Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom Posted by jeane
hmm, what are you really upset about?
you're not fighting over the bed. something has upset you and even though you thought you let it go, you haven't. what is it?
THIS
There's often, if not always underlying anger about something completely unrelated, something he did or a trait of his that is working on your nerves, which becomes impossible to ignore seeing as you live together. This is just how it comes out, bit by bit until there's a big blow up. Unless you dig deep and come clean about it?
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We dont live together, but we see eachother 5xs a week. With 2 to 3 nights of sleepovers.
I really dont know what bothers me about him though?!
He actually always keeps his apartment clean. He just brought a new vacuum and is obsessed with it. Hes very independent.
The one thing he asked of me was whwn i leave in the morning (2 hrs after him) if i could make the bed. Which isn't an issue.