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    AquaFish. The Aquarius whisperer
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    Posted by Timon
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    Posted by Antiochus
    I honestly don't think this would be a good idea. Not that he would mind if he isn't against such "useless" things in general but regarding the overall picture of the balance you described between you two it's not really fair.
    While all is good it might not be a problem but it could come back to haunt the relationship.


    Really? If you love a person and you see that he/she wants something very badly you would mind?

    The only reason she is thinking about it is because she is with him. Otherwise she would have probably bought it by now.


    If the balance of expenses is fair I wouldn't have a problem with it as the other person can do with her money what they want. If it isn't however I can see that becoming a problem over time as imbalance in relationships is always a problem.

    Who cares about the balance. If the person I am with wanted anything so badly I wouldn’t mind to eat pasta for a month just to see them happy


    I get what you're saying but we're talking about a designer bag. If the person I was with would let me eat pasta for a month so they could get a designer bag I would be out the door so fast lol.


    Really? Lol
    It’s not about the bag. Is not like she is buying all the time. She will use it and enjoy for years to come.
    For me is a give and take and if my so is happy I would be too, and it would be a mutual thing. I would never tell him not to buy something if it means a lot to him.


    Hell yeah! And it is about the designer bag lol. Who would choose designer bag over food?Laughing

    It's another thing if he needed help with the essentials like rent, medicines or something and I was poor and didn't have the money to give then I would help in anyway I could. But if he chooses a designer bag while he lets me eat poorly. Hell no. Then I would think he is an idiot lol.

    I would say if she can afford it and she values it and it makes her happy she should get it. But I think people need to be some what compatible on what they value in life or problems will arise. If he doesn't see any problems with it then it won't be any problems but if he is a person that thinks those type of things are waste of money then that can be an issue. That's why I said she should just ask what his opinion is on it. It's not asking for permission. It's asking to find out his opinion.
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    For me is not about the bag but anything that would make your so happy and it’s not a necessity.

    But I agree that if they are engaged and living together it should be a good conversation to have