join him for two days (one night), of course I said yes and obviously that time there would be sex between us at last, but then the next morning he called me to say that the person he has supposed to see in vegas, won't be there so he has to reschedule the trip, but that he goes to vegas for work often so next time and I said "ok."

    He will call her again when he goes to Vegas and she will accept (correct me if I'm wrong OP).
    So if they both want fwb (and she has stated that she's ok with it) I don't see why she has to wait for his call? That's my opinion and you don't have to agree.

    Reread what I wrote. I specifically said-
    I never said I chased men. There has to be a mutual interest of course.
    If a guy shows interest in me and asks me out on a date and I like him, I'm confident enough to initiate phone conversations and even suggest future dates. It's called dating.

    As far as my personal life, that's none of your business. I'm done talking to you. You have your opinion and I have mine.

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    I can’t read after you said “he said he liked her”

    You whole statement after that is moot. Reason being, words mean nothing. Actions are everything.