I always get taken advantage of. I address it. I will still deal with being taken advantage of, and I will pursue other situations outside of the person taking advantage of me.
Then when confronted about said outside activities, I tell the truth, yes I am dealing with other people, I wasn't but I gave you numerous opportunities to correct your behavior and you didn't.
it maybe passive aggressive but, I addressed it with no resolution on their behalf, so I find other outlets.
@saggurl88 Some say I'm the bad guy.... I'm just trying to survive