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    I live in the land of the Corn Children.
    Joined dxpnet on December 14, 2016.
    Posted by tiziani
    Posted by Metatron
    Posted by Sag898
    It comes down to just " hope "

    You have to hope your significant other respects you enough to not cheat emotionally or physically with a friend of the opposite sex.

    Because the truth is most of the time attraction is there. And given the right circumstances or enough alcohol people would take the chance with the friend.

    That's just real life.

    If you think your boyfriend hasn't jerked off to his hot female friend or you haven't wanted to curl up and cry to your guy friend when you boyfriend is being a bitch. You are lying to yourself.


    I guess hope and trust are kinda similar in this context....And I agree with most of this, especially the bold part. But I would never "take the chance" or even have the desire to, no matter how drunk. I think emotional, mental, or even physical chemistry being present, can actually be kinda fun as long as there are boundaries. I think most people would even want to be surrounded by attractive people in their closest social circle. Ultimately this is why I think its better to bring opp. sex friends into the fold, and not have them as outliers that you or your SO always hang out with separately. Once that happens, that risk looks much less appealing. You don't just damage your own relationship, but the dynamic of the entire group if you decide to cheat - if the group works well as is, there's a certain respect for that, and desire to preserve it. If an opp. sex friend doesn't fit in there, probably less likely that I'd be hanging with them when in a committed relationship, just out of respect for my partner.


    "I think most people would even want to be surrounded by attractive people in their closest social circle."

    Yeah this is what I was saying to Nikki yesterday.
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    And we decided that I only keep attractive women around for their nudes.

    #ItsNotCreepyCuzNikki