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    34 years old female
    Joined dxpnet on June 17, 2019.
    Posted by nanobot
    I don't listen to compliments like that typically, they are nice for 5 seconds for my ego, but it means very little in the grand scheme of things.

    Does he respect me? Does he think I'm intelligent? Is he showing me that he cares?
    Are more important questions I ask myself. I don't like flattery, no not really.

    And yes, all men are capable of and do say bullshit to get laid lol. I wouldn't just assume that of someone immediately though unless they are being particularly corny and lame with their flattery, or your gut tells you he's full of shit.


    I totally agree with this. I don’t like physical compliments too much, especially in the beginning. Someone telling me they enjoy talking to me and value my opinion means much more to me than some guy saying “you must have a lot of admirers coz your hawt”. Like, 🤮
    Physical compliments are nice if they’re in the moment, spontaneously. After we’ve already established a mental connection. Otherwise they just seem too superficial to me.