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    Just be yourself, everyone else is taken!
    Joined dxpnet on February 23, 2013.
    Posted by Erinelda
    Posted by saggurl88
    Posted by dilettante
    this also is a way of him showing that he is willing to give you his time. asking for more communication is showing that he is willing to make space for you.


    Yeah, We had that talk too and I told him I don't need space. He said he controls himself cause he's smothering. I told him he doesn't have to worry about that with me cause I like clingy.

    But since it's still early. I'm easing him into things. I don't ind his behavior at all. I just want to see everything Big Grin


    I hope he takes that from you and becomes only moderately clingy. When you said that I had a flashback of me thinking there was no such thing as too clingy, I can handle a few texts or calls, why do people get all bent out of shape.. it's no biggie...

    Then I met this one dude online. He asked me a constant barrage of questions, so many I ignored most of them and then I went and did this dishes. I came back to six texts, two were asking where I went and four were apologies. I told him I did the dishes and asked him to please slow down on the texts because I am getting tired. I went to take a bath, and when I got out it was the same thing but only about eight texts. I asked him why he was doing this when I asked him to slow down.
    He played the victim, he never did anything wrong etc. I felt so drained, I don't know how he was doing it but it was like he was trying to suck my soul out lol.

    So now I am invested. Please let me know how clingy his clingy turns out to be, I am curious now.
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    Well I don’t think he will let himself go that fast. He’s being super cautious, which is fine. I’m not cautious at all. I show all affection and attention upfront. I just don’t do words of endearment along with them. It has the same push/ pull affect because it’s confusing that I can be so loving but not say it. This is the way I work though. I never say it until a guy does and I’m always full on straight from the beginning, so there’s never any doubt. But you only get that in person cause I won’t reach out lol.

    I’m a weirdo.

    I actually have an Aries that is texting me like that. Sending me all these damn love songs. I answer only once a day with him and I’ve told him to stop spamming my phone with music videos from YouTube because I’m at work and can’t watch them anyways.

    So now he just sends as many texts as he wants and I answer them after I get off work and text for a very short window of time. I’ve had to give him boundaries of how much time he consumes from my day. 🤓