I only do deep bonds...if it ain't deep its because Im honestly not invested. But even with the deep bonds... sometimes I don't let the being ignored (which isn't necessarily being ignored ignored...just not being answered in a timely fashion...doesnt have to be right away...i know people are busy etc) bother me and I'm not sure why...maybe I just feel more secure so I don't see a sense in being paranoid. If someone makes me feel insecure...then the paranoia surfaces...which makes sense. It's not even anything like...oh you are cheating on me etc...it's more like don't play me for a fucking fool type thing so I sabotage before that can happen I guess.