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    Posted by krysrenee7
    Aquas can handle it when they feel there's still more to figure out when they're NOT emotionally attached to you. Their strategy is to not commit until they are 100% sure they've dissected you to a tee.
    What happens when an Aqua believes (for whatever reason) that there's something they're not being told AFTER they have emotionally committed?? This kind of situation here happens. They freak out. They were already over-analyzers naturally, but the tendency to over-analyze in these situations turns up 10 extra notches.
    I'm not saying that you literally must've did or said something that led him to believe that you're not telling him everything. BUT if in HIS mind, he believes so, then that explains his demeanor with you.
    Also keep in mind that every Aqua has the battle of heart vs. mind at different time periods. I'm sure you've heard the rumor that Aquas can be 1 way when you meet them & then do a complete 180 once they've attached to you. It's true lol
    And if their partner got so used to the Aqua being 1 way, it's very confusing & almost bothersome when they notice not just a little change in the Aqua, but a HUGE change, even if the change was technically good (more affection, openness, vulnerability, etc. all of the sudden)
    If he's just now going through the battle of heart vs. mind (AFTER he's already emotionally attached to you), then everything he's doing/feeling is completely normal & natural for an Aqua. It sucks for you as the other person lol but nonetheless, there's nothing uncommon or unusual about an Aqua needing lots & lots of time to dissect something/someone down to a tee.
    Perhaps you thought Aquas only stopped doing that once they emotionally attached? Not necessarily. Usually they get the mind vs. heart battle out of the way BEFORE they commit to you. In fact, the winner of that battle is usually what decides for them whether or not they'll commit to you. But in this case, it seems that battle was a little delayed

    correct again.