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    Four neighboring signs in four different elements...That's Me...
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    Joined dxpnet on August 24, 2011.
    Well it seems pretty clear the Leo is trying to back away from you. I'm not sure why you're trying to force this. You've only known the Leo and your boyfriend for 8 months, so you don't really know who the Leo is fully. Leo males aren't big texters, but we will text because we know everyone else is into it. The longer you know a Leo male, the lighter our texting will become. That is because we are busy people with engaging social lives. We don't like feeling tied to our phones. We'd rather see people in person or have phone conversations instead. Having to text on a phone for hours is simply exhausting and unnecessary.

    Likewise it sounds that either the Leo became too busy to constantly communicate with a person that he wasn't dating or he decided creating space was more beneficial for him. This could be because he wanted to focus on other girls or possibly because he realized that he was getting too close to you. A "gushy" friendship with a woman who is taken sounds problematic at best. Leos are loyal to our friends, but more loyal to our true friends. If the Leo felt that his friendship with you somehow infringed on his friendship with your boyfriend (his friend), it makes sense he'd detach from you.

    It sounds like he's tried to apply brakes to this situation. It's possible your boyfriend had a talk with him and the Leo agreed to give some space. It's also possible the Leo took it upon himself to do this before things became complicated. Now that you're no longer dating his friends, you should just leave this alone. Scheduling a time to meet the Leo just to tell him that you don't want to be friends, doesn't make any sense at all. That's like calling a person to tell them that you're not going to call them anymore. It's passive aggressive and you're hoping to get come type of response from the Leo. If you're not going to be friends with the Leo, then just cut the ties and let it go.

    I can't help but notice that even though you broke up with your boyfriend, there is very little mention on how this affected you. Instead you seem far more focused on this Leo guy. The Leo may have sensed this as well and detached before things got complicated.