Posted by maiden Posted by Haruuka Posted by maiden Posted by enfant_terrible Posted by Haruuka Posted by enfant_terrible Posted by Haruuka
Hiii everybody
So what does it mean, when you love someone, love when you’re near them, but you don’t like it when you stay around them for too long
Like you just wanna be alone?
Or feel good when the conversation with them in the phone is finally over.
And you sure that you love them, but you wanna keep distance between you and them?
It means you need and appreciate your time and your space. I'm like this. Has nothing to do with the other person
So, when the other person is kind of clingy, what you do about that?
I’m talking about cancer venus here😔
Lol I'm actually Cancer Venus, still need space and self-time though. All ppl can manage to be away from eachother, even clingy ppl, but clinginess is due to insecurities i think.
Also cancer venus ^^^ I second this.
After reading this thread seems like maybe the other person has the problem and you're taking it on.
Is it that you need to find a way to tell them this?
He is cancer venus in 4th house
He also hacked my phone to see if there is any other men, and he didn’t find anything 😓
The thing with him, he always think that I have other men, cuz a lot of men likes me, Now he stop it with asking about other men, but don’t like it when I’m away from him, will start to do things like guilt trip or stuff:/
ugh. guilt trips. ugh..cancer placements.. ugh.
One thing about cancer placements is reassurance. Especially with EARTH placements who just get angry or frustrated
(you have any earth placements?) when cancer placements get a bit clingy (or guilt-trippy) they're just expressing hurt or fear, and all you need to do is come up with something gooey and sweet to say or do to reassure them that you love them
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Yeah, I’m aware of this, and always tell him sweet things, but I can’t do this every day lol
But yeah I will try to do this😃
Mmmmmm...I have saturn in capricorn, also neptune
And my sun and mercury both in 10th house, does that make a difference?