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    Joined dxpnet on June 21, 2015.
    Virgo sun
    Scorpio moon
    Leo Mercury/Ascendant
    Cancer Venus
    Libra Mars/Jupiter

    emotionally and mentally abusive. very good at manipulating. gaslighting. anything negative- he did it. we were young, but it definitely damaged me. I never had healthy functional relationships until... 2016. That relationship had ended in 2011. It lasted from 2008-2011, because he would manipulate me back into the relationship by threatening suicide amongst other things. He once told me he stabbed himself in the stomach because I wanted to leave him. The next day I asked to see it, and he changed the subject. I knew it was a lie. He also was a pathological liar. He lied to me telling me his mom was dead as an example. Low and behold... not dead. Many other lies like this were told throughout the relationship. Once we broke up and he tried a new tactic and said to me that he hoped I’d get hit by a bus and die so he could go to my funeral drunk and laugh because I was pathetic and ugly. Good times. 3 years of that.

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    Aquarius Sun/Mercury
    Capricorn Moon/Ascendant
    Aries Venus/Jupiter
    Sagittarius Mars

    Used to think he was the love of my life. Just unhealthy for me. He was a user. Or at least he used me. I’d give him money. He was really... just a good hustler realistically. Overall he’s not a bad person. Just not good in relationships. Well... not good with me anyways. He had a weird power over me. My Sun conjunct his Pluto. It was definitely felt in this relationship. Not a good feeling. It can be a good feeling though. I have that aspect with my current boyfriend, and he doesn’t abuse it. Thankfully.

    Pisces Sun/Jupiter
    Sagittarius Moon/Pluto/Ascendant
    Aries Mercury/Mars/Saturn
    Aquarius Venus/Uranus/Neptune

    I added outer planets since he was significantly younger than me. Well... 4 years. He lied to me about his age. He had narcissistic tendencies. Definitely would gaslight me. If I was upset about something he’d make it about him. One time I talked about how I felt like he never wanted to hang out during the day and do weird, fun activities like I like to do. He told me I was trying to make him feel inferior and “how dare I.” I was the one who felt inferior. It was a mess. He made me feel bad once saying I didn’t check on him during a family emergency, and when I mentioned it to someone else they said “he didn’t have an emergency, it was a family event. Not an emergency.” So there was that. Also when I confronted him about that and his age he denied both. He made the lie bigger about his age actually and created a new string of lies. A couple of friends of mine got him to tell the truth though. This was after I had blocked him and cut him out of my life. There was a lot more to it than this, but it was two months of extreme emotional pain. I really liked him. But my Venus was square his Neptune. I definitely do NOT recommend this as a woman w a Man’s Neptune in hard aspect to my Venus. It might be easier the other way around, but it was an exact square for us... and very apparent. He was certainly the deceiver. I don’t think he meant it as bad as it turned out. I think his goal was to impress me with some of his lies. As for others it was just a test to see if i cared. He had Moon conjunct Pluto natally. He’s not a bad guy. Just not a good guy for me.

    These are my most toxic relations/hookups. Whatever we want to call them. The Pisces was from April-June of 2018. It took months to get over that short period. i really liked him. It was... very painful.

    Now I have my Gemini, and I love him. He is the light of my life