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    Cancer Sun. Libra Moon. Scorpio Rising.
    34 years old female from New Orleans
    Joined dxpnet on October 21, 2017.
    Hi all!

    I’m SO sorry this is so long. Please bare with me!

    I’m having a little trouble with a Leo. I’m a cancer sun with a Libra moon and Leo Venus. It’s my first time ever even really being interested in a Leo sun (also a Gemini moon and Leo Venus). We actually met 2.5 years ago while he was in town for one night only. We only ever kissed that night and when he left, we texted back and forth about how we really felt a connection with each other.

    We kept in contact since that day. We’d usually message back and forth through Instagram dms a few times a month and texts every now and then. I was in a serious relationship and I recently came to find out he was in one for a little as well. No biggie. We weren’t in relationships when we met/kissed. Fast forward to this past November. We’re both single and he wants to come visit from California after Christmas to see if we’d work. I told him he could come visit. I didn’t think he’d actually come. But he did. And I was nervous af.

    He flew in New Years Eve and it wasn’t weird like I feared it may be. We had amazing sexual chemistry and he honestly couldn’t get over how good the sex was between us. I was excited about it as well. We spent a week together. He’s in the entertainment biz, so he’d go to coffee shops during the day to work and I would do my own thing. I was always excited to see him when it was time for us to see each other after working. All I knew was that I really did like him. I knew that he really did like me. My friends all kept saying how obvious it is that he’s into me and likes me. He and I talked about him even moving down here. We both want kids and what not, and with him in his mid-30’s and me in my late 20’s, it’s something we both want sooner than later. He kept feeling as if he was overstaying his welcome and I think it’s because I can be a bit shy and get in my own head, so every now and then I can come off a bit aloof. I apologized to him for it and he said it was okay. His last night here, he told me would love to see me again and that he was worried that I would fall in love with someone else in the next two months. Two months because he would be busy with work, and wasn’t sure when would be the next time he could come due to the work.

    Well. Things were good after he left. We both knew we missed each other and wanted to see each other. He would send me pictures he took of the two of us. He asked me to come visit him two weeks ago and I told him I could come any time. He asked me to come 2/11-2/14 which I then realized I had something to do for work on the 13th but I could come a few days after the given dates or the second week in March after some city events that would be going on. He then said he would like to come for the events. I told him I would love for him to come and that my friend and boyfriend would be visiting as well and that it’d be a good time. He told me the dates might work and that he’d get back to me.

    Last week he messaged me “love you” at 130 am his time and I thought that was kind of weird. He doesn’t really drink at all, but I thought maybe he did that night which is why he sent me that. I told him that I missed him and that I must see him soon. He didn’t reply. Well on Sunday I texted him good luck since he was up for an award at work, but a few hours later he texted me letting me know he didn’t get it. I comforted him and he texted me once again with “love you.” Followed by “I’m sorry I wasted my time working while I was there clearly it was a waste of time” and this time, I said it back. Because I do care about him and love him. I told him he worked hard and that’s all that matters.

    But the weird thing is, he hasn’t brought up coming to visit me or me visiting him again (since the last time, which was two weeks ago). He didn’t bother telling me happy Valentine’s Day either. Am I being a psycho who’s overthinking everything? I’m just confused. Is this grown ass man playing games with me and should I move the fuck on? Is this typical Leo behavior? I even told him while he was here that I was an extremely monogamous person and that I wasn’t looking to waste my time. What should I do?