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    Joined dxpnet on June 16, 2019.
    Hi, I've read a lot of posts on here, but this is my first post. I'm a Virgo man & have been in a relationship with a Gemini & Cap man before, but this new one is blowing my mind & confusing me unlike anyone before....

    Basically, we've known each other and made small talk/comments on instagram for years & I recently struck up a conversation with him on there, we exchanged numbers and he expressed interest in me & have been texting. Right off the bat, he asked what I was expecting and looking for, to which I said I wanted a relationship and am not one for short term things. He said he was looking for exactly the same & we continued talking. He asked a lot of questions- family, friends, interests, etc & some of the conversations got pretty deep, which made it seem like he was truly interested; he even confessed to having a crush on me the past few years on instagram.

    Anyway, I have yet to get a date with him. He works overnight and has weekends off. We initially said one weekend, but I ended up having an issue and couldn't make it. The next couple of weekends he was busy. He said he was free the following and we made plans, but then they fell apart bc of an emergency he had. So I basically asked him again when we could meet up for the date & he apologized and said he feels terrible because he hasn't been free & it's stressing him out because he wants to go on a date but things keep coming up & he's going for a new job, so it's even more stressful. So I simply said not to sweat it, we'll meet in a few weeks when things calm down.

    In the meantime, I've sent some texts like "Hope you're having a good day" to which he always replies something similar & one night he even sent me a nice text though he knew I was sleeping for "something I could wake up to." Well, I felt so good after getting that text & asked him about meeting again and he said he definitely wants to but needs to check with his work schedule. He continues to reply to every text, sometimes late or hours later, but he does reply.

    It's been about a month and a half and I'm not sure what to do at this point. I feel like I keep asking and getting yes or maybe, then it never happens. I've given a bunch of ways out; for instance, when I asked if he still wants to try to go on a date, he said Definitely- he could have easily said no or he's too busy or something. I know patience is key with cap men, but I'm really not sure what to do at this point. If I keep asking, I look stupid, but if I don't ask at all, I fear he will lose interest all together or forget about me.

    I don't know if he's playing games, back-burning me or just isn't interested but doesn't want to disappoint me or something...

    Any advice would be appreciated.