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    " Natal Chart
    44 years old female
    Joined dxpnet on September 22, 2007.

    I have been with 2 cappys in the past and am one myself:p
    We usually choose office relationships, well the men caps I know do for sure. I find the idea a little problematic if it doesn't work out, then you are stuck wiht the person their daily. And I don't want my workplace of peace bothered with. But that is just me.
    We don't warm up quickly to you and usually we watch you from afar then become friends with you. All the things you say he did are things to get to know you, learn you and get closer to you , trusting you etc. Typical cap stuff. However, I do know too we are very aloof with feelings when we are deeply feeling something too- but also very much in need of reassurance that you like us before we let our emotions be shown or known. WE need security before we make a move.
    With that said sometimes if someone likes us you literally have to hit us over the head with a billboard sign to get your point across sometimes unfortunatly..if not we will just pursue the friendship we started, because we love and value are friends so much on any level.
    He may have been testing to see your reaction about mentioning the other women. However if one cap likes you, they focus intently on you too. The eye contact is a major one. If they are looking at you like you are the only person in the room-you usually are in our heads then.
    So he may just be putting his feelers out there to see how you react to him probing you. Becuase its a "safeway" to test it. (even though its a flawed test I feel, still I know some to pull that) I dunno what to offer as advice though.
    I think in any case-if your situation is healthy and he is available, everything else makes sense, and you like who he is then, why not to push the envelope a bit and see where it takes you. Do you want to wonder or possibly be a happy woman with a great cap then? If you want him let him know in a sweet way you can find youself. If its anything, caps hate game playing, they will flirt however no games they are attracted to straight forward assertiveness from someone and honesty. If you are honest with us, its like you just bought us a home really. WE abhor anything fake and superfical. So the fact that you can be blunt and honest may get you exactly that you wish for, if that is what you truly desire and if not, most caps will still respect you and be compassionate about your feelings.
    So if you got it and want it, give him a try, but thats just my veiwpoint. I wish you luck!!! smile