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    Posted by Sag898
    Posted by JuzzWifey
    Posted by Sag898
    What are scared of?


    I will repost what I did in the other thread:

    To be clear: I was heart broken 15 years ago. Yes that’s along time. Again, I am an aqua so I rather cheap thrills until I know deep down I can settle down and be happy for real. Aquas are highly misunderstood. We understands what it takes to be a great partner and we deliver but... can you reciprocate? I am actual sensitive to the point I rather be cold than to be warm and get hurt. Hint: I am on a forum trying to make sense before diving in.

    Yes, I am afraid of commitment. However, more afraid of it being with the wrong person. I feel he is being real and typically without the Magic’s foresight, I want to get some clarity. Relationships are never easy. I have been in a few. I protect, love, and have strong loyalty to my family and friends. I expect that from my partner as I will devote myself to his family as well. The extension of me is hard to get but once he get it... he has to world on a silver platter.

    This puts me in vulnerable situation. If anyone has truly loved someone, you understand that vulnerability is a real thing. You let go of egos and expectations and just love. But why dive in head first and get hurt, when you can carefully assess whether it’s worth it. At the same time, this has been a situation between us for years. So for me, this is not a testing ground. This is a man I love, respect, and adore (from afar because I don’t express it). I have a father Gem who once he gets a woman, he destroys them. My mother is a Leo, she does the same thing relentlessly. It actually make me see that people don’t understands truw values for a real long term commitment. That’s what I want from him. Not 6 years but 60. However, he doesn’t think that far. And I was curious because the reputation of Gems is that they are constantly changing their mind. While I have my mind made up, I really don’t want to play with someone who thinks this is how he feels today, living in the moment, then bam when that listful infatuation leaves, it’s like oh a new shiny thing. That’s devotion.

    I am well worth it in gold. Not tooting my own horn but I know I am not just going to hand it out. Flings are a great way to keep it simple. That’s it. So it would be nice to know if Gems truly desires thy or is that based on how they Fee today? Is his words only good for a period of time? If not, I will give him the love of his dreams because I don’t get tired of spoiling whoever I love with real love, understanding, and loyalty. That’s why my circle stays small. I am only one person.


    That's fair. Do you know who he truly is?
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    Yes! That’s the scarier part. Because he shows typical Gemini ways. I know a lot of them. But some are “somewhat” devoted to their partners. He feel like I’m the “one” truly. But I don’t have time for how he feeling and viewing life today and then he has new views tomorrow. Like know yourself and make up your mind. The things are stubborn on are of true value. I love that! But he doesn’t always come to terms with his romantic partners. Like they are everything today and nothing f tomorrow. He couldn’t explain that to me but I messed up with this one truly. That one eh we could have work but she was like this. And I am like... I wonder if you will run through me the same. He swears our relationship is “different”. We have been going strong continuously. He asked his family for blessings about us ( he doesn’t do that typically). He feel in a way he has earned me. Keep in mind, he is not all that financially where he wants to be. No he will not use me for money. But for our little level in life, I am a bit of a high bar. I asked him, well you only feel this way because of the the type of women you have encountered. Most of them uneducated, financially unstable, wrecklesa, rude, etc. I also explained to him that this is what he currently attracts and are in those “environments”. But once he change environments he will see that there are far more options. Truly- I have them too. I just drawn to him. My attempts have been to get him to see the bigger picture- like commitment doesn’t mean because I am the best option you have now. It’s in the face of even more options and in different environments, he will have room to roam with women who are educated and self sufficient. That’s pretty normal. So then, what?

    Gems have ways of like what they see depending on what they access to as well. With more exposure, he may not even care the same. And aquas we are different. You can put us next to anyone with anyone in any situation. We love you, that’s it! Nobody can come in between that- period. Our stubborn ways makes that all possible for people who hate it. But that stubbornness is what creates that loyalty. Gems arent typically as stubborn.