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    Joined dxpnet on August 20, 2018.
    So I've been dating this cancer guy (Leo moon) for almost 4 months now and I must admit, understanding his personality is hards, frustrating and emotionally draining. (I am aries sun, virgo moon). It is almost like walking in egg-shells around him!
    Set aside his moodiness and going from fooling around to total silence in a snap, it is harder for me to understand the controlling side of him. Its is almost like he wants me to become a different person- think his way, dress how he likes it, do things how he finds it right, etc etc. I have even been called names and critiqued badly only to, how he explains, help me to become a better person. If I disagree or try to put things into perspective- Its just not acceptable and I must only agree with him or, better, say nothing to contradict. Sounds sick, but I really really need to understand if this is just cancers typical "psychotic" behaviour. On the other side, when he is "in the mood", he can be the sweetest, silliest and caring person! He keeps initiating dates, does kind little things to show he cares and so, But it is quite draining if I again do/say smth to piss him off for no reason almost every time we meet.
    Also, are Cancers generally home bodies? It almost feels like we could just lay in bed in front of TV for the rest of our lives, if it was his choice.

    Yes, I know there is a lot to say about self-respect and getting out of this crap, have thought about it, not gonna lie. But, if Cancerians could back this behaviour just a little and help me to find the right way to get to him, I would really appreciate it.