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    I'M EVERYTHING FORBIDDEN & TABOO
    39 years old female from GA, USA
    Joined dxpnet on September 10, 2017.
    Posted by VenusAquarius
    Posted by TaurusInShania
    Posted by VenusAquarius
    Posted by TaurusInShania
    Hi everyone, been awhile... I’m a Taurus but for the life of me I can’t figure out this Taurus man. Before you read I just realize that he’s been giving me clues he liked me and I never picked up on it until recently but now that I have it’s like a test or not sure, just need guidance: anyways...

    So I frequent the same Studio and use the same engineer. Before I didn’t realize he was making subtle passes at me (going on 2 years I’ve been recording there with him) then it hit me one day that I liked him more than a friend. It takes me awhile to get comfortable. Well I never came out and told him but I asked for his number and he never responded so I Unsent the message on Instagram (you can do that now) I know he saw it because he responded the next day saying he’ll have my song ready but didn’t mention the number (I asked him about the song and eased in the number the day before and then retracted it) he was also inconsistent after that with giving me my song... I guess he wanted me to chase?

    I don’t and actually blocked him. When he realized he sent me the song via email without saying anything but it has things to fix. I unblocked him then a week pass nothing. Blocked him again, he sent the right version so I unblocked him. But I was so angry that he didn’t apologize or say anything that I blocked him yet again.

    He’s never been inconsistent with me. Matter of fact during that recording he was even more romantic than before, and I asked if he was dating and a lot of personal question which he answered and didn’t hold back. Very transparent. Even made sure I got to my car as it was a late night recording. So I thought his inconsistent meant I took him being nice the wrong way and he just wants friendship. But then when I blocked him the last time he blocked me back. Thought that was the end. We don’t follow each other so that means he checks my page to know I blocked him.

    I decided to check one more time after a week and he unblocked me with a meme saying, just because your pain is understandable doesn’t mean your attitude is acceptable...etc.

    Yes I know this is tic for tac and we’re acting childish. I am passive aggressive when someone slights me and doesn’t apologize after all I’m still paying him (he has offered and done things I didn’t pay for by the way) Maybe he did that so I could confront him and talk to him I don’t know. Also since he unblocked me, his number is now on his profile. Like he’s making up for it in a passive way also (could be the Pisces Mars?)

    I do not want to make the first move and I meet again in a week to record and I’m just lost to this behavior. I also still like him more than a friend and realize this is why I am acting childish because normally I would be done. I can go back to being friends if that’s what he wants but he confused me very much and I’m lost.

    He’s
    Taurus sun
    Cap moon
    Aries Venus
    Pisces Mars

    I’m
    Taurus sun
    Taurus moon
    Aries Venus
    Scorpio Mars

    Any help please I would appreciate it. I did leave out some stuff but I hope this is enough.


    Do you want to be in a relationship with a passive aggressive man?
    Can you imagine the slights and tit-for-tat of two passive aggressive people?
    Have you analyzed the detriment involved in business relationships that turn romantic?
    Could it be your first offense was taking so long to notice him? Which started this whole "gotcha last' reaction?
    Couod it be that it's all about revenge for you not noticing him?

    I've been there. Shit got cra-cra.


    I can’t even deal with myself being passive aggressive ugh. I’ve been in business relationships it was the men who couldn’t handle it since I’m in front of the camera and they’re behind the scenes it caused more pain. So maybe it is a bad idea. But we make great music together he brings my project to life and that I don’t want to lose so maybe it’s not a good idea to move further.

    Yes I’ve considered the possibility of now he thinks oh now she sees me, but why didn’t he give up after awhile? Like he never opened up to me so I just thought he was being nice until I asked about him being single and a lot of personal questions that night and I was shocked how open he was... but of course I got scared that finally an honest person is in front of me when they’ve done nothing but sabotage me, he stayed true until this incident. Honestly I have no clue. I will continue to record with him, and only time will tell.


    You are dealing with a fellow Taurus who is working from the Scorpio side of the axis.

    You slighted him by not noticing his affection. He could not enact his revenge until you finally noticed. The whole time you went unaware, he has been plotting and exaggerating the slight.
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    Makes perfect sense now, but I must tell you that I am very good at revenge myself. His slight will only irritate me, more than hurt me... how do I get back in his good graces? I know it will take time, but the slights won’t work on me... part of the reason I hadn’t notice other things before, been shielding myself for sometime against men so I shut him out too, not realizing. Now I do, how do I get back in his good graces after his revenge?