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    at first i played with the idea that they may be playing hard to get but when i look at it the way i would at myself, i've never played that game but just LOOKED like i did.... never liked to waste my time but in matters of mutual interest, i come off very passive and i do get passive. but that's just because i need to be sure that it IS mutual.


    thats understandable tbh. Would you change your mind quickly on a person? Like if you were into them and knew they were into you, would you ever be like nope gotta go bye? lol virgos seem so detached you never know


    i can drop people in a heartbeat when i don't care much for them since i rarely am emotionally-engaged. unlike some people, i can give someone a 'chance' quickly but just as quickly discard them if it's just not 'right.' but i can come around the idea again at some point as well too (not likely but there's a CHANCE). and the crazy thing is, when i get too obsessed then i feel like i should take a break from everyone for a while.

    if i'm comfortable (mentally/emotionally) with someone, that gives them more chances tbh.


    Is there a point in time at which you wouldnt drop a person? Like how long do you have to be involved with them not to drop them?


    honestly, i think it takes a long time. i need to become emotionally-engaged for me to able to hold on. but i can get sexually obsessive too. either one can make me hold on but neither are total guarantees that i won't let go if i get that 'not right' feeling.

    in short, i can still always let go but that doesn't mean i won't come back around.

    i'm a mutable after all.


    That's wild to me, a fixed sign lol. I dont understand the concept of letting people just go.
    The virgo I dealt with warmed up slowly, seemed really into me asked me out'/put in effort etc, and then dropped me it seems lol. I legit dont know why, I didnt do anything specific. Im far too direct and logical for this type of stuff, man virgos are wild lol


    i let people go not just coz of actual/perceived issues that hurt me or i felt insecure about with them being the indirect cause of it but there's also that question of MUTUAL INTEREST. most Virgos are very insecure people, doesn't matter how good-looking they are, it's one of our well-known unfortunate traits. instead of overcompensating for that, we just leave the person alone. why force our interest in someone who lies there like a dead fish?

    i need to feel a pulse from the other side to keep my own fire going. my obsession with this guy for example, should i sense in the future that there's something questionable about the pulse he's sending me in return, i CAN let him go just like that. it'd hurt me but i can do it in a heartbeat coz it's the right thing. i'd rather we be sincere about these things than for things to feel 'forced.' in this way, you can say we're very idealistic people.


    Yeah that makes sense tbh. How insecure though?? I feel like Virgos need constant reassurance or they assume otherwise. Yet when you do it a lot, they get smothered. Weird balance lol.


    i feel like this is why i keep attracting gemini moons coz i'd get reassurance then i'd feel smothered then i'll stop engaging with them but then they'll give me space so i will feel less pressured then reach back out and i'll be replying the way they want me to like i need it alternately. but the time gap should just be a couple of hours. and that's exactly what i get from gemini moons.

    virgo moons are.... more slippery.


    ooh i feel that haha. do you avoid confrontation too? at all costs??
    ive noticed with ALL the virgos i know, if they THINK im mad at them or avoiding them, they just leave me alone until I reach out...my zodiac isnt like that im like HEY U MAD WASSUP BOO to everyone lol


    sometimes coz i have Libra mars 1H

    if it's something i feel can be resolved immediately then i'd start shit over it but if not (like i feel it's long and hopeless) then i just ghost


    If a virgo says they are figuring things out and where they want things with you to go...is that a bad sign? lol


    that''s a good sign

    bad sign is when we ghost haha


    I confronted my virgo for ghosting LOL and he said he never meant to and that hes been trying to take things as slow as possible cause hes figuring out things and where he wants thins to go...
    does that sound like BS or genuine ?
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    i believe him

    i'd ghost if there's no hope