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  • Posted by m3h
    Posted by StrawberryJam
    spot on that's the defense, it's called the deactivation strategy. They do this as they crave closeness yet it translate into loss of independence to them.
    @m3h
    Honestly I'm still learning how to achieve a mutually satisfying bonding with this type of attachment style . Reading a new book about it now. I'm not sure whats the best way to go about it either.

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    Thanks for introducing me to the attachment type concept! This is something that I want to look into now.

    It's a bit challenging to understand why they translate a positive need into a sort of negative feedback...it's sounds like self-deprivation through self-regulation?

    Haven't had a chance to read https://www.psychalive.org/anxious-avoidant-attachment/ yet, but will try to later on. (nts) Hopefully it'll give insight on the best approach to your current situation.

    Thanks I've seen that article, I'm always fascinated by psychology. If you have a chance to stop by your library have a read at "Attached" from Amir Lavine. It's ground breaking. Still haven't heard from him. He liked my new photo, and still view all stories. Hope he is not playing games...