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    Sag sun/ Gem moon/ Taurus rising
    Joined dxpnet on July 03, 2019.
    Posted by Brandynicoleee
    Him: cancer sun/moon with a leo rising
    me: sag sun, gemini moon, Taurus rising

    About two months ago I met this cancer man. we go to the same university so I had seen him around before but we have never exchanged words. I would often catch him staring at me at different events at school and later as I got more interested in getting to know who he was I noticed that we were already following each other on Instagram and twitter. He would be the first one to watch my stories and was quick to start liking all of my pictures. one night he commented on one of my stories and ended up sending me his number so I texted him for a day or two but I wasn't too interested because my ex (Sagittarius) and I were attempting to work on things so I stopped texting cancer guy for about a week. after that I posted one of those little question games on my Instagram stories and he commented asking where I'd been so I decided to just text him again because nothing with my ex was going to change. we texted for a few weeks until one night the conversation got sexual and we ended up hooking up and it was amazing. it seemed like that's all we could talk about until we did it again. we ended up hooking up twice before I went back home for the summer and continued to text/call each other. Most people think that sags and geminis are these non emotional people but I get attached too quickly for my own liking and I love hard and give way too many chances before I consider you non existent. After a while we would get into little arguments about really dumb things that he'd take the wrong way or I didn't like. One day I tweeted that I needed a new roster because when I asked him who is he dating he said that he didn't talk to anyone it really hurt my feelings but he's so nonchalant about everything I felt like he wouldn't care. He ended up seeing my tweet and sent it to me laughing and I asked if he wanted to be on the list and he said no lol (I'm petty ik) so long story short we got into an argument about that he's telling me he doesn't care that I tweeted it and my stance is why send it to me then... I know what I tweeted and he's never interacted with my tweets before so why all of a sudden that's the first thing he notices. after that we got over it and continued texting and calling each other but I started to feel like if we weren't arguing about something we were just sexting and it started getting old fast! well his birthday was in the beginning of july and he went to vegas with his friends. I texted him happy birthday he said thank you and I told him to have fun and didn't text him the rest of his trip so that he can enjoy himself cause according to him he doesn't like texting me cause we're always arguing or I'm always in my feelings so he says (which I have more than normal lately) I think cancer season def affected me a lot considering I have no water in my chart. but anyways after he got back from his trip it had been days and I still didn't hear from him. he commented on one of my stories but that was about it. when I asked him if he had and issue and why he hasn't texted me he said "do you want me to text you every day?" I said no. but the thing was we hadn't text each other for over a week and being the over thinking person that I am I assumed he had met someone else and was more interested in them. He tweeted something about his wife being in LA which he also visited while he was gone. and I was just like damn I know we both said we don't know what we want yet but if you already don't see a possible future with me then just communicate that so I can move on. I was so upset that I didn't bring it up. I ended up blocking his number and taking him off my social media so that we weren't following each other. he ended up messaging me on Instagram and asked me why I blocked him and I told it was because I was upset and he doesn't care so he told me to keep him blocked. I cried for about an hour lol and unblocked his number and apologized and told him how ive just been going through so much and ive been so emotional lately and his response was god bless I hope everything get better so I just left it alone and didn't text back. Our plan was to still see each other once school started I still want that but I don't like chasing at all. ive done it with my ex and it left me heart broken and I try not to be so emotional but I also don't want to turn into this unemotional scorned woman with trust issues. I wanted to give it a chance and not bring my issues with my past relationship into it. should I just give him his space until he reaches out, should I be the one to reach out after a while? or forget about him completely?


    Update: I texted him and told him how I would like to talk to him everyday if possible because I enjoy talking to him and he basically told me that he’s not focused on a relationship right now and that he doesn’t want any distractions while he’s working on his career I’m assuming. But he wanted to be cordial and there’s “no bad blood” on his end. I told him I understood and if he wants to get drinks or do stuff like that when I come back to town then I’d be down for that and he agreed. Then a few hours later he texted me and asked was I “out of my feelings yet” and was I happy that I cut him off the other day because of when I blocked him basically teasing my outburst the whole conversation. Wasn’t really sure how to take it cause he was smiling the whole conversation.... which since I met him he always looked so mean (never smiling) and I literally had to ask him to send me a picture of him smiling before. I feel like I’ve sat down and processed everything and I’m in the headspace to just get to know each other the right way and nothing more. At least for now