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    Posted by fullmoongirl
    Posted by starlord
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    Posted by fullmoongirl
    Posted by starlord
    Yeah and I think he already think you have had the talk and he said: it's physically, I dob't want a relationship.
    Even though you pick up on things or believe you do, he doesn't want to take it further now. Isn't that what he says?


    Yup he said that a few days after i threw a bunch of things at him because i was really mad at him. Told him that i know he is not intrested in me and still wants his ex. I told him he only uses me sexually so there was no point in us hangingout anymore. Then i told him its over and to not text me again. He texted tho and some was the following “I’ve been honest about my feelings in trying to move on from my ex. I thought we were on the same page that our relationship was primarily physical. I’m not going out and sleeping around with other women. I’m not ready for another relationship. I thought all this was very clear.”


    It sounds like you have your answer right there.


    With that context yes the answer is very clear, and i had already ended it in my head but then he came back and changed after all that. And ofcourse my crab brain is clinging to that. Why make these changes? Im very intuitive, I feel that something is diffrent with him. He couldnt see me before a 2 week trip recently and i got mad at him. He came back a day early and made plans to see me the moment he landed. Its like hes making an extra effort to please me. Im just confussed now.


    He came back relieved, because now he can totally relax, as he has told you everything completely upfront, there is no way of misunderstanding, and you cannoy get mad at him or create drama about him not wanting anything but physical. Knowing no feelings is involved many guys will feel freer and do things to make you feel good, because it doesn't really matter to them, they are not risking anything by being nice.

    You want him to want more. That's it.


    You could be right and I have thought of this as the reason also but this is not the first time he mentions not being ready or it only being physical, its the 2nd time. The first time he said it (3 months into dating) things changed for the worse and then he ghosted me for 3 months (while social media stalking me). He came back and things were still not the best. This time its diffrent but yet again i can be holding on to this idea because i want more, hence should I bring it up.
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    Why do you put up with that?

    You shouldn't mention anything. He already knows everything.
    If you want to you could tell him you have feelings involved and that's why you have to put an end to it. Because that's what you should do.

    But who am I to judge. But I have experience with being pied and having the it's only physical from a cap guy. And I wanted to believe something as well, but come on girl, you know the truth. Just accept it. That's what's holding you back.
    But the guy doesn't care really so really what are you loosing? Not much.