update- he left me a voice message this morning..
he never got the card!! hahaha but is "f***ing intrigued" as to what it says hahah oh my goodness so typical for me to get the address wrong! ( some random person has probably opened the card and pocketed the $ 50 i put in it!)
i tried calling him but had to leave a message so i told him what it said.. no response from him as yet