Posted by dilettante
Posted by Jules-ll
Posted by dilettante
i have a fairly active romantic life. ive dated many ppl, have had many ONS, open relationships, situationships, long term monogamy, LDR, etc... i also go through unintentional bouts of celibacy, usually 2 years at a time. i recently came out of a celibate spell, in september. i do not do any form of online dating.
i am historically attracted to addicts. almost everyone ive dated (for more than 6 months) has been an addict of some sort: namely alcohol, heroin, or meth. i have also been in 2 physically abusive relationships & often seek violence during sex w/ a trusted partner.
my mother raised me to be the rock of the family so, in my love life, i need to be the stability, although i long for someone to stabilize me (all that stupid air in my chart).
venus in cap: if im not working hard for it, i dont deserve it.
Your dating history and predilections for addicts sounds familiar, I've had my share but more of a workaholic type. We both have 12th house mars singletons.
an astrologer once noted that my neptune is in the anaretic 29th degree. it makes a wide conjunct to my venus & is part of a stellium. ive been in, & am currently in, very neptunian relationships.
hoping one day i’ll finally find the one that heals, instead of disillusions.
i really dont like my 12th house mars... wish it woulda moved a lil further into the 1st house... i’d be unstoppable lol
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You and me both...we're always the nurturers not the nurtured. I took on a mom-like role at a very young age. My mars is conjunct neptune, so cie la vie. I kind of like my mars in the 12th. This placement has a lot to teach us about the otherworld, and Aries energy rubs me wrong.