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    Joined dxpnet on March 24, 2018.
    Posted by krysrenee7
    1. I'd be willing to bet you $ 100 bucks that he's seeing this mysterious girl that he shrugs off to you, swearing that she means nothing to him. Bull. If she was THAT much drama, she wouldn't have been relevant during any convo you 2 were having. They're probably on & off. When they're having issues, that's when he appears back into your life; when things smooth over, that's when he randomly "forgets" that you exist again.
    2. Sure, Aquas are known for disappearing, BUT here's 1 thing your story is missing. Aquas generally do this when they've already had time to attach to you in some way, even if just a little bit. I'm not saying that it's impossible for you 2 to have a strong connection just over the phone, BUT you guys haven't done really anything yet to warrant him having any feelings for you, therefore the "disappearance" act doesn't apply to you in this situation.
    3. If there's a person he's "disappearing" from, it's probably his girlfriend or this mysterious woman.
    4. Trust me, he didn't "forget" that he'd made plans with you. Aquas NEVER forget. Accept that he literally chose to ignore you. Don't lie to yourself. He got every single last text/phone call from you, but he made the DECISION/CHOICE NOT to respond to you. He's showing you better than he can tell you that he doesn't have respect or consideration for your time. Want that to stop? Stop being so willing & available every time he comes back.
    5. Stop making excuses for him. Aqua or not, he's a grown ass man. And a real man knows that if he considers a girl to be worth it, he'll do everything he can to give off the impression that he IS interested vs. what your guy is doing & sending you all the signals that he's NOT.
    6. Don't trick yourself into believing that he gets a "get out of jail free" card all b/c he's an Aqua. Yes, Aquas disappear alot, BUT just b/c we're known for this does NOT mean that it's ok. Sure, some of their reasons for disappearing are justified the 1st 1 or 2 times, but 4-5+ times later? Oh no, it's either b/c he's NOT that into you or b/c he doesn't see you as long-term potential, thus he's only giving you the minimum
    7. This situation is a prime example of why they advise ladies NEVER to make someone a priority when they're only making you an option. Stop being so available & stop letting him get away with it when he disappears & randomly decides to come back days later.

    great advice