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    Aqua sun, 6x cap stellium, sag mars, leo asc | Married to a Cap
    34 years old female
    Joined dxpnet on February 08, 2015.
    Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
    So far, Libra and I are leaning more towards nay, and the more we wait, the more we seem to find reasons not to become parents, so here a question to those of you who are already parents; in all honesty....if you could turn back time, would you still choose to become a parent? I know it's a tricky question to be truly honest about, but still I'm curious about the why's, either way.


    We‘d do it again! Our son was a planned pregnancy and we are so happy that we got gifted with a healthy child. We want a second child but when our son turns 4.

    Despite all the hard work, sleepless nights in the beginning etc etc for us it is so worth it and we do our best to provide for him so he grows up happy, healthy and loved.

    Of course it changed us as individuals and also as a couple but we manage to keep us present as a couple who needs alone time, date nights etc. our son (1.5yrs old) has a daily routine and structure, he goes to bed at 7-7.30pm and after that we have the evening just for the two of us. That was really important for us, not only giving him a secure routine but also making time for us as individuals and couple on a daily basis. We also go out on date nights 1-2x a month, every month! His grandmother comes over and we go out and have fun. To us this is essential because although our child comes first, we are not just parents but still a loving couple with needs. So we take our time and plan wisely so we stay happy and strong as a team.

    for us it was the right decision which we made after many discussions and thinking and especially calculating things through. In my honest opinion this is very advisable IF you get to decide wether or not to get pregnant. Think things through - although no one and nothing will ever be/go perfect - thoughtful planing and talking about it really helps setting a good foundation to build on. Especially regarding finances, we decided to „start“ once we knew that my husband‘s income would be enough to provide for us.

    I truly love being a mother/housewife/wife ❤️ and I give my all every day, I‘m proud of what I have become and how good I manage it all while our boy grows up so happy and loved. And even on bad days I‘m still happy to have what we have.

    On a last note, I think that not every woman is made for this but I also believe that women who think they aren‘t meant for this would be surprised of what they are capable of. It can go both ways