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    Joined dxpnet on October 12, 2007.
    I can't say for sure if this is a permeant breakup but I find it ironic that it happened during the Aries full moon and full moons do bring accumulations to whatever was started during the corresponding new moon in which the Aries and I were together during the Aries new moon. He doesn't want to break up but I need a time out because I don't like the road we're on now.

    I've talked about my crazy ex Scorpio and how much of a pain he's been during the 9 months the Aries and I have been dating and now my Aries has a female friend that he started a work relationship with that I'm not happy about. He told her about me and I was okay with things at first until she started showing signs of wanting to be more with him. I think this work friend is his way of coping with his ego and insecurity of my ex and I past relationship.

    There's nothing I can do to make my ex go away and the Aries is just going to have to trust that I don't have anything going on with my ex still but I know that can be challenging given my Aries and I don't live in the same state. So he really has no way of knowing if I'm still seeing my ex or not especially since my ex is still throwing hints that he still wants me.

    I want my Aries to cut the female friend off or we won't get back together because I don't trust their relationship. I know she wants to be more with him and its not good for him to use her to emotionally escape from whatever insecurities he's having about me. So I don't know, I mean I don't really want to break up either but I just feel the trust has broken down on both sides and we just need to be a part for awhile to see if being together is the best thing.

    He's already expressed that he's not happy with this separation and his friends have called me not wanting me to break things off but I feel this is the best thing right now because going forward like this is only going to further break down trust and allow resentment to grow, then it will be even harder to try to rebuild and I don't want things to get that bad. At this point there's still a desire on my end to proceed and he doesn't want the break up at all but this is something I have to do for myself.