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    Joined dxpnet on January 15, 2019.
    Hey guys! So I’ve been having a really hard time these days especially because of my long time crush. He is a Virgo and I’m an Aries woman. Long story short, I grew up very over weight my whole childhood up until my second year of college. Let’s call the Virgo man Dan. Dan and I grew up together since elementary school, my feelings for him intensified first year of high school. Although we knew each other at a young age we were never close through out high school. I would just admire from a far and watch him cycle through a couple girlfriends,until end of senior year we really got to know each other and became apart of a close knit group. Then first year of college came, and I found myself snapping/texting dan everyday until winter break. I thought we had a real connection going. When we returned home for our thanksgiving break we were inseparable. He bought me his school hoodie, go out to eat dinner, watch movies, go together to parties, and talk until 4am in the morning. I thought we had a real connection, and I was falling for him extra hard at this point. So after thanksgiving break we went back to school and after a couple of weeks we came back home for winter break and that’s when things got confusing for me, although we would hang out alone and in groups he would always flirt enough but not enough to make it into a relationship. Also during that winter break he would talk to other girls and I was just a complete mess. So I decided to confess but not in the “hey I like you let’s go out” way, but instead I said “hey let’s not be friends because I like you and you hurt me” and this was all done through text. Also while texting him I asked him if he ever had feelings for me but he never answered that question, instead he was upset with me for trying to ruin a friendship. So eventually I apologized and said let’s just be friends and so we remained distant friends. Those couple of weeks after we’re very difficult and I just felt like I was going to implode. But after a few months I met my exboyfriend and I forgot about Dan but dan was always in the back of my mind. Also I forgot to mention when I met my ex I lost a lot of weight and was in sophomore year of college. I had a pretty healthy relationship with my ex then and with Dan. Because I was so occupied with my ex, Dan seemed like a good friend. Even though my time with my ex was short I was still doing good with my feelings for dan. Until end of sophomore year came and I found myself in confusion and hurt. It was always a pattern. Every break we would hang out alone and have really wonderful times but by the end of the break we were not on talking terms. Usually what happens is we go to an event or a setting with our friends and we’re together most of time but eventually I start talking to other people and dan gets quiet and upset. Asking if we can go home and being the stubborn confrontational Aries, we start to argue and I ask what’s wrong and then he just completely shuts me out. Then we don’t talk for months/weeks and slowly we get over it and we’re back at square one, flirting and having really good genuine times.
    Now fast forward to 2018 our senior year thanksgiving break, we were on really good terms again we would go clubbing with other people and it was just a fun time. He met a lot of my friends from school and we were constantly talking on social media. Then winter break came and Dan and I got invited to a ski trip. This was when things escalated, he was not only flirty but was very touchy touchy and made a lot of sexual advances in a jokingly way. Of course me still having a thing for him enjoyed it and it was back and forth. After the trip, we would hang out a couple of times throughout the week and it was genuine and we had amazing times. Until the day before I go back to school he was being super rude to me and was bragging about girls he was with until late that night prior. I was just confused as to why he was being rude and also not to mention he cut me cold turkey. He stopped all texts and interactions on social media. And being an Aries I confronted him asking why he was being rude, what made him upset, and why was he avoiding me and not talking to me. He avoided literally my main questions and just gave me bullshit answers like “I’m not upset, I just want to enjoy my break” or asked stupid questions back when I asked the questions. So currently we are not talking and I am very hurt, and I feel like this is cycle and I’m exhausted.