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    Joined dxpnet on July 07, 2018.
    Hi guys. a Pisces woman here. I'm in a long distance relationship with an Aquarius man for 2.5 years and I think we're going to break up. He's been my friend since high school, dated a bit, grew apart in college, he got in a relationship, broke up and got together with me after he moved to another country. We've met a few times. And kept our relationship loving and fun. We've always envisioned marriage and talk about it so much, longed for it. It was a beautiful two years. We've supported each other in dreams, school, career. But on our third year, it just started getting dull.

    Of course we fight, of course we had lots of disagreements. We're opposites of the emotional spectrum and it's hard, but we loved. I've had a lot of work cut out for me at the beginning of the year so I wasn't able to give him lots of attention. I do when I can of course. He has actually suffered through depression for various things, and I think being apart from me is one of those reasons, and one day he just started drawing away.

    Then, he started to lie. Started to cut me off. Doing rude things, pushing me away. Ignoring my calls, being unresponsive to my affection. Being so under pressure with my works, I didn't know how to deal with it and I started acting crazy. Invading his space, being demanding. It just got worse. It felt unfair to me as it was unfair to him. I was at my worst. I was pushed down the priority list. He ghosted me for two months, even when we planned a three month trip we couldn't take months ago. In fact, he distanced hinself to me so hard, I just couldn't figure out why he still doesn't just say he wants to break up and not push thru the trip? He acts like he's no longer my boyfriend but he keeps me around and ocassionally talks to me. I was so much in agony, so I just worked on myself. I was calmer and more composed, got a better figure, got new clothes, being more positive compared to the past months.

    Now came the month of the trip. And he started being more open, telling me he feels nothing, he's tired of fixing things, were just too different, and he wondered if it's fair to still ask me to come over. Of course I love him, I still want things to work out. And I told him I'm never gonna give up easily. So I'll do everything I can to show how much I've changed for the better.

    But everything is actually vague. He doesn't express affection to me, but wants to spoil me on material things like he used to (my mistake not letting him Sad because it didn't feel right if he didn't love me anymore), but ignores my emotional needs, worries about me because I'm sad, but doesn't wanna deal with me when I'm having trouble, he wants to spend time with me, but unsure of things if he wants to breakup. He calls me when I need him to, opens up about his feelings, but talks to me very limitedly, like one liners and Smileys. He doesn't ask about me, but he reports to me where he is or what he's doing, sends me selfies and videos. Then recently he told me he wanted to bring me to this restaurant he once said he'd bring his special someone to and we joked that I gotta dress slutty, but he refuses or ignore my sensual messages.

    It'st frustration and pain. I cry every night, dreading what he will do or say when I get there. Wondering how I'd go through with it if we fall apart when I'm oceans away from my family and friends.

    But I'm decided that I'm going. I feel as of it's the only chance I have to fix things. knowing all of this, do you guys still think I have a chance? And what should I do to win him back?

    My initial thought is forget about our issues and just enjoy the trip, and then talk about it before I go home. But I'm not sure if he's agreeable to this. His answer was so vague, but knowing him, I didn't wanna push it and drive him away.