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    Married, middleaged parttime housewife, Aqua-sun/Cap/Pisces/Taurus,married to,S
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    Joined dxpnet on May 04, 2012.
    Posted by JustALeo
    @lisabethur8

    The thing is, she's not fully ready for me to be around her daughter that much. This Aqua lady is super careful about who she lets into her and her daughter's life. I've tried, I've been with them twice and whenever I catch her at the gym I make conversation with the daughter. She's super smart and i always ask her how school is going for her and be dorky with her. Her daughter thinks im funny and nice; she's just very cautious because with her last relationships, the daughter started getting attached to the guy and then when he's gone, she doesn't want her daughter to go through that pain. Which is very understandable, but the thing is I wasn't planning on screwing up or hurting her like her ex's did so I have to prove that to her.

    I've been backing off for the past few weeks, i've been busy with school and she knows that. She'll text me either encouraging messages or just messages to encourage me in a way. Then usually I don't hear from her again until the end of the day where she tells me about her workout or anything. Like i said, the only times I really reach out now are just good morning messages or just messages encouraging her.

    Isn't her sun and moon the same as yours? I have mars in aries like her but i have a gemini venus.

    She always has a lot going on, I just saw her today and yesterday after not seeing her for weeks, although she's very beautiful I can tell by her face that she hasn't had much time to sleep. But i never tell her that, i just tell her she looks gorgeous. She knows how busy I am with school, my weeks are loaded with labs (I'm a biology major planning on going to med school) and also getting workouts in still...also im in the Army Reserves too with people under me, in fact she asked me yesterday when i had Army time again.

    She really liked the attention the first 2 months we were talking, she couldn't get enough of me. She would message me all the time or always wanting to see me or hear my voice...I know her best friend would always be there for her to help her talk out her feelings, but she hasn't even had a chance to hang or catch up with that best friend for almost a month now. So without someone there to help her balance out and let out her emotions, I feel like she's just overloaded in her head. I feel for her and have offered her help all the time, she's doing a personal trainer course right now and she told me it's a lot for her on top of everything, I've done that course before and she knows I used to be a personal trainer so I offered my help.

    I will continue to be sweet, affectionate, loving and also give her her space...I felt like she was somewhat coming back around this weekend but she didnt and thats ok, baby steps. Just keeping faith, thank you!



    probably that Saturn co ruler of ours, afraid of getting hurt if they got hurt before.

    Doesn't help when she has a capricorn moon too, that just exaberate things. But the good thing is, she will be loyal to you if you get her. lol ;p That Aries venus/Mars should be very easily for her to move on and less wary,

    also it might be dificult for her with that Aries/Mars combo and Capricorn, lots of cardinal action...so i can see how she needs to move movee and move and be very busy with her life.

    It's nice you have a gemini venus too, she seems to really like that --- because you both were so into eachother the first couple months, contacting constantly =D

    OK, stick around then.

    Don't give up on her. There's no one else for her on the horizon and it seems like she is only focusing on you as the ONLY male in the vicinity Big Grin So that's a very very good sign. Tongue

    lol sorry -- i know myself... i'm taurus dominant, so i understood why in the past i had so many admirers around me, like a bullette in the pasture with lots of bulls LOL but my capricorn only wants ONE person (eye on the PRIZE)



    but your Aqua woman has Aries in her personal chart, TWO personal placements...and Aries dominant women can get along without a man in her life!! Big Grin

    even Linda Goodman said, Aries women out of all the zodiac, can be without a man more than any other woman in the 12. lol So this woman of yours has a very very strong energy of that. I can see /read it in what u said about her Tongue

    you need to be the man by her side. ;p

    and you're welcom!!! keep us up to date.