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  • I am really sensitive on occasion, even when I am the one breaking up with someone.

    I was dating a gemini, I know I know. There were things about him that bothered me quickly, things he would back peddle on, the reasons he said he broke up with his ex w, his life style . But he was sweet most of the time so I thought maybe he was just not open talking sometimes about some matters. The other times, he would snap at me and be incredibly rude even to the point of body shaming me. I asked if he ever hit anyone, he said an old boss of his and he would have road rage. I asked if he ever hit his ex and he said he didn’t. Then he made racist and homophobic comments. It made me debate if there was any redeeming quality he had, maybe he could learn to be more accepting of people and manage anger. We talked the day after seeing him on the weekend, while it was all on my mind. He was sweet on the phone but I asked something about his traveling plan soon and he snapped at me, it was out of no where. So I told him I can’t do this, the way he can be fine one minute and scream another. To just leave me alone and I am done, it is the second time I tried to end things with him when from when he flipped but he seemed to be sincere about apologizing the other time. I hung up the call, then sent a message telling him that I can’t accept the way he talks and to just stay away

    We did not speak since that day and I feel better off because his behavior made me feel very uncomfortable sometimes. But why can’t I just get him out of my head. I am not in love with him, didn’t think about him the first few days but today am thinking of him a lot. We didn’t do anything in bed btw, just dating and a lot of kissing. He said he would respect until I was ready but something did not make comfortable to. How do I stop thinking about him, is it my Pisces sensitivity, my Sag rising, my Cap moon, Venus in Taurus or am I just clueless