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    Joined dxpnet on June 11, 2018.
    Posted by Pandora101
    Posted by Snowx3
    So... I made a drunk text, just a simple Hi to the Leo guy that ghosted me (3 months ago).

    This morning, he replied saying Hi back and asking how am I...
    I told him I was hanging a little bit and asked how were things?
    He then said he's been good, busy as always!
    So I told him, I'm surprised that you are replying back.
    And he was like why are you surprised. Which confused me...I didn't want to jump in and be like you never respond to me so I just wrote just haven't heard from you in a while. He just replied yeah was busy and took time for myself..

    I don't know if I was being eager but I just asked how he's finding things now, feeling better?

    He hasn't respond yet, it's been a few hours. So I was wondering how comes he's finally willing to text me back after 3 months but it seems really short and simple.
    Also, do you think I have scared him off...?

    Here is the previous topic, if you want to find out more...

    https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/leo/confused-by-leo-man-10963484/?checkpg=1


    I think maybe the texts were too superficial... like:
    Hi
    Hi, how are you
    Just hanging, how are you
    okey, but busy
    I surprised you even replied
    why
    i havent heard from you for a time
    was busy
    is it better now?

    silence..

    maybe he will eventually reply, maybe not
    but he is not ready now

    if you going to text him (in another 3 or 6 months or so), maybe just write something about you as well...... so not all the balls are in his court? (meaning all the responsibility to decide if he wants you, like it was 3 months ago...)

    next time just ask him some question (maybe from his field of work) or tell him something you are going thru and asking for an advice how he coped with it... you know, make it mutual, not just about him... make it short but substancial and sincere in the future

    with fixed signs it can take years

    PS. I read your link, how you two met? how long his break-up was at that time with his ex?
    click to expand


    Thank for replying smile,
    I don’t think I will text him again, I think I just wanted to see if he would respond when I was drunk. But being more awake now, makes me more aware of what is it.
    But if he does not or reply to me, I will take it as it is.