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  • Posted by PurplePassion38
    Posted by stillstillwater
    Posted by PurplePassion38
    Posted by stillstillwater
    Posted by PurplePassion38
    Ditto. And I am sick of being the venus person always.


    lol im sick of being Pluto. Let's switch! Big Grin

    Trust me Venus gets it easy... but what don't you like about being Venus person?

    LOL. It feels the opposite to me. Pluto really has all the power. When you guys are done it's done. Sure in the beginning the Venus person gets all the attention, but pluto ultimately makes the final decision.


    true...that's a fact. But there's a lot of pain that is involved in that process and decision. I dont know why as Pluto person it always feels like Venus is just not in it. I don't know if this ever changes with the commitment and deepening of the relationship.

    For me it's more so uncertainty as to the sincerity of pluto. It feels like I'm being love bombed, so I'm invested but cautious. I like to move slow, but when there is a venus pluto connection pluto wants to move at lighting speed. It feels too much like infatuation for me, so I pull back. Pluto decides to explore greener pastures. And I'm like...but what about me?
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    Awww that's so sweet! I'm starting to understand why it feels uncertain. I'm actually in a siutationship with Pluto/Venus aspect and I've really tried to step out of my own experience/ego to understand this person and now I can definitely see areas where they have their own uncertainties and insecurities.

    For Pluto's side, the love is sooo obvious that we just don't understand why Venus doesn't feel it...or why Venus doesn't reciprocate... and we understand that there's no promise in life and love but we want to try so badly. It's a constant putting yourself on the line and doing things you've never done for someone else, only to have Venus reject it (it might seem in small ways but it feels so extreme.. the rejection that is). I've really had to build my own self-confidence and self-worth to now be around this Venus person and not feel rejected.

    Now my goal is just to be more gentle and easy going... to not be so intense and go with the flow.

    here are some relevant songs smile
    I gave you all the love I got
    I gave you more than I could give
    I gave you love
    I gave you all that I have inside
    And you took my love
    You took my love



    I should be so hurt
    'Cause your rejection is so obvious
    And I feel stupid
    And I cry, and I cry, and I cry, and I cry, yeah
    But then I tell myself
    That it will be okay
    But it's not true
    I still want you



    A friend indeed, come build me up
    Come shed your light, it makes me shine
    You get the message, don't you ever forget it
    Let's laugh and cry until we die
    If it wasn't for you I'd be alone
    If it wasn't for you I'd be on my own
    Don't wait 'til I do wrong
    Don't wait 'til I put up a fight
    You won my heart without a question
    Don't wait for life