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    Four neighboring signs in four different elements...That's Me...
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    Posted by SagittariusInLove
    Posted by Chuckcem
    Posted by SagittariusInLove
    OK, I need advice from you. so I have a little situation I met an Aquarius guy on Halloween night we had a blast he spent the night after that he text me every day we talk every day we went out the following week again and he spend the night again spent the whole weekend we had a great time he kept calling me looking for me liking all my pictures on social media just gave me all the attention I need it. Following week I went out to his place because he asked me to and I spend the night it was late we ate watched a movie and went to bed, when I got home he was still great on the phone but that afternoon slow down. He stop texting me and I stop texting him too because he pulled away. The weekend came Saturday & Sunday he looked at my stories & he didn’t like any of my pictures on social media he didn’t comment on anything he didn’t text me he didn’t called me either. I got some advice on here telling me to reach out last night which I did I said hello and he said hello & then he was going to sleep so he said good night and I said good night. This morning he said good morning he wished me to have a good day I tried to keep the conversation alive i said I missed his face and he replied that he missed mine, I tried to keep chatting but it wasn’t the same anymore we talked a little bit here in there I ask him questions he answered them each time and that was the end of it I haven’t heard from him since he has looked on my stories on social media he hasn’t wrote to me he hasn’t called me he’s not making any more effort at all anymore. He went from texting and calling all day and liking all the stuff I posted to nothing. If I text he responds but he doesn’t keep the convo going. Should I just drop it now!? I mean I tried right I did my part... I reached out after he went cold I kept it light and friendly but nothing worked.


    So take my advice with a grain of salt. I'm not an Aqua myself, and the guys are typically different from the gals in Aquarius. Likewise my last situation with an Aqua woman didn't work out, so getting a second opinion is worth it.

    That being said, your scenario sounds very similar to the others posted here (including my own). The Aqua was pursuing you and pushing things along at a steady (or even accelerated) pace, then cooled off entirely inexplicably. One thing to remember with Aquas is that they need to recharge. After a lot of social interaction, they need to detach and cool off for a bit. They don't really say anything when this happens, which comes across as rude. This is especially true when an Aquarius starts feeling emotional toward a person.

    Aquas are great with logic, but awful with emotions (in general, some are better than others). They are the water bearer. They hold their emotions (water) outside of themselves. That doesn't mean they lack emotions. In fact, they are VERY emotional, but they choose to keep a metaphorical lid on it. Having such a wealth of unchecked emotion at their disposal unsettles their more rational minds. So they detach to figure out exactly what they are feeling and weigh those feelings with the rest of their thoughts, lives, etc.

    Since Aquas are detached from their own emotions, they don't always understand how their vanishing acts affect other people. In their minds, they should be able to withdraw from a situation to gain more perspective without needing to give prior notice. Additionally Aquas are prone to overthinking and overanalyzing. An Aqua can spend a lot of time in their heads and by the time they come back around, far too much time has passed. If the Aqua becomes lazy or has no real interest in a person, they'll stay gone.

    That being said if you've already reached out to the Aquarius and he's made no real attempt to push things forward, then leave him be. Reaching out to an Aqua at some point during their vanishing act is recommended to show they you care about them. Beyond that though, you can't force anytihng. In fact an Aquarius won't come to you when pushed, instead they'll only disappear more. After enough time has passed in silence, they'll pop up when you least expect it. This usually occurs once you've already set your mind to walk away (or have walked away unbeknownst to them). Part of that is because an Aquarius doesn't want to be ignored by someone they actually like. So if too much time passes without communication, the Aquarius will reach out if they care about you.

    My advice it start doing your own thing. Feel free to even let him know that you'd like to see/hear from him, but if that's not what he wants, there are no hard feelings. In fact I actually recommend dating other people, just in case you meet someone better suited for you. Aqua guys are known to pop out of the woodwork when they know you're moving on from them with someone else. However I don't recommend you try to manipulate this guy by playing mind games, Aquas can pick up on mind games pretty quick, so don't date other people to see if the Aqua will react. Instead date other people so you don't get hung up on the Aquarius guy in the first place.



    I blocked him from my social accounts last night, I decided to move on but today I’m the morning he wished me good morning of course I didn’t reply later in the afternoon he text again good morning and I replied we text a bit but I don’t give him too much attention so eventually I stoppimed replying in the evening he reached out again asking what I was doing I told him I would calm him tonight since I was busy, later that night I did text asking if he was awake & that’s where we’re at. I think he’s sleeping. We will see how he responds tomorrow but it looks like me blocking him and not giving him attention got him looking for me. I guess it shows he’s trying and he likes me or wants to stay in touch maybe?
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    Don't resort to playing games, he'll pick up on it. Blocking and ignoring him is just manipulative. If he is reaching out then speak to him. Let him know what you want. Then leave him alone to figure out what he wants. When you're leaving him alone, live your life.

    So for now stop playing games and tell him that you want to see him.