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    Sun: Pisces Venus :Aquarius
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    Posted by greylatern
    Posted by gia
    Posted by NoName282
    Posted by gia
    My title says it all - how frustrated I am. How can someone lack even basic to basic sense of understanding ?!?! Is this a Virgo thing or my boyfriend is just being a controlling jerk? He has to have everything his way and if I don't, then he gets so mad that he doesn't even hesitate breaking up. You'll laugh at the immaturity if I give you 1 example which happened less than 5 minutes ago.

    We both are working on an important project which is expensive and we are equally contributing but he's paying from his card and I have transferred my amount of share to his account. We are supposed to buy some important parts for the project today and we can't delay it any further so he's suppose to make the payment today. Yesterday, I changed my whatsapp display photo and he said that it looks bad and i am must change it. I changed it to something else and again he said it looks bad. So I asked him for his opinion because he has tonnes of photos of me clicked by him. He picked out one and asked me to change it to that. Now the thing with that photo is that he altered the original photo and edited and increased the size of my boobs and ass (weird, IK!!).
    I have cousins and family on whatsapp and they are pretty conservative(I told him about it) and so I put up the original photo as my DP and not the altered one which he asked me to. HE STOPPED TALKING and it didn't make sense to me because i told him the reason!! Half an hour ago I texted him that he's gotto pay now for the project else we'll be screwed. He said "first change your DP, or forget about the project".

    I can't believe that the guy lacks basic sense of understanding. Is this typical of a virgo guy? How do i handle this? I can't let him control me this way. He clearly lacks understanding,even basic sense of it. A relationship can never ever work this way. Please don't bash him,I've done that already. I just need some good suggestions on how to handle this behavior.
    Thanks!!


    Pisces and Virgos don't get a long
    (talking from experience - my parents)


    I have read it all over the internet that it can be either a hit or a miss relationship. It all depends on how much can you adjust.
    Do you mind sharing some bits about their relationship? as to why and how they don't get along? Feel free to ignore if it's too personal xD


    Virgos picses work just fine.
    .... after you realise you litterally have to teach each other about yourselves, point of view, and stick to your guns/call each other on our shit. You will have to stop filter as much and speak your mind with a explaination. Opposition relationships can be actually worth having. Communication is key. My picses friend taught me to ease up and stop being so critical. I was the one who engaged this way admittedly. I was new to astrology, so I was very inquisitive in general. The important thing is I worked to understand her and spoke my mind without jugdement on either end.

    You already pointed out he is spoiled. Controlling because he has always had his way. It was allowed without concesqunce. Is it his fault he was trained that way? No. It's adult time now.

    Anyone else might kick him to the curb but God bless picses. You need to set your boundaries. Remind him when he crosses the line of said line. Focus on understanding and the exchange rather then result at first. Avoid personal attacks.

    If things get toxic, don't care how much you care walk away. When you do though let him know why. That way he can't ego up and find a excuse as to why you left other then the truth. Which is his behavior( words and actions).
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    Thank you for your reply. You're spot on about literally having to teach each other about our different personality. Communication is the most essential key here and he's not too good at that. I am all up for a fair argument or discussion but when he's angry he just won't listen to one word you say but just keep exploding his angry feelings. He gets highly impulsive, aggressive and ugly mouthed. If you say something bad on the scale of 1/10, he'll hurt you back on the scale of 10/10. That's how he behaves when angry. I call him out on this behavior. I tell him he's too impulsive and irrational when angry and he internally agrees with me. He is way too high on personal attacks.
    Sometimes I really wonder just how did he survive in his previous serious relationship of 2.5 years with his Leo ex girlfriend. He used to love her way too much until she cheated on him twice. He said they hardly fought in comparison to how much we do.
    I know I haven't been the best girlfriend either because even I have done things which would drive anyone crazy but I am trying to get better for us. I hope this gets better, that's all I hope.