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  • Posted by Squishy_Marshmallow
    Posted by Ram416
    Posted by Squishy_Marshmallow
    Why continue to be around anyone who insults your dad and race? Set a strong boundary.

    Idk if he will assault anyone or not. Cannot arrive at that conclusion from what you have shared. Even the most "sane" person can act out wildly when they feel triggered.



    I agree. If he's been insulting your family and race, it's showing he doesn't have any respect for you. Saying he was tired is a lame excuse for being disrespectful.

    Why be with someone who doesn't respect you?


    I'm surprised she continues to see him even after those insults. He is getting off on these control/manipulative dynamics and doesn't respect her at all.

    Smh
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    In person, or over the phone he is totally different - a put together/ politically correct person that isn't a fan of any form of racial jokes. It is via texts that I feel like he is like subliminally trying to send jabs, but it is difficult for me to confront him that way cause he can excuse it or say I misread his text messages. Makes me think, okay, maybe I did misread it - I won't accuse him unless I'm certain. He won't even bring up the jokes or the issues in person it is like his dark side crawls out when he is filtered through the phone screen.

    It definitely feels like he is testing my boundaries because I no longer responds to his texts but he would randomly show up knocking at my apartment. I'm not the type to be dramatic and threaten to call the cops, I feel like that is unnecessary (or is it?). I am seeing other people but he said since I'm not looking to be exclusive with anyone at this moment why cut off one of my options. He justify it as that it is not good to burn bridges with people. All which I agree but I feel like he is smart enough to figure out that I don't take him seriously but he still wants to mess with me. Almost feel like he is putting on a show that he is the "nice guy" and I'm the crazy/bad guy that is super harsh for trying to cut someone off.