I think you’re absolutely right for
1) prioratizing your relationship
2) prioritizing your financial goals
In a mature manner he should choose to spend NYE with you because
A) anniversary sentiment > partying with friend
B) his friend will be there w his gf and i promise u he wont miss a beat if the Taurus is not there w them
C) there are other chances to take Ryan out
D) a grown ass relationship should prioritize their partner over being a 3rd wheel to a friend
Guarantee you if he explaines the situation to his buddy his buddy would be like aww sux man ok cool see u later lol
Whereas you’re actually having a heartache over it. So priorities, priorities, priorities.
Also i know some ppl are like that ir parental BUT ur just laying out the realities bcz u have the ability to foresee patterns.
Hopefully im late to the game and ur bf woke up from a very obvious decision.
I think you should tell him “ why dont u talk to Ryan first and see if he can give u a pass to spend time w me?”
But wtffff it hurts to ask people to prioritize u when u give them that priority on your own.
Hence why u might be on different pages when it comes to planning for the future.