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    Queen of Carthage
    Joined dxpnet on September 14, 2018.
    Posted by Ellygant
    You can never know every nuance between a couple. However I have been deeply appreciative that I am friends with a few people who entrusted to me more honesty than most about their marriages.

    From my understanding, there were always times of deep unhappiness and disconnection in every one of them. Each couple chose to learn more about who they are as a couple and individually from those phases though. They could have chosen to walk away and learn other things. I’m pretty sure for at least one of them I thought they should too at one point. But again, the whole not knowing thing what’s behind closed doors, they chose to stay and the difference with each other and their individual selves is amazing.

    So I definitely think it’s possible. But it’s not always going to be what you think or hope, but I see that as a beautiful thing.



    Half end in divorce and some are cheating or unhappy but stay together, so the chance of being happily married seems out of reach for most people. Seems like shitty odds.